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to correct you. care and control usually is to one party so as not to disrupt the child life.if flat haven reach 3 years can still write in to HDB to appeal to "sell" the flat on the open market rate... if he wants to buy over your share (provided he is above 35years old) than u will have to ask someone to come see the house value but that is upon approval from HDB... that is what HDB told me when i went down to ask abt my flat of 3 years plus...
as for divorce... u are not working mostly u are the care giver of the child and u will get the child's care and control and custody usually is share... unless ur husband gives up......
but yes, you will still need to wait till marriage is 3 years to file divorce..
to correct you. care and control usually is to one party so as not to disrupt the child life.
from what I know from lawyer normally custody is joint and care and control is given to caregiver and access time to the other party.yes to only one party which is the one always been the care giver... and there are some case the care and control and custody are shared... jus like my soon to be ex husband's brother, his is shared for care and control as well as custody (contested).. same to my brother's case (uncontested) also shared... so i seriously dunno how they sees it...
from what I know from lawyer normally custody is joint and care and control is given to caregiver and access time to the other party.
Hais u must hv missed him a lot!! I can’t do without my kids even for a day!yea that is what i know too... but now im fighting for my son cos that bastard snatched my son away dont let me see my son... but cos my son not with me.. so i scare i might not get my son back... but since birth till abt 4 years old, im the sole care giver of my son.. he didnt help.... he go out with bitch daily.... sigh... why must ppl make things difficult...
from what I know from lawyer normally custody is joint and care and control is given to caregiver and access time to the other party.
Yes he can keep ur son till the judgement is out.. Hais u must hv missed him a lot!! I can’t do without my kids even for a day!
Now ur son with him how Long le
yes but am not working now so I doubted that initially afraid he will take away the care n control
yea that is what i know too... but now im fighting for my son cos that bastard snatched my son away dont let me see my son... but cos my son not with me.. so i scare i might not get my son back... but since birth till abt 4 years old, im the sole care giver of my son.. he didnt help.... he go out with bitch daily.... sigh... why must ppl make things difficult...
Ask lawyer to ask for interim child access.
Also get a PI to check on him. See is he taking care of your child or simply leaving child at home with maid or other ppl. Then use the evidence to fight him in court.
U will lose care n control if u don’t do anything pro active now
yes. cos divorce might drag n he refuses to let u see child, u can ask your lawyer to do it separately.I can request? Pi is too ex... might not be able to afford... but if got message from that bitch ex husband that the bitch son at midnight wan go toilet he open door saw my hub sleeping on the bed.. and i also got ask his working friend that he got work night shift anot.. cos he lie to his dad that he work night shift... but actual fact is go the bitch house to stay
yes. cos divorce might drag n he refuses to let u see child, u can ask your lawyer to do it separately.
yes, PI cost money but if they can get u evidence to win your child care and control, isn't it worth it?
get a experience PI.
it's not just a few photo.
u must prove that he is not frequently at home. and not accompany the child
your lawyer seem to be not so re active, u ask her then she tell you. if it's like this better get another better lawyer.
remember this, this is your only one chance to get what u deserve and u cant afford any cock up by lawyer
Hi I will try to answer your question:-Hi all hope someone will be able to advise me.
our house and marriage have not reached 3yrs but we decided to divorced by the 3rd year we have a child who is in primary school
can he buy over the flat? I am not working will I lost my child custody?
I can’t state very clear here,if anyone can help pls let me know I hope to communicate via PM..
thank u!!
I'm not sure if it is legitimate for your husband to block your access to your child. You may want to speak to your lawyer to understand the various option you have. Alternatively, I will seek advise from my buddy who is a big shot in MSF(Ministry of social and family), I will try to find out whether the authority can step in to help you to gain access to your son. Allow me to have sometime as i usually meet him over the weekend for coffee chat. However, if you are not keen for the authority help, simply drop me a note.Yes i have asked my lawyer.. she say wanna do must asap... is another application.. awaits her answer for the fees.. yes and i might be going ahead with the pi.. lawyer got some contact for pi not very ex.. 2-3k for some photos showing he is not at home... but my concern is, is it sufficient for me to show that he is not caring for my son with that few photos? Sigh...
I'm not sure if it is legitimate for your husband to block your access to your child. You may want to speak to your lawyer to understand the various option you have. Alternatively, I will seek advise from my buddy who is a big shot in MSF(Ministry of social and family), I will try to find out whether the authority can step in to help you to gain access to your son. Allow me to have sometime as i usually meet him over the weekend for coffee chat. However, if you are not keen for the authority help, simply drop me a note.
John
interim access doesn't take month to approve.nope.. im very keen... and thank you for your help... i ever thought of applying for the interim child access, but that is a seperate application which cost $3500..... way too much for me liao... and my lawyer say it will take months to approve also.. sigh...
interim access doesn't take month to approve.