Hi ham n piggy lover: sorry for the loss. I didn't let my mil know. Only my parents knew cos my mum insist that I do confinement during 1 week mc. None of my colleagues knew what happened to me cos I just told them it was an urgent surgery but didn't specify what surgery. I mc on the day before hb supposed to go on reservists n fortunately for that cos due to mc, I fainted at home, low blood pressure n hb freaked out when I was just talking to him one moment n just collapse on the floor another moment. Hubbub was able to drive me to Thomson for surgery. During the 1 week leave, my hb told his army in charge about his wife mc n they allow him to accompany me for first 3 days n the rest of reservists to come back everyday. His 1mth reservists actually don't allow him to. I also cried at night, hugging my hb. Pls, take note for the mininconfinement, my mum insisted that I wear jacket at home, no aircon, bathe in hot water in the day. My mum also prepared black chicken soup on alternate days plus fish fried in Ginger. She also made drink chicken essence. But for the first week of mc, my lower back aches n according to gynae, it is normal. After a wk of mc, I starting going gor gym classes but realized I was weaker than I thought, so I reduce the times to go gym, n slowly increasing my exercise periods. Take it easy during the first few weeks. Now, my mum insist to make black chicken soup every time after my af reports. Like u gals, after my mc which is also my first preg, I didn't know of the high mc which according to gynae that it is normal. I searched online for reasons n realized there isn't much of reason like what gynae said. It is body's natural way of stopping something that may be harmful to the mum. So, don't give up! I only started recently to gather enough courage to share my experience in here. We all support each other here. Haha, 2mths after my mc, only dare to bd with my hb.
