hi
contacted Di of Parentlink again. she's also the lady in charge of the support programmes at the hospital including KK for the pregnancy w complications. gave me 2 links to read. thk i have spoken to 2 dr,3 doulas, 1 midwife/nurse. she the only one give me a different light on this issue. she used to be based in US
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0ISW/is_256/ai_n6258848
http://www.blueribbonbaby.org/
..' This diet will prevent toxemia, other maternal complications, and all kinds of neurological, physical, motor, and behavior abnormalities in the child. I tested this diet for over 30 years on thousands of patients and those who followed it never had eclampsia, anemia, abruption of the placenta, severe infections of the lungs, kidneys, or liver, low birth weight babies, premature birth, or miscarriage, and all of their children were healthy.
It takes courage to adopt this diet because the concept behind it, that malnutrition is the cause of toxemia and other diseases associated with pregnancy, remains very unpopular in American obstetrics...'
Instead of focusing on food, they focus on drugs. They keep looking for a remedy that will cure toxemia. They prescribe diuretics for edema, hypertensives for high blood pressure, and drugs that suppress the appetite for weight loss. Those do nothing to prevent or reverse Metabolic Toxemia of Late Pregnancy, they just make it worse.
People have been recommending supplements, too, like calcium, fish oil, and an aspirin a day, all of which are supposed to prevent toxemia. But research published in the medical journals show that these aren't effective, either. (76-79,81) Calcium, aspirin, essential fatty acids, and other supplements can't take the place of good food.
i am still using black box! 
