好就听你的意见建议。会忙找工作, 迟些才讲发展。
Zhu Sheng Niang Niang (注生娘娘)
- Thread starter faithmummy1706
- Start date
谢谢老师的回复。
那是不是说durians related offerings like durian cakes, durian puffs, etc. all cannot be offered? But can offer things like prunes kueh lapis? Because I heard some people say anything that 已故亡人 likes, can be offered. But others say only can offer non-spiky items.
We go 扫墓 and 善堂 because paternal and maternal grandparents are rested at different venues. So, have to do it separately. Then, on Qing Ming day, have to pray to paternal grandparents at home (altar). My mom is busier as she will prepare food one day before Qing Ming and bring to each of her brother who have the altar at home and ask them to help her offer the prepared food the next day. On Qing Ming itself, after she is done with praying at home, she will travel to one of her brother's house to offer joss sticks again!
Sorry, 老师。I can't seem to find related posts using the search engine. Can you clarify if this means that if food offerings are made to ancestors, irregardless of whether the food offerings are made at cemetery or 善堂, they can be brought home to be consumed? Or must the food offerings be consumed at cemetery or 善堂 and do not bring home? Or is it solely food offerings made to ancestors at home (altar) only, can be safely consumed?
I was browsing through some threads and am wondering if 老师 can recommend a reliable fengshui master? Thank you
那是不是说durians related offerings like durian cakes, durian puffs, etc. all cannot be offered? But can offer things like prunes kueh lapis? Because I heard some people say anything that 已故亡人 likes, can be offered. But others say only can offer non-spiky items.
We go 扫墓 and 善堂 because paternal and maternal grandparents are rested at different venues. So, have to do it separately. Then, on Qing Ming day, have to pray to paternal grandparents at home (altar). My mom is busier as she will prepare food one day before Qing Ming and bring to each of her brother who have the altar at home and ask them to help her offer the prepared food the next day. On Qing Ming itself, after she is done with praying at home, she will travel to one of her brother's house to offer joss sticks again!
Sorry, 老师。I can't seem to find related posts using the search engine. Can you clarify if this means that if food offerings are made to ancestors, irregardless of whether the food offerings are made at cemetery or 善堂, they can be brought home to be consumed? Or must the food offerings be consumed at cemetery or 善堂 and do not bring home? Or is it solely food offerings made to ancestors at home (altar) only, can be safely consumed?
I was browsing through some threads and am wondering if 老师 can recommend a reliable fengshui master? Thank you
toblerone
Well-Known Member
老师不正面回答有原因的。
我的妈呀！榴莲啊！榴莲、‘流连忘返’才糟糕！
在世的时候，已经吃过了。That's enough. 人都已经走了，就要与阳间彻底隔开。还要鬼来流连忘返呀？！
老师倒想知道，到底是谁在说非得要准备已故亡人（生前）喜爱的食物？
准备一顿统统是生前，他/她爱吃的食物，是不是希望老不走的鬼魂经常去你家找你睡觉看电视吗？比方，你整天在你家门外喂猫喂狗，你说猫狗会不会自动上来找你讨吃？道理是一样的。
来自中国的新移民问老师：“老师，我爷爷生前喜欢吃狗肉，在新加坡已过世一年了，祭日快到了，请问是不是该找肉狗来拜祭他？”
老师：“不要跟老师说你要宰你邻居家的狗来祭你的爷爷?”
