Married for 2 years and still no baby

saralash

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Hi everyone, I need ur advice.
My hubby and me are married for more than 2 years now and still no baby.
We consulted dr Wong from tmc and he sent hub for sperm test. Test result showed bad results.
We were heartbrokened but hub reassured that it cld be due to the fact that he did did not get stimulated while trying to collect his semen ( my hub doesn't like masturbation)
We are now helpless on what to do and who to consult .
Hub is willing to have sperm donor and all,
Can u guys advice me on any doc or treatment that we can take to conceive?
Both of us are depressed And always have baby envy.
Friends whom got married after us are all happy parents.
And we merely tell them that we are taking things slow.
But deep down, both of us are yearning for the good news each mth...
Please help
 


Hi Lash,

My hub and I had taken a new anti-ageing product and it has effects of renewing processes within the body. It helps to make one person more energetic, feels younger, skin smoother etc. Another effect for the guys is that they feel stronger at the bottom and can last longer.
We had heard before that some couples who tried hard for babies took the product and eventually manage to conceive.

It is worth a try for you and your hubby. U can email me at [email protected], I can recommend you where to get the product.
 
hi lash,

understand how u feel, coz i've been thru before.
i am categorised as infertility group, saw Dr Fong Yang and TCM, eventually now i have 3 kids. I also introduce my gynae to another friend of mine who's hubby also bad results on sperm test, she sought quite a number of help and end up last saw Dr Fong, she is currently pregnant. I don't guarantee full success rate, but do try to see him and see whether he can help u. fyi, his price towards high end side, but at least he is specialised in infertility issues and explain to u options available. his website: http://www.streetdirectory.com/thecentrewomen/
 
Lash,

Mind me asking how old are you now?

Something which I had observed from my friends. They more eager they wanted it the more stress and failures they get but once they relax and take it slow they found themselves pregnant.
A friend of mine ttc 6yrs and when she finally stopped trying that hard, she got pregnant and just given birth to a beautiful child.

Hope relaxing works for you
 
@chapa I'm 28 and hub is 31 this year.. U r right that we badly want and this cld make us stress. But recently we kinda given up but still not good and we just feel we have some probs
Thats y
 
Hi Lash

Don't gave up just yet.
Always bear in mind that all things will happen at the right time...if baby doesn come today, it doesnt mean it will not come at all.

My friend just has a baby girl some 10yrs after her marriage.
She is 31.
 
Lash. If sperm test result is bad, your hubby can try to take some supplement - Tribestan. It helps to improve the sperm quality, as advised by gynae. Buy it from KKH phamarcy (w/o prescription) or get it from your gynae.

Good luck!
 
Lash, hub and I conceived naturally only aft 4 years. No medical intervention. Even the cycles of taking Clomid didn't help. The med just made me feel out of balance. He has low sperm count with low motility/mobility whereas I've PCOS.

U may wanna check this link out: http://www.fertilitycare.com.sg/
 
hi,

hope this encourage you.

i'm married for 9 years, tried IVF once but no success. Tot no hopes at all but i got pregnant naturally recently. Already 3 months.

So don't give up and don't be stress.
 
Hi,

Don't be discourage, married for only 2 years still have a lot of chances.
Ask your hubby to exercise like especially swimming eat more black sesame dessert, visit TCM to strengthen the kidney and rest well...

IVF should be last resort bah

Good luck
 

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