Pls advise me - condom breaking

[XiaoAngel]

I dont want another kid so I would need to use contraceptives.
My huband don't allow me to take birth control pills as it increases the risk of breast cancer. (I have family history of breast cancer so higher risk)
He is ok to wear a condom but strange thing is it always breaks in the process which lead to me having to go polyclinic to get morning after pill frequently.
Now Im working full time, I dont have time and energy to keep going to polyclinic each time the condom breaks. And everytime Im there to request morning after they give me the look as though Im someone immoral and engage in casual sx.
I wan to abstain from sx as I can live without sx. But my hubs dont want to abstain.

Any help is much appreciated.

 

[MoeLanYong]

Lubricate it more. Condom shouldn't break.

 

[XiaoAngel]

Lubricate it more. Condom shouldn't break.

Will try.
But many brands we try also either break or drop out.

Any alternative method of birth control that are hassle free?

 

[MoeLanYong]

Will try.
But many brands we try also either break or drop out.

Any alternative method of birth control that are hassle free?

Reversible ligation. Basically a surgical procedure to tie the fallopian tubes. Can be reversed but need another surgery.

 

[XiaoAngel]

Reversible ligation. Basically a surgical procedure to tie the fallopian tubes. Can be reversed but need another surgery.

Thanks for the reply. Will go explore.

 

[XiaoAngel]

Fellow mummies, anyone tried any method of birth control which is effective and hassle free? Feel free to share here.

 

[KelGen]

Agreed. Condon shouldn't break easily unless mishandling. Probably your hubby have long finger nails or something. Just handle with care and it shouldn't break.
There are few way for birth control.
Vagina Ring? Female condom? or IUD also one of the method.

I use IUD though, easier but for a start, may need to have some precautious.

 

[Sophias Embroidery]

I think the best course of action is to look into alternatives, like my favorite one besides condoms is the copper IUD. It’s hormone-free, which is a huge plus given your family history, and it offers long-term protection without the hassle of frequent clinic visits or worrying about a condom breaking

 

[XiaoAngel]

Agreed. Condon shouldn't break easily unless mishandling. Probably your hubby have long finger nails or something. Just handle with care and it shouldn't break.
There are few way for birth control.
Vagina Ring? Female condom? or IUD also one of the method.

I use IUD though, easier but for a start, may need to have some precautious.

What kind of precautions do you take for IUD?

 

[XiaoAngel]

I think the best course of action is to look into alternatives, like my favorite one besides condoms is the copper IUD. It’s hormone-free, which is a huge plus given your family history, and it offers long-term protection without the hassle of frequent clinic visits or worrying about a condom breaking

Thanks for your input.
Copper IUD can use for several years?

 

[KelGen]

What kind of precautions do you take for IUD?

Like can't insert too deep. Or sometimes need go check up for IUD position at times.
And yes, IUD can last for several years. Have 3, 5 and upto 10yrs

 

[yangyang7788]

I dont want another kid so I would need to use contraceptives.
My huband don't allow me to take birth control pills as it increases the risk of breast cancer. (I have family history of breast cancer so higher risk)
He is ok to wear a condom but strange thing is it always breaks in the process which lead to me having to go polyclinic to get morning after pill frequently.
Now Im working full time, I dont have time and energy to keep going to polyclinic each time the condom breaks. And everytime Im there to request morning after they give me the look as though Im someone immoral and engage in casual sx.
I wan to abstain from sx as I can live without sx. But my hubs dont want to abstain.

Any help is much appreciated.

Buy a big amount and leave it at home. Its not costly.

 

[XiaoAngel]

Buy a big amount and leave it at home. Its not costly.

U mean morning after pill?
It cant be bought in large amounts. Need have prescription then can buy from watsons.

Or if you meant condom, buy big amount also no use. Break inside already need to take morning after pill.

 

[Interestedspouse]

I dont want another kid so I would need to use contraceptives.
My huband don't allow me to take birth control pills as it increases the risk of breast cancer. (I have family history of breast cancer so higher risk)
He is ok to wear a condom but strange thing is it always breaks in the process which lead to me having to go polyclinic to get morning after pill frequently.
Now Im working full time, I dont have time and energy to keep going to polyclinic each time the condom breaks. And everytime Im there to request morning after they give me the look as though Im someone immoral and engage in casual sx.
I wan to abstain from sx as I can live without sx. But my hubs dont want to abstain.

Any help is much appreciated.

i have gone for similar regular checkup so i can appreciate what this feels like

i agree with the others, it's very strange condom will break

where is the tear? the condom is you buy and wear it for him or he do all? i have seen condom inflate to small pillow size in my school days so i have seen how strong are they

 

[XiaoAngel]

i have gone for similar regular checkup so i can appreciate what this feels like

i agree with the others, it's very strange condom will break

where is the tear? the condom is you buy and wear it for him or he do all? i have seen condom inflate to small pillow size in my school days so i have seen how strong are they

It will tear near the tip

 

[Interestedspouse]

It will tear near the tip

i dont want to assume you know how to wear it. never use your nails to hold the tip. use your fingers (no nails) to open the package, check the correct side to use (there is a CORRECT side), place it on the head, roll downward. the correct side is such that it will roll downward easily along the shaft of the p*nis

buy durex. i've been using 25 years and never break a single time. i used fetherlite, fetherlite ultra, real feel, ribbed, sensation, among others. i using "invisible" extra sensitive now but is $3 each NTUC

i kindly suggest you buy yourself, keep yourself, OPEN yourself, put it on yourself. try this for a month and see if got breakage. if you want to avoid going clinic then have to proactive to do things yourself

i have attend clinic at least 4+ times for BCP so i understand. all those time is human error good luck dun stress

 

[XiaoAngel]

i dont want to assume you know how to wear it. never use your nails to hold the tip. use your fingers (no nails) to open the package, check the correct side to use (there is a CORRECT side), place it on the head, roll downward. the correct side is such that it will roll downward easily along the shaft of the p*nis

buy durex. i've been using 25 years and never break a single time. i used fetherlite, fetherlite ultra, real feel, ribbed, sensation, among others. i using "invisible" extra sensitive now but is $3 each NTUC

i kindly suggest you buy yourself, keep yourself, OPEN yourself, put it on yourself. try this for a month and see if got breakage. if you want to avoid going clinic then have to proactive to do things yourself

i have attend clinic at least 4+ times for BCP so i understand. all those time is human error good luck dun stress

It didnt tear when he is wearing. Only tear halfway through the deed when push too hard. The brand my hub bought is okamoto. Dunno if its the brand issue or what. Never tried durex before. Will try next time.