就算你不供durian cakes, durian puffs，农历七月一到，鬼想吃榴莲口味的食物，难道不会飘到Geylang/Sims Drive吃毛山王榴莲, Bengawan Solo cake shop吃durian tarts吗？
所以，简简单单一点吃的就行了。鬼吃了durian cakes, durian puffs，以为他们会跟你讲谢谢吗？
还有，老师可以告诉你，鬼魂听经很舒服的。若你吃长斋念经给你祖先，不得了了！保佑你人生顺顺利利。祖先的鬼样子越来越好看！到点的时候，会在梦里给你看他的样子。
希望你读了这个帖子之后，跟人解释的时候，一定要有要有信心！不要说，“我听说的，我听某某人讲的。”
Last edited:
toblerone
Well-Known Member
拜自家的祖先的供品可以食用。老师是你的话，吃家里拜的最‘安全’。
比如，你把食物放在公司共用的fridge，你等确保其他同事不会吃吗？同样，你把要拜的食物摆上common space，然后走开，你说其他鬼不来吃才怪。道理是一样的。
老师给你解释这些，你说你妈妈会依旧如常做还是会听取老师的建议？有时候，最好别知道。老师写出来恐怕会吓着人，何况你们不一定会做。那么，不如你给老师讲一讲，你会怎么做呢？
农历七月，蹲在阴暗路边上的鬼在吃东西，老师才不想管事，看看是马来鬼还是印度鬼在吃我们阳间华人拜祭的食物。知道太多，菩萨神明会骂人。要是老师遇到有缘的人，已经有学佛吃素了，老师不介意讲灵异故事增强他/她的信心与正念。
注意：共给往生者和七月拜鬼（寺庙普渡、中元普渡会）的一概不能吃。要吃家里（七月拜鬼）的贡品有一招，但老师不教，也不会说。还有，有很多时候，不回答是原因。
倘若你能吃素念经像 @Rubilite 一样精进就好了。怎么学习念、怎么放生、怎么消灾、念经遇到什么麻烦、有没有鬼来敲门、念经后有什么变化等等。这些疑问才是对你有意义有帮助。
不要执着该如何拜祖先。自己的业没消，祖先保不了你。真是的，还倒关心起已故亡人和自己的肚子了。买少一点省钱，吃不了没办法。
曾经说过了 Click here read post #1516.
1. 不能给人介绍。如果这样做，老师会给人诬赖 - 诈财抽佣金。
2. 老师懂得风水却给人介绍风水师的话，这个说不过去。*比如，你是GP，你的病人要你介绍其他好的GP，你说别人又会怎么想？
3. 老师会看风水，但不想给人看也不想赚这钱。*比如，一个法律系毕业又有律师执照，他不收钱不给人打官司。实际上，他还是合格的律师。老师认识一位lawyer friend，可是他的职业不当律师，偏爱做其他的事。别人请教他专业法律常识/疑问，简直是对答如流。
4. 有一种情况老师给人看风水 - 那就是对方吃长素决定家里要设佛台。老师不收费不敛财。在新加坡若能找的一个不收费的风水师的话，老师倒是想去认识他。
Last edited:
toblerone
Well-Known Member
工作一大堆，你还要挑啊？
没挑.... 只是停工多年，没信心被禄取
Last edited:
toblerone
Well-Known Member
明白了,谢谢老师。
bewildered
Member
老师早安，
想请问一下，您说每个月有四天是不好的。能否让我知道 Jul 和 Aug 哪四天不好？我目前怀了宝宝并会 c-sect 因为之前有开过刀。这么巧，我的老公在 end Jul to mid Aug 会有 reservist. 我的预产期是 11 Aug但是医生要在大概37周后开刀。很怕选了个大错特错的日子。读过您的posting,我不要求孩子大富大贵怕她承受不起，只希望她能平安顺心过一生。
非常谢谢您。
想请问一下，您说每个月有四天是不好的。能否让我知道 Jul 和 Aug 哪四天不好？我目前怀了宝宝并会 c-sect 因为之前有开过刀。这么巧，我的老公在 end Jul to mid Aug 会有 reservist. 我的预产期是 11 Aug但是医生要在大概37周后开刀。很怕选了个大错特错的日子。读过您的posting,我不要求孩子大富大贵怕她承受不起，只希望她能平安顺心过一生。
非常谢谢您。
toblerone
Well-Known Member
老师，谢谢您的解释。
我现在刚开始吃素。连家里养的狗狗我也让它吃素
请问老师，how do we know if the deceased have really left for where they really belong? 其实虽然外婆已近过世了20年，我常常在低落或茫然的时候都会梦见外婆。譬如以前留学时，因为从小娇生惯养，什么家务都不会做。连煮水泡杯面都不会！那时候常常会梦见外婆。梦见她就在那陪着我，帮我打扫卫生让我好好读书。 近来工作不顺就一直觉得自己很衰。 然后，也梦见外婆。梦里她似乎帮我洗了衣服，然后跟我乘电梯，绕了条较长一些的路要回家。途中，捡到一些有monetary value的东西。读了老师的posts， I can't help but wonder if my grandmother had left?
