hi,
wow, slp with u on yr bed. haaa, my gar only get to slp on the master bed on sun morning or nap time if she has difficult slp. i will lie down to slp with her and she will doze off veri fast.
my other col also share with me that her daughter last time also cried for 2mth. that time, her daughter is 2yr old and she told her that be ''guai guai' listen to teacher loh, mummy will come and fetch u and buy u goodies if u dun try loh. then after work, my col will buy her goodies and ask her teacher do she cry. the teacher then said no, of cos, my col praise her and fr then onwards after that, she adapted to the new envirnoment. after a while, she even dun wan to go hm.so this take a while for a kid to adapt to the new envirnment. she told me that we must not cry in front of them or else the kid will know that we adult has soft heart and then that is. this happened to her sister so in the end, her sister quit the job and then look after her kid. so we must be harsh and not softhearted (know that it is not easy to do but...no choice, think the impt pharse will be over) then.