Miscarriage


The #1 reason for miscarriage is massive chromosomal abnormalities, not outside issues.

Other reasons that are not verifiable are caffeine use, fibriods, advanced maternal age (again that can go back to massive chromosomal abnormalities), PCOS, hyperthyroidism, listeriosis, toxoplasmosis, acute heavy metal poisoning, use of methotrexate and or misoprostal.
 
Sorry to post here while u guys have discussion. I need a little help. Do get to me for adoption of baby. As I'm trying to adopt one with reasonable amount which dont exceed 9,000.

Due to not able to give birth anymore(knew the news last month due to 2 times miscarriage in a year), i decided to go for adoption. The news really hurts me lOts coz I'm just 24 and have not even a kid yet. And the news do hurt my mum a lot too . She went a little bit far more than depressed and always thinking that baby is still in me whenever she thinks of it. Consult doctor but was saying medication can't cure only control as she needs to work out herself. So despite I'm very sad and depressed I got to think of not only me but her too.and at this point of time, Husband left me too. So my dad and I came out with a solution, since I can't give birth, why not adopt those who are keen to put for adoption so that my mum can be better and I can have a better motivation of living my life better.  kindly do help out for this.  it will be good for going to give birth de or newborn as they still can't recognise if not its like so cruel for those who alrd know their parents. Kindly give a helping hand. Apps 83006803 thank
 
Sorry to post here while u guys have discussion. I need a little help. Do get to me for adoption of baby. As I'm trying to adopt one with reasonable amount which dont exceed 9,000.

Due to not able to give birth anymore(knew the news last month due to 2 times miscarriage in a year), i decided to go for adoption. The news really hurts me lOts coz I'm just 24 and have not even a kid yet. And the news do hurt my mum a lot too . She went a little bit far more than depressed and always thinking that baby is still in me whenever she thinks of it. Consult doctor but was saying medication can't cure only control as she needs to work out herself. So despite I'm very sad and depressed I got to think of not only me but her too.and at this point of time, Husband left me too. So my dad and I came out with a solution, since I can't give birth, why not adopt those who are keen to put for adoption so that my mum can be better and I can have a better motivation of living my life better.  kindly do help out for this.  it will be good for going to give birth de or newborn as they still can't recognise if not its like so cruel for those who alrd know their parents. Kindly give a helping hand. Apps 83006803 thank
 
Hi ladies, i'm new to diz forum. well i also hd some m/c stories to share. In all I had 3 m/c in total. Just had the 3rd m/c few days back.
*1st m/c - March 2009
*after dat, successfully conceived again in Sept 2009 and gave birth in June 2010 to a healthy bb boy who is nw 2 n half years old.
*2nd m/c - Nov 2010
Took me 2 years of trying again and finally conceived again but failed the 3rd time.
*3rd m/c - Jan 2013

All 3 m/c happened during 1st tri. As i guessed its time to give a sibling for my boy in diz new yr 2013, i m/c again n I began to have brown spotting on 1/1/2013 (Imagined how it felt to have diz kind of bad sign on d 1st day of new yr!). Went for scan(supposed to be 9 week plus but gynae said cant see d baby n h/b n told me d bb is not developing n stopped growing at 6 week plus). Gynae referred me to a govt hosp for d&c but I opted for natural m/c like wat i did for my last 2 m/c. D waiting time to let the tissues/clot out n d pain was really unbearable!! After dat no more pain/cramping but felt sooo devasted,useless n empty. Kept on thinking y I can't have a problem-free pregnancies like any other mommies out there! Heart-breaking as i can't carry my d other 3 pregnancies to term. Juz wondering wat is wrong with me!
I had natural m/c for all my 3 m/c w/o any D&C and managed to expelled out the 3 "babies" with so much excruciating pain! Pain was like sharp stabbing contractions n feels like i'm going into a labour. Physically n emotionally pain seeing the placenta/sac/blood clots passing out.
Showed that to Hubby n stood there numb. He was able to cope it but i knew in his heart he is sobbing quietly. We really wanted to give our firstborn a sibling for companion but its all Godswill. We planned everitin but it is all Godswill again. Reading up all diz post gave me some strength to move on a lil bit. Its nt easy to juz erased everitin out of d mind, coz its not 1 or 2 but its 3 recurrent m/c!!
We r hoping to run some tests with d doc to check our 'systems'. Rite nw still searching for a gd gynae to check on us.Shud i try TCM or rely mostly on gynae/specialist?
Desperately hoping for another baby coz our age is catching up. Plan to conceive again before reaching 35. But i'm still feeling worried n scared n wat if m/c happens again?? Its too much of a blow for me n also dear hubby.
Last of all, gd luck ladies! Kip on trying n i'm sure we will be able to carry our pregnancies to full term! Run some checks/tests so as to prepare ourselves for next pregnancy.
*Baby Dust To You*
Hugs from a Crying Mommy...
 
Hi Roza,

very sorry for your loss, I know how devastating it is, I have loved ones who had repeated m/c... and many of us here, including myself have gone through M/C, if you look under the thread "Support group - miscarriages" in the "Matters of the heart" section, you can read up, I believe some of the ladies here do have contact of good gynaes/fertility experts who specialise in women who have suffered multiple m/c. In the meantime, it might be a good idea to let yourself recover. If you believe in doing confinement, do keep to a confinement diet for at least next 2 weeks so your body can recuperate. The most important is to build up your health, and trying again must wait until you are ready physically and emotionally.

Take care dear.
 
Hi ladies hers, anyone had recurrent miscarriages before? 2/3 or more miscarriages? Which hosp is gd to find the cause of m/c eg: doing tests etc.? Heard nuh hv a specialist to do diz. Hw abt kkh?
 

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