Pardon me，老师。On your post on 七月拜鬼，我们七月拜祖先算不算七月拜鬼？Does it mean that all food offerings cannot be consumed, irregardless of where they are being offered? Even if the food offerings are being offered to ancestors at home (altar)。 They fall under the same category （七月拜鬼）？
我现在刚开始吃素。连家里养的狗狗我也让它吃素
请问老师，how do we know if the deceased have really left for where they really belong? 其实虽然外婆已近过世了20年，我常常在低落或茫然的时候都会梦见外婆。譬如以前留学时，因为从小娇生惯养，什么家务都不会做。连煮水泡杯面都不会！那时候常常会梦见外婆。梦见她就在那陪着我，帮我打扫卫生让我好好读书。 近来工作不顺就一直觉得自己很衰。 然后，也梦见外婆。梦里她似乎帮我洗了衣服，然后跟我乘电梯，绕了条较长一些的路要回家。途中，捡到一些有monetary value的东西。读了老师的posts， I can't help but wonder if my grandmother had left?
Pardon me，老师。On your post on 七月拜鬼，我们七月拜祖先算不算七月拜鬼？Does it mean that all food offerings cannot be consumed, irregardless of where they are being offered? Even if the food offerings are being offered to ancestors at home (altar)。 They fall under the same category （七月拜鬼）？
谢谢老师眷顾提示工作的事。正在努力找，以经有专业知识了，....老板们嫌弃年龄大，而且是个曾经生意人，
我这个蠢货， 看来会背业了。不忍心，所以帮1979 祈福，又会被讲了,已经自身难保了。可是... 他的妈妈年世已高，而且多年感情，怎么说撇就撇，所以…
Last edited:
toblerone
Well-Known Member
难道你不会换其他工作吗？一定要找回你的专业吗？
知道就好。
有年龄的老婆婆，劝她吃素。趁她在世的时候，你最好别欠她什么。你一个星期抽出一天，陪她念《阿弥陀经》。不用整本念完。念到是 最好的。一个月，念四次。一年内念48次。对大家有好处！很多老人没闻佛法，躺进六块板的时候，已经来不及了。
男人一副贱骨头。随缘，你自己看着办。
toblerone
Well-Known Member
继续。我现在刚开始吃素。连家里养的狗狗我也让它吃素
这个暂不跟你解答。
就知道有人要问得特别仔细。就知道清明、七月要混合来问。
在老师还没回答你这个问题之前，老师出个题(see below post)，给大家参与。
Last edited:
老师,Quiz for Everybody
For each picture (namely A, B and C)
(1) What is the festive occasion?
(2) What are these people doing?
(3) Do you think food offered can be consumed by human? Give reason/s.
Picture A
Picture B
Picture C
这3张照片我都有做过。I try to answer and am interested to know further. Usually, I follow blindly what my parents do.
Picture A - 7月鬼节
A. 老师, some said must pray on 1st, 15th and 30th of that month. For me, I do so on 1st and 30th, ok?
B. For offerings, usually I bought oranges, biscuits, sweets and a pack of pre-pack offering items (tea bag, joss sticks, etc), ok?
C. I noticed there are green and red joss sticks, why? And when we 插香, is 2 or 3 sticks?
D. I did this offering below my block. And usually, I would say, pray for 出路平安 (in this month) on the 1st and thank you for 报佑 (for the whole month) on the 30th. Is this correct?
E. Some say once started with yearly offering, cannot stop, is this true?
Picture B and C looks same to me. Both are offerings to ancester. Picture C is carry out on the tablet hall while B is on the common area outside the urn hall? Oh yes, I didn't see clearly if picture B is purely vegetarian offering.
A. There are a quite a few offerings yearly. 请明, 祭日, 冬日, etc.
B. Usually, we will buy the ancestor favorite food. After prayer, we gather around the area and eat some while chatting among the family members. And we bring back some of the leftover too. I think we cannot eat these since the offering is carry out at public area. 老师, my mum usually likes to buy alot of food. Is this correct? If we can't take these food, food wastage and I feel this is not right. Can we buy more offerings like money, clothings and electronic gadgets then?
