hi everyone
thanks for the advise and well wishes
hubby does know that it is better for us to stay home, but that day i was also sick and hubby's parents might have been ok with me and zoe stay at home but hubby must still go.. and i was pretty sick too, don't think i could have handled sick zoe on my own so we all trooped down to MIL's place to show face, then hide in hubby's old room for an hour and left..
anyhow it's over.. all these just go to show how my PILs are..
now trying to psycho my mum into agreeing to help me out half days when baby no. 2 comes.. my mum is the only grandparent that zoe will allow to carry/touch her.. she will pull away if it's my dad/PILs esp if it is my MIL.. so if my mum will agree that would be ideal.. she has this traditional thinking that the paternal grandparents should help look after the grandchildren and not the maternal side.. also if she helps, that my PILs may be insulted..
re: Food
Pammie: i have the tiger food jar- suitable for porridge and soups and the thermos food one with 4 different containers.. Both are good
zoe now eats adult food.. but my adult food has no added salt or sugar and all home cooked.. so she eats things like
-steamed rice
-chicken/carrot/onion soup
-chicken/old cucumber soup
-pork ribs/water cress soup
-minced pork/cabbage soup
-baked pork ribs
-wanton soup
-steamed egg+ chicken/beef/pork
-steamed tofu
-steamed beef
-steamed fish (cod/pomfert/salmon)
-baked cod
-yong tao fu
-fried rice
-fried bee hoon
as for milk.. i give her full cream fresh milk (room temp) once in awhile with her midafternoon snack..
it's challenging trying to get her to eat new things.. she refuses anything yellow like the pastas and doesn't like her savoury meals with cheese on top so i can't do like the baked rice sorts too.. running out of ideas..
anyone has other soup receipes? zoe particularly likes soups..