Faith_less
New Member
Hi all. Hoping to get some advice here. I've been married for 6 years and have 2 kids. My hubby is a very busy man and I've always tried my best to handle the kids and household well, so that he can concentrate on his work. He's home late many days of the week usually.
Recently, I discovered he's been messaging some women, but nothing sexual. Just a lot of confiding in them. I confronted him about it and he promised to stop and we both agreed to work out the issues in our marriage. But a few months later, I found out that he hasn't stopped after all. I was very upset and threatened him with divorce. That's when he confessed that he's been going for paid sex for the past 3 years.
He's very sorry and begged me not to divorce him. He's very cooperative so far and tells me everything I ask about his affairs. I've talked to my friends and they too feel that his attitude is a good sign that he can change. But I keep feeling upset whenever I think of how he betrayed my trust like that. I've totally lost faith in marriage and I don't know if I can move on.
Anyone with similar experience?
Recently, I discovered he's been messaging some women, but nothing sexual. Just a lot of confiding in them. I confronted him about it and he promised to stop and we both agreed to work out the issues in our marriage. But a few months later, I found out that he hasn't stopped after all. I was very upset and threatened him with divorce. That's when he confessed that he's been going for paid sex for the past 3 years.
He's very sorry and begged me not to divorce him. He's very cooperative so far and tells me everything I ask about his affairs. I've talked to my friends and they too feel that his attitude is a good sign that he can change. But I keep feeling upset whenever I think of how he betrayed my trust like that. I've totally lost faith in marriage and I don't know if I can move on.
Anyone with similar experience?