C. For joss sticks, is 2 or 3 sticks?
D. Usually, I don't know what to say during offering. 我想以后我会说保佑子孙平安。Do we need to 指名道姓 while praying or just say our name only or just say 子孙来祭拜您? Do they know who we are?
E. I did once yearly for 请明 with my husband for his 阿公 and 阿嬷。His parents hardly went, but I told my husband we must go ourselves every year (after our customary wedding).
老师, both my grandmother and grandparents (father side) are at the same temple. My mum will pray to both sides too but separately (of course more items for the intended one) whenever she went for either side 祭日, is this alright? Her thinking is, since there, may as well pray to the side too.
Sorry, so many questions.
事发之前，我少接触old lady becos son “arrangement“.... just few days talking with her, 我已经注意到老婆婆缺智慧。她年轻有吃素一短时间但放弃。好,就找本阿弥陀经让她念。她和daughter stay, and daughter Christian, very unhappy over others religions she deem as superstitious, esp.she angry with 1979, so against mother helping son. ... 及使 son 有过错，爱子之心可以理解。但是，老婆婆没严格管教，导致如今的悲剧，害人害己。我无能为力，尽力....因为上天有好生之德，对做错事有悔意之徒，我们得仁厚对待， 可是我已分不清是真是假悔意。 近来的他少言，感觉知错(被我凶狠的臭骂)
老师，如果<金刚经>让1979念可以吗？
Thinking of changing career path too! Thanks.
Last edited:
qingqing85
New Member
老师，
I remember that I read that you went to a house, and they placed a lot of soft toys and paintings, and you asked them to remove. (don't know why i can't seem to find it now)
Does it mean that it is not good to put soft toys in the house? If put up photos on the wall is it ok?
I've also read that you mentioned that even though loss of baby is due to miscarriage should still Chao du. I lost my child in end 2013, no heartbeat at week 7 and had to do d and c. But you mentioned that may not be successful. How will we know if it is successful? I am planning to go down to the temple tomorrow.
I remember that I read that you went to a house, and they placed a lot of soft toys and paintings, and you asked them to remove. (don't know why i can't seem to find it now)
Does it mean that it is not good to put soft toys in the house? If put up photos on the wall is it ok?
I've also read that you mentioned that even though loss of baby is due to miscarriage should still Chao du. I lost my child in end 2013, no heartbeat at week 7 and had to do d and c. But you mentioned that may not be successful. How will we know if it is successful? I am planning to go down to the temple tomorrow.
Last edited:
I'm guessing...
Looks like offerings to a recent deceased due to the colour of the attire worn by the people in the picture (素色), venue (by road side without proper setting), timing of the event (at night) and the way the chopsticks are placed. Don't think the food placed on the floor in this way are meant to be consumed by 子孙 after the event ends.
Picture B
Looks like 七月 offerings at first glance. But on closer look, it also look like Qing Ming due to the green and red bags of paper offerings. Food offerings looks like they can be consumed after the event.
Picture C
Looks like offering during Qing Ming to ancestors due to the tablets and the paper offerings of "gold bars", "jeweleries", etc. Food offerings look like can be consumed by 子孙 after the event, as all are nicely packed and presented
Picture ALooks like offerings to a recent deceased due to the colour of the attire worn by the people in the picture (素色), venue (by road side without proper setting), timing of the event (at night) and the way the chopsticks are placed. Don't think the food placed on the floor in this way are meant to be consumed by 子孙 after the event ends.
Picture B
Looks like 七月 offerings at first glance. But on closer look, it also look like Qing Ming due to the green and red bags of paper offerings. Food offerings looks like they can be consumed after the event.
Picture C
Looks like offering during Qing Ming to ancestors due to the tablets and the paper offerings of "gold bars", "jeweleries", etc. Food offerings look like can be consumed by 子孙 after the event, as all are nicely packed and presented
Last edited:
qingqing85
New Member
For those who have done 超度for miscarriage before, please advice if there is anything else I need to do.
I went down to the singapore Buddhist lodge and told them I want to 超度婴灵。The person asked for me and my husband's name then wrote me the receipt..
I was told that I don't have to do anything else already.. but I also read that some of you actually prepared offerings..
Is there something I have missed out?
I went down to the singapore Buddhist lodge and told them I want to 超度婴灵。The person asked for me and my husband's name then wrote me the receipt..
