Don't u guy think watching porn will prompt u to act out u our fantasy?
Anyway if porn is ok, why is our government making it illegal. Porn cause social problem, watching porn too regularly is definitely unhealthy
Hi desparate_wife, you are asking a very deep subject. Don't you girl loves your fantasy to be fulfilled?
Every man and woman buried his/ her fantasy. I blame it in the word called 'Perception' and that is why I used the word buried. Uncovering the deepest fantasy of your soulmate brings him/ her to the term 'Cloud9'. The trust and connection can be raised to the highest level within a healthy couple. I will give you a few examples at the bottom of this posting.
Why is our government making it illegal? Can our government stop porn entirely? It is an adult's duty to reciprocate towards illegality and understanding the flaws of porn to correctly guide the many little ones (children) in their growing years. No?
Example 1: A man watching a couple having sex in public filmed in porn (He has a fantasy of public sex)
Husband: Dear, shall we try something daring?
Wife: Huh?
Husband: Make love in public
Wife: SIAO AH YOU! YOU PERVERT! (Wife instantly destroyed the husband's ego and he never talks about it again)
Wife: Oh dear, it sure sounds kinky but I really don't feel good that way. Other than public sex, what other fantasies you have in mind for the bedroom? (Wife is being spontaneous, uncovering the fantasy of her husband verbally (it is good enough), continues to capture the mind of her husband)
Example 2: A man watching a couple having sex with different stunts (He has a fantasy of certain positions)
Wife: Wah dear, why you always watching porn? What's so great in there?
Husband: Dear, it is something new to me.
Wife: YOU REALLY HAVE A SICK MIND! (Wife talks down husband. Leaving him with his fantasies till he is back to the screen again)
Wife: Oh dear, it sure sounds exciting! What's the point of just watching huh?
Husband: Yeah! Let's try dear!
Wife: Oh wait a minute. What do I get in return for that? (Isn't negotiating a fun thing?)
Husband: Hmm.. dear you have any fantasy?
Wife: Blah blah blah... (Couple exploring each others fantasies gaining trust and pleasures. After the deed, wife can pillow talks the husband voicing out and requesting the husband to spend lesser time to porn and so on or even watching porn together say 30 minutes a day? Allow him to watch 3 nights in a week?)
The above are just some scenarios that could take place. Again, there are exceptions. I will also leave out how 小三s captured the desires of men they target.
Sometimes, it is really really not all about the deeds. It is equally beneficial understanding how a mind works, exploring together, drawing your soulmate really close to you, etc...