hi all, my baby was diagnosed with t21 n we r terminating the pregnancy this coming wed.. my heart is so full of pain each and every day n i feel so guilty as a mum.. my 1st born has been telling me that she wants her didi so much that i feel so so sorry...
i am so afraid of going through the procedure of 'delivering' the baby out.. any advice?
about 3 weeks ago, i terminated my first baby at mid term due to trisomy21 via d&c. The baby was conceived naturally. It was like a dream come true until the nightmare came. My whole world came clashing down following the phone call and the next few days
it was the hardest and most painful decision i have to make. Been crying non stop for almost 2 weeks.
I wasnt considered high risk because of my age but i opt to to NIPT because i wanted to have a peace of mind since oscar tests gives many false positives. But we are really glad we done the NIPT rather than finding out at a much later week of the pregnancy. The diagnostic came as shocking to my doctor too. As i know my gyane for years since my teens for ladies issues and pap smear.
Doctor says it is a random error of chromosomes. There was nothing we could have done to change it.
Did a mini confinement of 2 weeks, had confinement food, herbal bath and miscarriage massages. Now seeing TCM to hopefully get my body back in shape for next pregnancy.
I just wanted to say, for those that is going thru the same. Dont give up hopes and dont put the blame on you. U have done your best. Focus on recovery and u will have your rainbow baby soon