I was told that I don't have to do anything else already.. but I also read that some of you actually prepared offerings..
Is there something I have missed out?
Black Bean
New Member
Hi All,
I have just return 100 red eggs to TPY shuang lin shi... Baby dust to all!
Oh! So exciting! I have been waiting people to return red eggs for weeks! Yesterday I brought my husband to this TPY temple, prayed and hoped we can get the eggs! Today after sent my in laws to 扫墓 I keep thinking should I go to temple again! After read your post, I rushed down to the temple! I am very grateful! Thank you Iwanbaby!
请问Toblerone老师，这鸡蛋是不是夫妇二人各吃一粒？这总该可以吃了吧？哈！谢谢你让我明白我該重新茹素！感恩！
littlepeanut
Member
Hi Toberone老师，我有一些问题希望你有空可以替我解答。
我先生有个外国朋友住在新加坡。因为人生地不熟，年除夕家婆吩咐要拜祖先所以急忙找我先生替他们家买paper money 和 paper iPhone之类烧给他们祖先。
买了之后，先生的朋友msg回来说谢谢，并且和祖先说是我先生替他们买的。
我事后才听丈夫提到这件事。请问会有什么问题吗？可以替人家买paper money 吗？好像有点怪怪的。希望老师有空的话可以回复。谢谢。
我先生有个外国朋友住在新加坡。因为人生地不熟，年除夕家婆吩咐要拜祖先所以急忙找我先生替他们家买paper money 和 paper iPhone之类烧给他们祖先。
买了之后，先生的朋友msg回来说谢谢，并且和祖先说是我先生替他们买的。
我事后才听丈夫提到这件事。请问会有什么问题吗？可以替人家买paper money 吗？好像有点怪怪的。希望老师有空的话可以回复。谢谢。
SteveAu
Member
Toblerone 老师您好，我读了很多你给大家的忠告。自己也开始吃素了。
1） 目前我太太怀孕了（现在第二个月了，不知道在这边问有问题吗？），很想试试用保胎经跟肚子里的孩子胎教。可是不知道可以跟老师要呢？ 如果念保胎经只能在客厅对吗如果我们在家里供奉的观音菩萨面前念ok吗？
2） 老师有说过家里养猫真的很不好，很不幸的我家里有养猫。我有吩咐我太太尽量远离我的猫。（我的猫一个星期有冲一次凉）老师有说过既然养了就算了（我已经养四年了）。我想请教老师如果我的猫有一天过世了，我应该这样处理呢？ 我也
要跟它超度对吧？
3）到时后，我们想决定自然生产。不知道能不能请老师给我们选一个日子呢？宝宝出世后我想请老师为我的孩子命名呢？我没什么要求只希望孩子健健慷慷就行了。
4）如果宝宝出世后要让他/她吃素，我可以从那里知道怎样为他/她准备宝宝能吃的食物呢？
感谢Toblerone老师。
1） 目前我太太怀孕了（现在第二个月了，不知道在这边问有问题吗？），很想试试用保胎经跟肚子里的孩子胎教。可是不知道可以跟老师要呢？ 如果念保胎经只能在客厅对吗如果我们在家里供奉的观音菩萨面前念ok吗？
2） 老师有说过家里养猫真的很不好，很不幸的我家里有养猫。我有吩咐我太太尽量远离我的猫。（我的猫一个星期有冲一次凉）老师有说过既然养了就算了（我已经养四年了）。我想请教老师如果我的猫有一天过世了，我应该这样处理呢？ 我也
要跟它超度对吧？
3）到时后，我们想决定自然生产。不知道能不能请老师给我们选一个日子呢？宝宝出世后我想请老师为我的孩子命名呢？我没什么要求只希望孩子健健慷慷就行了。
4）如果宝宝出世后要让他/她吃素，我可以从那里知道怎样为他/她准备宝宝能吃的食物呢？
感谢Toblerone老师。
Last edited:
bewildered
Member
老师早安，
非常谢谢您的答复与帮忙，真的非常感激。但是我自己过不了自己的那关，因为我的第一与第二个孩子都是 emergency c-sect 生的，也没特别为他们择日，如果为第三择日，一直觉得对他门有点愧疚。所以，我还是想谢谢老师您的好意，但是我想最少帮小妹妹避开大凶之日，所以想请求老师让我知道 Jul 15 与 Aug 15 哪四天是大凶之日，好让我们避免那几天，其他的就是天意吧。
不好意识，今天早上得知 Mr LKY 已过世，非常想到 Parliament House 致敬。这样好吗？还是既然想去哀悼，就不要再想了。
再次谢谢老师。
非常谢谢您的答复与帮忙，真的非常感激。但是我自己过不了自己的那关，因为我的第一与第二个孩子都是 emergency c-sect 生的，也没特别为他们择日，如果为第三择日，一直觉得对他门有点愧疚。所以，我还是想谢谢老师您的好意，但是我想最少帮小妹妹避开大凶之日，所以想请求老师让我知道 Jul 15 与 Aug 15 哪四天是大凶之日，好让我们避免那几天，其他的就是天意吧。
不好意识，今天早上得知 Mr LKY 已过世，非常想到 Parliament House 致敬。这样好吗？还是既然想去哀悼，就不要再想了。
再次谢谢老师。
Last edited:
hopeforachild
New Member
Quiz for Everybody
For each picture (namely A, B and C)
(1) What is the festive occasion?
