Hi,Welcome samnnana.. But I m not taking tingkat anymore cos my husband & I feel sick of eating tingkat food so I am cooking simple veg dishes myself now..
Haha, I'm opposite. Tired of cooking after work. Need a short break!
Hi,Welcome samnnana.. But I m not taking tingkat anymore cos my husband & I feel sick of eating tingkat food so I am cooking simple veg dishes myself now..
老师,
Came across your posts while searching for some information in this forum and have learnt a lot. Now I'm trying to have vegetarian meals where possible (半天斋), next step is to go full vegetarian on 初一十五.
I have a query that I'm not sure where to post, so posting in this thread. I just got married recently to my husband whose parents have passed away when he was young, and were buried. He hadn't been paying respects to his parents for a long time (more than ten years) as he couldn't remember where the grave was (he don't have the official documents either, it's a long story) and there was a very high possibility that the grave might have been exhumed following NEA guidelines.
My mum suggested installing an ancestral tablet of his parents in one of the temples so that we can pay respects and give them a "proper" home. We are in the midst of looking for a suitable place. Are there anything that we should keep a lookout for when deciding on the final placement, e.g. the location of the tablet in the shrine, timing?
In the meantime, for this 7th month we have paid for a place for his parents at 居士林 for their 七月地藏孝亲报恩法会 and have paid our respects.
Understand you are busy, hope to receive a reply when you are available. Thank you in advance.
今日,‘好兄弟’比往日多了。
老师保证明日还会更多!
温馨建议:
1. 出外工作的人,在家准备便当,午餐可以吃。不要在外用餐。
2. 没事做,乖乖回家吃饭、看电视关在家。
3. 白天去寺庙拜一拜。少讲些‘有得没得’。
即使不是农历七月,Phuket冤魂始终没散。Lao shi.. you mentioned early of the 7th month is more dangerous.. i am going phuket on 4th september this yr (chinese jul). what should i take note ?
呵呵... 阿飘找清洁女工麻烦了。老师您好! 我刚刚搬进新office四个月,最近办公室的cleaner auntie around 7am 在桌子小睡休息的时候,听见一位阿伯叫她起来。抬头一看是一个半身阿飘。
1。如果bopian得加班OT的话,有什么要注意避免碰见阿飘?
2。这个新期五,七月初一office有办庆赞中元活动,我以经付款参加。我现在怀孕,可以出席吗?
谢谢老师!
首先。必须说的是民间的农历七月是international. 在农历七月,不管是白天或者夜晚,河边、海边、游泳池、蓄水池(reservoir)都有鬼。即使不在农历七月,还是会有,不过少很多很多咯!Lao Shi,
Can our child swim in the pool at daytime during 7th month? As many people always say don't swim during 7th month at night whether adults or children.
即使不是农历七月,Phuket冤魂始终没散。
1. 去多人的地方逛。海边不去。好兄弟百分百有。
2. 路边摊的食物/饮料,不要吃/喝。
3. 若hotel给你long corridor到最后一个房间,就要求换房。
4. 去佛寺拜拜,沾点佛祖的正能量。
See the next post. Read carefully and you will understand.老师
七月拜拜要在月头,月中还是月未?还是都可以?
Hello Master Jolyn! Topic aside, if a lady is pregnant, can she attend 满月 or 1st year birthday of other kids or wedding (tea ceremony and dinner)? Will these auspicious events "clash" with the unborn child?
Thanks Rubilite. I saw that thread. Would like to know exactly why will clash since it's red to red, not red to white..
Thank you so much!! you are so sweet!Hello towkayneo,
Hope the attachment answer your question.
Teacher,
Today Chinese 7/14 is it scary day and must reach home before 6pm? My friend said me y I Don take leave today stay at home with my kids. Coz my kid one at childcare and one at babysitter there. I'm usually by 7pm will reach home with my 2kids. Thank you
Toblerone Lao Shi,首先。必须说的是民间的农历七月是international. 在农历七月,不管是白天或者夜晚,河边、海边、游泳池、蓄水池(reservoir)都有鬼。即使不在农历七月,还是会有,不过少很多很多咯!
农历七月(白天)让小孩去游泳池游泳的话,大人必须看紧了。死盯着,视线不要离开。Forget about Whatsapp/WeChat/Facebook/Line/Twitter. Hope this answer your question.
大人要在泳池游泳也行,最好附近有人。万一什么事,喊的话人家听得见。
农历七月(夜晚)就不要让小孩去游泳池游泳了。大人也一样。
Ya, some kids are more pantang. So you dont intend to celebrate his birthday anymore?I do believe because is happened to my boy when he celebrated his 1st birthday started he have fever till fits and ever start we no longer celebrate his birthday every year. Feel guilty on that but is still for his own good. My boy very petty always kena kacau by this thing when small. Now better ever since he reached his age 5yrs old.
my partner's niece also ganna (her dad is french btw) when she came visit with her mum (my SIL). my MIL take pomelo leaves and spray water at her, then she ok liao.. my MIL prays to guan yin..My friend's 9th month old kid was having fever for 4-5 consecutive nights (only at night, in the day, he was well). Hence, her mother suggested praying to the "good brothers" to see if it helps. True enough, she prayed yesterday night and the kid did not have fever afterwhich..
Coincidental? Up to us to decide.
my partner's niece also ganna (her dad is french btw) when she came visit with her mum (my SIL). my MIL take pomelo leaves and spray water at her, then she ok liao.. my MIL prays to guan yin..
my SIL asks if she go back to france, no pomelo leaves how? my MIL say just take your house leave and spray water, shld be ok.. not sure how effective though...
For me as my fsm adviced me not to bring my gal to any of the white affairs before she turns 3 I never bring. I think coz babies still lack certain energy better don't. When your baby grow older pray also not late.My grandfather-in-law passed away in the 7th month so my in-laws will usually do prayers at home at night on the anniversary. This year is first year I have my baby, can anyone advise if it's ok to bring <1 year old baby to in-laws house to pray on that night? They usually set up a temporary table at the backyard for food and joss stick offerings.
Thanks for replying. Is such death anniversary considered as white affairs?For me as my fsm adviced me not to bring my gal to any of the white affairs before she turns 3 I never bring. I think coz babies still lack certain energy better don't. When your baby grow older pray also not late.
Thanks for replying. Is such death anniversary considered as white affairs?
Thanks, I am also reluctant to bring my baby over to pray since she is so young and also because they usually set up a table outside in the dark so I don't feel comfortable.For us, we never bring her to pray and also my mum felt that she was super fussy as she used to be a crying baby most of the time she asked us not to bring over. I guess it's up to your comfort level