lostsheepmeh
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hello, this is my first time posting. my husband and I have been together for many years. since years back, we been quarreling about him being very laid-back and insensitive. to elaborate further, he doesn't take any initiative in planning, for all the key milestones of a couple have to go through from wedding to housing, I have been the one taking initiation to prompt him. for all the small items also such as holiday trip itinerary, money changing, I also have even the one taking the initiation to prompt him.
I don't get how a guy can be so laid-back to this extend. every time we quarrel, he will said he will change and he is improving. from my view, he is improving at such a slow speed, it's almost insignificant. this quarel cycle has been repeating for years and recently I think I really had enough of this nonsense.
while he is nice, and he does stuff and pamper me, but this passiveness of him make me feel very upset and helpless. I am looking up to a husband who can take the lead and not a son who do things only at my nagging. recently his bad temper is also flaring up and it irks me even further. he said hurtful words that show how immature he is.
I really appreciate any advise.
I don't get how a guy can be so laid-back to this extend. every time we quarrel, he will said he will change and he is improving. from my view, he is improving at such a slow speed, it's almost insignificant. this quarel cycle has been repeating for years and recently I think I really had enough of this nonsense.
while he is nice, and he does stuff and pamper me, but this passiveness of him make me feel very upset and helpless. I am looking up to a husband who can take the lead and not a son who do things only at my nagging. recently his bad temper is also flaring up and it irks me even further. he said hurtful words that show how immature he is.
I really appreciate any advise.
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