(2) What are these people doing?
(3) Do you think food offered can be consumed by human? Give reason/s.
Picture A : 七月，拜孤魂，不可以
Picture B：七月，拜祖先，可以
Picture C ：清明，拜祖先，可以
toblerone
Well-Known Member
1. 照片不要大张。鬼上去画像/照片的可能性是有的。老师看到人家的床头上挂着超大型的结婚照都会安静。小小张的无所谓。Click -> post #500
2. 有人形的toy (barbie dolls), 时间久了，同样会有鬼上去的可能性。Hello Kitty stuff toys摆在展示橱柜太久可能有这情况。
顺便跟大家提一下，有关纹身。老师曾经说过了。纹身同样！一般人的身上有纹身，运势好不到那里。有龙、老虎、蜈蚣、蝎子、眼镜蛇、人头，鬼看了很喜欢！Click for YouTube -> (1)(2).
人的身上有鬼，并不奇怪。身上有鬼的人 90% mostly behave perfectly normal. 像这种人运势百分百不好。很多时候，他们自己不知道有副衰相，人见人讨厌。鬼在人的身上待久了就生癌症。
成功率不好说。总比没有的好。
自己不可能知道。除非是给你看/梦到。典型的故事 Click -> post #57
法师叫名字的时候，可能到也可能没来。法师自己本身不知道他们有功力，也不一定知道法会后成功否。Mentioned in past. Click -> post #840 #908
要是自己来的话更好！免费但要吃苦头。
toblerone
Well-Known Member
toblerone
Well-Known Member
问题不大。
你丈夫替人买而没收钱的话，就是免费赠送！这就不行了。
替人买金银纸之类的，哪怕是几毛钱，要分清楚。
老师顺便给你讲解以下几种情况:
1. 你吃素，给同事买鸡饭叉烧不收钱。这笔账算你一份（4/10）。因为是你免费请同事吃。
2. 你吃素，替同事买鸡饭叉烧又收钱。这笔账算你一份（3/10）。虽不是免费，但你愿意替同事买。
3. 你吃素，不太愿意替同事买鸡饭叉烧又收钱。这笔账也算上一份（2/10）。因为你的意念告诉你不要买，只替同事买。
4. 你吃素，已经表态不替同事买鸡饭叉烧又收钱，又补上一句话，“这笔血债去找吃你的人要，不要找我XXX算帐”。这业轻多了（1/10）。这意念是坚信不倒，没有口业，也没蓄意诅咒。老师可以告诉你这账（9/10）会算到对方的头上去。明白了吧？
toblerone
Well-Known Member
首先，你要考虑以下几点：
- 第一. 除非他家属认识你或者你是皇亲国戚。
- 第二. 除非他会跳起来跟你讲谢谢然后又躺下去，或者，他家属会跟你说thank you, please come again.
