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Hi all, just wanna check if anyone has same issue like me? I know my situation doesn't sound too bad but I really don't like to stay with the my step mil in her house when we are waiting for our bto flat. I wrote so many times asking hdb to speed up but they keep saying its within the stated completion date. If they can put more manpower then it can be completed earlier? I don't really trust my step mil I think partly because of my own step grandma's experience. My dad was abused very badly cos he was sold to a family and that woman ( I wouldn't even call her grandma now cos that thing don't deserves it) that land him in joining a triad and got him in jail last time cos he has no love and no more to turn to. she will whack him with cane and washing board and sweep the plates of food off the table when he is having his dinner ( and he only have one meal a day and he is the last to eat). Cny her biological kids all have $10 as ang bao but he only have $2. The family that bought him was well to do and own land then. When my dad know my mum, she refused to pay a single cent to hold a small ceremony for my dad. When my mum is pregnant with me she chase my parents out of the house n they hv to sleep in sbs buses. U might wonder why my parent keep turning to this woman cos they hv no one to turn to. It's a long story and this avenue is not enough to stay all the details. When that woman take care of me when I was a toddler as my parents need to work then, I gt head lice and fell from stairs and had a scar on my forehead. Her sins are deep indeed. All in all, because of my own experience, I feel step mums are not good people. Perhaps that's y I dun trust my step mil. She certain hv favoritism on her natural child compared to my husband. She say no money to pay for his poly sch fees but got money to send tuition classes for her own son n buy branded stuff. When she cook for us my hubby dun eat n I asked him why he says that she takes those old stake food for a few days n cook. I noticed how for her own son she will invite his frens over n cook fresh food for him and his friends. She once opened our letter HDB sent as reciepnt to us that we paid our deposit and she knows how much is our flat. That's freaking rude. When my hubby's biological brother's brokers' statement was sent then she opened it and says how come he got so much money. Smart right, the otw he types of letter dun open but know how to open this kind of impt letters and she say she dunno English. I drill HDB frequently and tell them not to send any mails to his address and inform
us only via email sms if the key collection comes. No correspondences to be sent to that address!! I study hard to provide for my family n refused to get myself back in this situation of being bullied again. If she do anything to disadvantage is I will not be afraid to put up a fight. I will not let her touch my kid cos God knows what stale things she will use again. I love my hubby but sometimes when I think that we hv to bto and wait and not hv enough money to get a resale then i get a bit resentful. I love my parents n I wan to stay near them, cos of what they hv gone thru'. Sometimes i ask my hubby to come visit them he will say sleepy and tired and wants to sleep. He prefers his own room. We just married but now I m starting to feel cold towards him. I feel like staying at my own home for a few weeks to just clear my mind and maybe knock some sense to him. Sometimes I wondered y my hubby not rich enough so we can get our own place immediately. He dun wan to stay w my family as my place too small. I keep writing to HDB but thats not helping much. Thanks for listening, maybe I just need some listening ears as I can't tell my hubby and my frens and family this and this is causing me imbalances.
us only via email sms if the key collection comes. No correspondences to be sent to that address!! I study hard to provide for my family n refused to get myself back in this situation of being bullied again. If she do anything to disadvantage is I will not be afraid to put up a fight. I will not let her touch my kid cos God knows what stale things she will use again. I love my hubby but sometimes when I think that we hv to bto and wait and not hv enough money to get a resale then i get a bit resentful. I love my parents n I wan to stay near them, cos of what they hv gone thru'. Sometimes i ask my hubby to come visit them he will say sleepy and tired and wants to sleep. He prefers his own room. We just married but now I m starting to feel cold towards him. I feel like staying at my own home for a few weeks to just clear my mind and maybe knock some sense to him. Sometimes I wondered y my hubby not rich enough so we can get our own place immediately. He dun wan to stay w my family as my place too small. I keep writing to HDB but thats not helping much. Thanks for listening, maybe I just need some listening ears as I can't tell my hubby and my frens and family this and this is causing me imbalances.