Fushia: dun be upset. If baby is unwell, daddy should be the person to tell ur inlaws abt nt able to attend that gathering. Getting a ill baby out to be in contact with more ppl wont heal the child and which in turn making their sickness worse. Simple logic like this, hubby should know and he should be educated.
When i brought clarisse to my inlaws, and realise hb's nephews are sick, i was already fuming mad.. how come they sick again. I was very tempted to bring clarisse home that very afternoon, but i am to do tt, my inlaws will know. But i told my hb while we went for lunch.
This coming friday, hb intends to leave clarisse and maid with my inlaws while we go for dinner. But i told him, as long as the 2 kids over at inlaws plc are still down with flu or running nose or any sickness, i wont bring clarisse over. I rather i go somewhere near for dinner then to sacrifice her getting sick.
More impt, is my hb very understanding, as he knows looking after a sick child is the harder than looking after a playful child. HB must always be the pillar to support and back us up.
Fushia, practice an open discussion with ur hb. tell him how u feel.
Talking abt letting FUMES... i also got some to let go!
Stupid SIL, damn idiotic! knowing her elder son is having running nose, she early morning let him drink YOghurt and fed him with sweets! Her maid told me... she actually fed him in the early morning with yoghurt when they were in Genting, when that plc is damn cold for the child!
now the kids are sick, she dun refrain them from all these sweets and cold drinks.. and even give them more! wat kind of mother is this!
Clarisse never spits out her food, dunno what happen when i left her and maid at my inlaws, she picked up this habit. My maid told me clarisse saw the 2 kids spitting out their food! kaoz.. now clarisse spits food out! waliew...