- 第三. 全新加坡人认识你吗？
- 第四. 要花时间凑热闹还是要交白金给慈善机构？
- 第五. 不妨领教一下国家元首的棺材煞之后，然后跟老师报告。你说好不好呢？
toblerone
Well-Known Member
难得有爸爸上来forum. 客厅念。
保胎经是佛教经典的经文组合。你有心要念为自己好，老师尽力教到你会。
天天点、天天念，观音菩萨保证来。比财神爷、大伯公更容易来。
建议把猫送给有缘人。不然就把猫养到老死就不要养了。老师跟ACRES and cats society的人谈过话，they said love animals. 少来这套。Eat cows and pigs, yet proudly said about loving animals?
猫咪短气了，不用超度。超不出地府，更超不上天。实际上是很难的。梁武帝时代，有位志公禅师就有这神通，飞禽走兽受志公禅师一超，跳出轮回。
猫是畜牲，要一直轮回。轮回定点到了，才去投人。要去投人，非常非常非常困难。除非是猫一直在你梦出现，家里有异常(人的behaviour怪怪)，那就要尽快想办法。明白吧？
下次，有人问你的时候，要有信心地跟人讲。The source is me, 老师不骗人。
Last edited:
toblerone
Well-Known Member
自然生产很好！第一胎吧？现在less than 10 weeks稍微早了一点。10 weeks before EDD再找老师。老师写了不少有关择日生产的posts, 有空的话读一读。
In Singapore, 很久以前，医生给孕妇催生是掉点滴。时间可以拿捏的准。Natural birth is not a problem. 现在的催生是老missy给产妇insert tablets, 自然分娩的时间会拉得很长。择日恐怕行不通。除非是胎位不正或者紧急情况。
In Malaysia, 目前医生仍然给孕妇催生是掉点滴。Through blood infusion催生自然分娩是最好的。可以算得出时间。Within 1 hour time frame "poot"，出来几乎能做得到。在马来西亚，给孕妇择日催生，能受得起福报，自然会顺利生出。
这个没有问题。生了之后联络/提醒。
很好啊！老师非常支持！
1. 你可以跟Vegetarian Society Singapore facebook members (1)(2)交流. Or, other Veg groups also good source.
2. There are two threads in this forum. Click -> (1)(2). Make posts, ask for 坐月 and infant growth diet queries.
很多mummies, daddies and babies are vegetarians．不必担心孩子、大人没营养。若你跟没吃素的人在一起，肯定会被怂恿的。被人‘酸’被人‘讲’的。久了你就习惯。Comparing among all the Asian countries, Singapore rank the tip-top + best in terms of finding vegetarian food/source.
gammahedging
Well-Known Member
Hello bewildered,
不要因为你当时无法择日而感到愧疚。人生短短几十年，无奈之事有十之八九。一个人的造化，有部分是名数，但也有部分是人为。何不放松些，别往过去想？ Sometimes I feel that it is best that you do not know certain things. 既来之则安之。
toblerone
Well-Known Member
老师不想再看。什么1977 1979。老师看了就忘。该说的都说了。总觉得1977年属蛇是个男的，1979年属羊是女的。性别颠倒，差别很大的。
1. 曾经说了，经文别乱碰。
2. 去跑步、晒太阳、游泳！
SteveAu
Member
SteveAu
Member
3） 是的，这是我们的第一胎。真的很感激老师的帮忙！到时后我要怎样跟Toblerone 老师联络呢？用Wechat 吗？好的我会再去看你的择日生产的posts。
4） 我刚刚加了Vegetarian Society Singapore facebook了！ 谢谢老师！
5）老师，我还有多一个问题不好意识。我读到你说不能挂大头照片。我们本身刚刚结婚不久，然后我们在睡床的右手墙壁挂上了结婚大头照片。我们也应该拿下来收起来吗？（挂上的时候有叫我的妈妈看几时是吉日而挂的）拿下来，也要看吉日吗？
applegreen
Active Member
Hi Stevenau,
欢迎吃素，宝宝吃素好也不用怕没营养，我儿子是素宝宝，吃的比谁都壮还有红红的脸颊，跟人家说他是吃素的都没人相信。若你需要素食的陪月妇，我也可以帮你问问。加油哦！
欢迎吃素，宝宝吃素好也不用怕没营养，我儿子是素宝宝，吃的比谁都壮还有红红的脸颊，跟人家说他是吃素的都没人相信。若你需要素食的陪月妇，我也可以帮你问问。加油哦！
applegreen
Active Member
Hi SteveAu,
没帮上什么何须言谢。。哈哈，素的陪月妇和其它的市价都差不多，主要是你买她煮。大概2.3 左右。
没帮上什么何须言谢。。哈哈，素的陪月妇和其它的市价都差不多，主要是你买她煮。大概2.3 左右。
yeah，在顾虑。... 金刚经 和 金刚般若波罗蜜经 是不是同样的经？
不看经书，看看了凡四训可以吧？
在居士林讨回那些second hand 的佛书籍或经来看，会不会不好？
还有，性别没顛倒啦。只是蛇女格性直爽，象男的。羊男却婆妈象女的!
Last edited:
SteveAu
Member
Toblerone 老师, 原谅我有那么多问题。。
你曾经说过“白事”避忌的忠告。。。
白事
有不少人运势低，而不知道自己忌白事的话，吊丧完后的情况很有可能是生病、打骂孩子、夫妻吵架、外面殴斗、惹官非。
若运势偏高的人，不知自己忌白事，吊丧完后的情况没那么严重，不过还是有影响的。
白事有煞（详细不说），加上灵体特多，所以很多时候，人‘沾到’或者被‘煞到’都不知道。这就是为什么人去了丧事之后，流产、不舒服、车祸、不顺利、倒霉等等。不信鬼神的人都会说，睡不好啦、吃不好啦、心情不好啦、精神紧张啦、压力大啦...种种原因。很多人不pantang，那是他们的选择。但有神眼通/鬼眼德人，什么都看得到。即使看得见，也不太要说出来。
那么大概全新加坡人都去参拜lky了。。我们全国的运势会不会不好呢？
你曾经说过“白事”避忌的忠告。。。
白事
有不少人运势低，而不知道自己忌白事的话，吊丧完后的情况很有可能是生病、打骂孩子、夫妻吵架、外面殴斗、惹官非。
若运势偏高的人，不知自己忌白事，吊丧完后的情况没那么严重，不过还是有影响的。
白事有煞（详细不说），加上灵体特多，所以很多时候，人‘沾到’或者被‘煞到’都不知道。这就是为什么人去了丧事之后，流产、不舒服、车祸、不顺利、倒霉等等。不信鬼神的人都会说，睡不好啦、吃不好啦、心情不好啦、精神紧张啦、压力大啦...种种原因。很多人不pantang，那是他们的选择。但有神眼通/鬼眼德人，什么都看得到。即使看得见，也不太要说出来。
- 第一. 除非他家属认识你或者你是皇亲国戚。
- 第二. 除非他会跳起来跟你讲谢谢然后又躺下去，或者，他家属会跟你说thank you, please come again.
- 第三. 全新加坡人认识你吗？
- 第四. 要花时间凑热闹还是要交白金给慈善机构？
- 第五. 不妨领教一下国家元首的棺材煞之后，然后跟老师报告。你说好不好呢？
那么大概全新加坡人都去参拜lky了。。我们全国的运势会不会不好呢？
Toblerone 老师,
I am a new member here. wanted to ask for your advice. I found out that I was pregnant in early Feb and subsequently in mid Mar, ultrasound scanning found out that the no baby growing in the sac. I was advised to remove it which I did. Do I need to carry out "chao du"? Am I not fated to have the baby?
I am a new member here. wanted to ask for your advice. I found out that I was pregnant in early Feb and subsequently in mid Mar, ultrasound scanning found out that the no baby growing in the sac. I was advised to remove it which I did. Do I need to carry out "chao du"? Am I not fated to have the baby?
toblerone
Well-Known Member
No need to quote the entire post.
一辆Airbus A380 载客量600人。一个人感染SARS，难道全部的人都包中SARS吗？全部乘客倒霉被quarantine，或者，哪个要提早到下面报到的，那个就注定躺下去了。
那么，到灵堂吊唁与飞机乘客感染SARS的比喻的道理是一样。
老师讲个简单的比喻。你就会明白了。
一辆Airbus A380 载客量600人。一个人感染SARS，难道全部的人都包中SARS吗？全部乘客倒霉被quarantine，或者，哪个要提早到下面报到的，那个就注定躺下去了。
那么，到灵堂吊唁与飞机乘客感染SARS的比喻的道理是一样。
Last edited:
