Hazel, your results so much better than mine. However, Natal bone is indeed a more pressing concern than blood test...
At camden, I think they will wan to do the scan at 13/14 wk. If u don't wan to wait till wk 16 to re-scan at KKH, will suggest u go to camden...u might aso know the gender during the scan....
Call tomorrow morning ard 8 - 830am...last time, I called at 810am...n i get the nurse's attention to answer all my questions.
Jus go armed with ur ER/ET date so that they can re-confirmed ur EDD coz it will affect ur scan results too...
At camden, I think they will wan to do the scan at 13/14 wk. If u don't wan to wait till wk 16 to re-scan at KKH, will suggest u go to camden...u might aso know the gender during the scan....
Call tomorrow morning ard 8 - 830am...last time, I called at 810am...n i get the nurse's attention to answer all my questions.
Jus go armed with ur ER/ET date so that they can re-confirmed ur EDD coz it will affect ur scan results too...
jklim4642
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Soon-to-be, the dr told me some DS bbs have high natal bones n there r bbs who r normal n have no visible natal bone also.
She said is not well seen n is quite common at this early stage. Sometime the bb's position cld obstruct it to be seen clearly also...
My age risk is already 1/165!!!!
She said is not well seen n is quite common at this early stage. Sometime the bb's position cld obstruct it to be seen clearly also...
My age risk is already 1/165!!!!
hazel, very sorry to hear about the results..i can imagine how worried you are. Think it's best you consult Camden's Anandakumar..he's specialised in this area..ask them how soon you can do the test for the most accurate results. They measure not only the nasal bone but also check other markers..
Spiffy, we are happy with any gender. 
hazel, don't worry too much. At my 13 weeks scan the sono grapher also had difficulty measuring the nasal bone because bb kept covering it.
Btw u all said no sewing. How about knitting? I'm doing bb blankie n since u all said not on the bed, so I sat on the floor.
hazel, don't worry too much. At my 13 weeks scan the sono grapher also had difficulty measuring the nasal bone because bb kept covering it.
Btw u all said no sewing. How about knitting? I'm doing bb blankie n since u all said not on the bed, so I sat on the floor.
despondent
New Member
Hazel, don't worry too much, since doc already said risk calculated excluding BT is 1/800 which is a gd no. However, agree w u to go to Camden to have rest of mind.
queenie122009
Active Member
Hi, ladies,
m new to tis thread...
been TTC for 1 yr... recently, DR suggested IVF.. but qn stil goes on in my head.. is tt the oni option for me? I got asked the DR, wat abt IUI or SO-IUI.. they said IVF is a beta option for me... I stil dont reali understnd the technical part of it.. my HB SA test results indicate low count & low normal forms.. while I m okie with my test results..
anyone can explain to me? wld reali appreciate it... thanks...
m new to tis thread...
been TTC for 1 yr... recently, DR suggested IVF.. but qn stil goes on in my head.. is tt the oni option for me? I got asked the DR, wat abt IUI or SO-IUI.. they said IVF is a beta option for me... I stil dont reali understnd the technical part of it.. my HB SA test results indicate low count & low normal forms.. while I m okie with my test results..
anyone can explain to me? wld reali appreciate it... thanks...
jklim4642
Well-Known Member
Soon-to-be, Camden nurse said prof only wan to do scan earliest 14 wks. She said I did too early at KKH n nasal bone is too small to be seen clearly. she said bb neck thickness is very good. She told me 13 wks is actual a Much better time to do. Anyhow, she will hv to call me back on a date n they r very full....
hazel, re cord blood, i checked with DH - he's not confident that most chronic illnesses can be cured in 20 years time! So i guess the jury is still out on whether or nor i'm taking up this investment.. you?
what week are you in now? 11?
yumyum, careful...cny is just around the corner, more goodies to tempt you..oh i love shrimp rolls and bak kwa..i just realised your name relates to food too.. haha
what week are you in now? 11?
yumyum, careful...cny is just around the corner, more goodies to tempt you..oh i love shrimp rolls and bak kwa..i just realised your name relates to food too.. haha
hi queenie, you can also explore clomid and accupuncture for yourself n hubby. i have a fren trying for years, have thyroid and just before they start ivf, she is pregnant. accupuncture helped my dh's troopers in qty and quality too. my health condition was ok when i first checked 3 yrs after ttc. tried 5-6 rounds of clomid, 3 iuis and finally ivf. when my cousin told me earlier not to waste time, go ivf directly, i was very shock. Now, i am happy that i had ivf and will be great if i did that earlier. now old mummy.
hahaha....spiffy, you are so funny! yes, nick related to food cos in the first tri, the progesterone makes me so hungry. when i dun eat, i feel like vomiting. after i ate, i want to sleep. dh bought 1 kg of bak kwa, YEH!!! dun worry, this is used for fattening guests.
soon-to-be, how is your maid hunting?
soon-to-be, how is your maid hunting?
Hazel, i didn't re scan since she only said difficult but not saying no present. But it did nag at the back of my mind whether she did a good job or not. So yesterday detail scan really put my mind at ease.
Yumyum, I did 1 bb blankie long long time ago but blue. Since bb confirmed a girl I better do a pink one.
I used baby cotton. Can not use wool la with this weather.
Queenie, i did regret not do ivf earlier. All the money we put to tcm n iui I think can do ivf how many times already n not to say the time and chance is higher. But I can understand your feeling because we will always think ivf is our last resort.
Yumyum, I did 1 bb blankie long long time ago but blue. Since bb confirmed a girl I better do a pink one.
Queenie, i did regret not do ivf earlier. All the money we put to tcm n iui I think can do ivf how many times already n not to say the time and chance is higher. But I can understand your feeling because we will always think ivf is our last resort.
Spiffy, yumyum EDD is earlier than mine, so should be wk 23 now? Anyway, my EDD changed to 9 Jun after Dr Loh recal based on my ER/ET date....
Yumyum, haven't gotten anyone yet...but hubby and I seriously discussing the criterias. Will start the hunting after CNY. You SAHM hor? But 3 babies leh, u r not going to get extra help?
Yumyum, haven't gotten anyone yet...but hubby and I seriously discussing the criterias. Will start the hunting after CNY. You SAHM hor? But 3 babies leh, u r not going to get extra help?
soon-to-be, i got 1 maid from myanmar.
1 day of hiring, i wanted to change already. their spoken english is really so low that i think the agents are super crap by saying it is 'fair'. said she is eldest when she is youngest, no baby turned out to have 1 2-yr-old son.
however, she is sincere is geting her job done. i am still evaluating her and dare not sleep when we are alone at home. i cannot walk around too much to monitor her.
even when on bedrest, now i am bringing her to my mum's place to train her how to cook, speak chinese and english, serve until CNY while waiting for agent to supply a transfer.
My gf transfer maid from philippines almost autoroaming since day 1 so my current one is still has a lot to catch up. no indons for me cos my sis got 1 that wanted to offer sir extra services at night and showers and washes my bil's clothings. stole cutlery and give away to bangla workers.
I SAHM to be. Now... jobless lor... hehehe! We are considering hiring 2nd helper till kids turn 2 cos dh got terrible work schedule. See how first lor...
1 day of hiring, i wanted to change already. their spoken english is really so low that i think the agents are super crap by saying it is 'fair'. said she is eldest when she is youngest, no baby turned out to have 1 2-yr-old son.
however, she is sincere is geting her job done. i am still evaluating her and dare not sleep when we are alone at home. i cannot walk around too much to monitor her.
even when on bedrest, now i am bringing her to my mum's place to train her how to cook, speak chinese and english, serve until CNY while waiting for agent to supply a transfer.
My gf transfer maid from philippines almost autoroaming since day 1 so my current one is still has a lot to catch up. no indons for me cos my sis got 1 that wanted to offer sir extra services at night and showers and washes my bil's clothings. stole cutlery and give away to bangla workers.
I SAHM to be. Now... jobless lor... hehehe! We are considering hiring 2nd helper till kids turn 2 cos dh got terrible work schedule. See how first lor...
Yumyum, myanmar really cannot make it har? My hubby is considering to get myanmar coz he said that they are likely not to have frens here, so wont stray so easily, and they prob won't be able to communicate w the foreign male workers at our condo...
Phil, the agency advised us against them coz we may need the maid to work at 2 places (ours and MIL's). S
So, left with Indo. I'm using Singapoh's critiera (don't know what's Singapoh up to coz haven't heard from her for 2-3 days liao)....dun scare me abt the extra svs leh.....If my hubby requires extra svs, I can provide, don't need her to provide...hehehehe 8P
Phil, the agency advised us against them coz we may need the maid to work at 2 places (ours and MIL's). S
So, left with Indo. I'm using Singapoh's critiera (don't know what's Singapoh up to coz haven't heard from her for 2-3 days liao)....dun scare me abt the extra svs leh.....If my hubby requires extra svs, I can provide, don't need her to provide...hehehehe 8P
soon-to-be, my EDD was always based on ER/ET date..wasn't yours?
yumyum, what's wrong with maid washing your bil's clothings? Extra services?? Eek!! Actually i find indon maids okay..had sri lankan, Filipino and indon maids growing up and the sri lankans i had were like 2nd mothers to me, very very nice. The Indons we had were all hardworking. The Filipinos were alas U grads..
yumyum, what's wrong with maid washing your bil's clothings? Extra services?? Eek!! Actually i find indon maids okay..had sri lankan, Filipino and indon maids growing up and the sri lankans i had were like 2nd mothers to me, very very nice. The Indons we had were all hardworking. The Filipinos were alas U grads..
eskimobaby
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hazel,
i also think u did ur DS scan too early... i did mine at 13 weeks... so that's why can't see the nasal bone yet...
soontobe/yumyum,
i got my filipino maid at the beginning of jan and so far so good.. she has experience working overseas but not in sg so she's quite auto as well and she will look for things to do and won't idle herself which is good as i sometimes also dunno wat to ask her to do...she's able to keep my house spick and span and only cooking she's not very good at but she's willing to learn... and i did mention that she will need to work in 2 places ie my place and my mum's place as when i return to work i will bring my baby over to my mum's place and she's fine with it... now that my baby hasn't arrive yet, she also goes over to my mum's place to help out a few times a week
spiffy,
i'm not banking my baby's cord blood... like wat ur hubby said... i'm not so confident of how much cord blood can do... and i also read that as the years goes by the cord blood will also deterioriate even tho it's frozen.... so the more years u wait the less u can do with it... it's just like our embies i guess....
i also think u did ur DS scan too early... i did mine at 13 weeks... so that's why can't see the nasal bone yet...
soontobe/yumyum,
i got my filipino maid at the beginning of jan and so far so good.. she has experience working overseas but not in sg so she's quite auto as well and she will look for things to do and won't idle herself which is good as i sometimes also dunno wat to ask her to do...she's able to keep my house spick and span and only cooking she's not very good at but she's willing to learn... and i did mention that she will need to work in 2 places ie my place and my mum's place as when i return to work i will bring my baby over to my mum's place and she's fine with it... now that my baby hasn't arrive yet, she also goes over to my mum's place to help out a few times a week
spiffy,
i'm not banking my baby's cord blood... like wat ur hubby said... i'm not so confident of how much cord blood can do... and i also read that as the years goes by the cord blood will also deterioriate even tho it's frozen.... so the more years u wait the less u can do with it... it's just like our embies i guess....
eskimobaby
Active Member
Queenie,
I had the same questions as u when i went to see dr loh from kkh... he told me to go for ivf straight... didn't even suggest IUI/SO-IUI.. i even asked him abt it... he told me i have better chances with ivf.. i dunno wat made me go with him even tho after the counselling session my hubby was telling me to reconsider as he's fine with no kids and dun want me to go thru the ivf procedures... after 2 months of seeing dr loh, i started on ivf and haven't looked back since... even tho sometimes i do wonder if we will ever be able to conceive naturally...
I had the same questions as u when i went to see dr loh from kkh... he told me to go for ivf straight... didn't even suggest IUI/SO-IUI.. i even asked him abt it... he told me i have better chances with ivf.. i dunno wat made me go with him even tho after the counselling session my hubby was telling me to reconsider as he's fine with no kids and dun want me to go thru the ivf procedures... after 2 months of seeing dr loh, i started on ivf and haven't looked back since... even tho sometimes i do wonder if we will ever be able to conceive naturally...
soon-to-be, my myanmar worker has 2 cousins and 1 sister here. generally obedient but must be FIRM on YOUR WAY of doing things. eg. i am fussy about not mixing cleaning cloth and kitchen cloth. if dirty, i rather throw it away.
if they are transfer or ex-sin, their english should be ok. interview them through phone or internet if possible. i made that mistake of not interviewing and trusting the trainer's recommendation. transfer will also request for sunday off and will show you black face if work at 2 places. mine is a freshie but also show my mum black face when i brought her there for training. agent said the myanmar embassy dun care about its people. so they have no authority to turn to when they have problem.
day 1: i went through with her all my houserules - all the way to checking her menstrual timing and how she should discard her napkins and where she changes her clothes. i read from a myanmar maid forum in singapore motherhood and some did happen.
my experience:
1. Wash water heater unit with water.
2. hygiene level not good. hold cooked vegetables with hands while cutting it with scissors. wipe house with dirty cloth.
3. dunno how to operate vaccum cleaner.
Inspect on Day 1 on her luggage content without dh. see sexy lingerie, be aware. check wallet and qty of money (i forgot).
Good thing is that they dun like Filipinos so they might not be chit-chatting down stairs.
Tanaka - traditional astringent cum sun block and beauty product. Tree extract and looks like 2 patch of powder on face. I am concerned they will apply this on their face and it will stick on my bbs or drop into their milk so I kept on reminding agent.
Also, make sure they have short hair cos traditional burmese has super long hair.
My maid
on day 1 - doll up and wore her accessories when sir is coming back home from work.
on day 3 - wore super short tights around the house. i got to set the dress code rules - above neck down to knees.
I super jealous type so this is not acceptable by me.
Indons - this is my sis's experience. lucky my mum was helping to watch the maid closely. it seems to be the norm for them to offer special services as their hubbies look for other women when wives are pregnant. also cast voodoo on their masters. eg. feed masters with urine to tame them. also unfortunately, she is quite pretty.
Phil - might also like to run to their embassy for help. but so far friends with good helpers all use phil.
missing singapoh too. maybe shopping for cny?
if they are transfer or ex-sin, their english should be ok. interview them through phone or internet if possible. i made that mistake of not interviewing and trusting the trainer's recommendation. transfer will also request for sunday off and will show you black face if work at 2 places. mine is a freshie but also show my mum black face when i brought her there for training. agent said the myanmar embassy dun care about its people. so they have no authority to turn to when they have problem.
day 1: i went through with her all my houserules - all the way to checking her menstrual timing and how she should discard her napkins and where she changes her clothes. i read from a myanmar maid forum in singapore motherhood and some did happen.
my experience:
1. Wash water heater unit with water.
2. hygiene level not good. hold cooked vegetables with hands while cutting it with scissors. wipe house with dirty cloth.
3. dunno how to operate vaccum cleaner.
Inspect on Day 1 on her luggage content without dh. see sexy lingerie, be aware. check wallet and qty of money (i forgot).
Good thing is that they dun like Filipinos so they might not be chit-chatting down stairs.
Tanaka - traditional astringent cum sun block and beauty product. Tree extract and looks like 2 patch of powder on face. I am concerned they will apply this on their face and it will stick on my bbs or drop into their milk so I kept on reminding agent.
Also, make sure they have short hair cos traditional burmese has super long hair.
My maid
on day 1 - doll up and wore her accessories when sir is coming back home from work.
on day 3 - wore super short tights around the house. i got to set the dress code rules - above neck down to knees.
I super jealous type so this is not acceptable by me.
Indons - this is my sis's experience. lucky my mum was helping to watch the maid closely. it seems to be the norm for them to offer special services as their hubbies look for other women when wives are pregnant. also cast voodoo on their masters. eg. feed masters with urine to tame them. also unfortunately, she is quite pretty.
Phil - might also like to run to their embassy for help. but so far friends with good helpers all use phil.
missing singapoh too. maybe shopping for cny?
spiffy, i heard from my younger sis that the indon maid was showering and washing my bil (elder sis's dh) clothes at the same time.
i guess i got the indon phobia cos those maids we had back in msia and singapore either got pregnant (3) or ran away with people (2). 1 paid the gardener to provide her special service. she is quite ugly but ... it is luck maybe?
my mil is racist. dun like indians or dark skinned. Filipino agents heard got to take care of triplets and mia-ed. so i am left with burmese.
eskimobaby, can recommend your agent, jic? tks!
i guess i got the indon phobia cos those maids we had back in msia and singapore either got pregnant (3) or ran away with people (2). 1 paid the gardener to provide her special service. she is quite ugly but ... it is luck maybe?
my mil is racist. dun like indians or dark skinned. Filipino agents heard got to take care of triplets and mia-ed. so i am left with burmese.
eskimobaby, can recommend your agent, jic? tks!
eskimobaby
Active Member
yumyum,
i go to homemaid at katong shopping centre.. they have a few outlets around singapore... my experience with them were pretty ok... they were prompt and i didn't have to chase them for documents or things... i got all my maid's documents including insurance on the day i brought her home except for her work permit which was still processing... and the lady who attended to me does follow up or call me back when i have queries...
i go to homemaid at katong shopping centre.. they have a few outlets around singapore... my experience with them were pretty ok... they were prompt and i didn't have to chase them for documents or things... i got all my maid's documents including insurance on the day i brought her home except for her work permit which was still processing... and the lady who attended to me does follow up or call me back when i have queries...
eskimobaby
Active Member
spiffy,
exactly, that was why i was quite stressed up when my maid first came... for one, i wasn't used to having another stranger at home, then still need to supervise her when i myself dunno much abt housekeeping... and then still worry abt her performance...
anyway, i think the real test comes when my baby is out and how she cares for her... cos i think we will be more intolerable towards mistakes with the baby esp with hygiene..
exactly, that was why i was quite stressed up when my maid first came... for one, i wasn't used to having another stranger at home, then still need to supervise her when i myself dunno much abt housekeeping... and then still worry abt her performance...
anyway, i think the real test comes when my baby is out and how she cares for her... cos i think we will be more intolerable towards mistakes with the baby esp with hygiene..
eskimobaby, think maybe my agent not as good n i dun have experience in hiring. i got a reminder ltr from mom to get her work permit done. 12 days since maid work for us n i did not get her passport or work permit yet. might miss out on paying fdw levy n get fined by cpf.
since i m so free at home, the agent got calls from me to chase him.
spiffy, i think i m too free. tt's y write so much... i tot you are having twins. is your mil helping you? mil told me to give maid "xia ma wei", sil said be the bitch - shout, scream, make sure maid knows who is the boss (me and not dh) blah blah... i really have no clue, just follow gut feel. not me to shout at people to get things done.
ladies, sorry to be so loh soh...
since i m so free at home, the agent got calls from me to chase him.
spiffy, i think i m too free. tt's y write so much... i tot you are having twins. is your mil helping you? mil told me to give maid "xia ma wei", sil said be the bitch - shout, scream, make sure maid knows who is the boss (me and not dh) blah blah... i really have no clue, just follow gut feel. not me to shout at people to get things done.
ladies, sorry to be so loh soh...
eskimobaby
Active Member
yumyum,
my agent told me to go down to collect my maid's work permit and passport after abt 2 weeks she's with me... my agent brought her down to mom to do the work permit on the morning itself before i brought her home in the afternoon... i called cpf they told me that i dun have any levy to pay yet last month... will only start this month... i guess they'll deduct the levy pro-rated for last month ba.. since the deduction is done on the 17th... so most prob u won't get fine just yet... just keep chasing the agent for the work permit...
this is our first time hiring also... i just asked my colleague abt her agent and she told me she goes to this one so i just went... i didn't check out others tho.. so no comparison also...
my agent told me to go down to collect my maid's work permit and passport after abt 2 weeks she's with me... my agent brought her down to mom to do the work permit on the morning itself before i brought her home in the afternoon... i called cpf they told me that i dun have any levy to pay yet last month... will only start this month... i guess they'll deduct the levy pro-rated for last month ba.. since the deduction is done on the 17th... so most prob u won't get fine just yet... just keep chasing the agent for the work permit...
this is our first time hiring also... i just asked my colleague abt her agent and she told me she goes to this one so i just went... i didn't check out others tho.. so no comparison also...
queenie122009
Active Member
Hi, Spiffy,
Thanks for the explanation.. yes, both the Doc & TCM said tt IVF wld b a beta option for me, as compared to IUI.. but is it cos of certain limitations of IUI? or cos SA results reali cant make it for IUI or SO-IUI..
Hi, Yumyum,
Ur name very easy to rem..
The doc didn’t prescribe any clomid cos I m o-ing normali..
& yes I juz started TCM & acupuncture.. both DH & me (to prepare my body in top form for IVF)..
& yes.. I m stil hoping for tt miracle, to conceive naturrali (juz like ur fren) bef the IVF..
nonetheless, we wld stil go for IVF if the same results r presented for the 2nd SA test.
I do believe tt TCM ll help DH troopers.. we juz got to believe in it..
Hi, Vi4n, u hv juz said precisely hw I felt.. “we ll always tink IVF is our last resort”… as in, we nvr tot thgs cld b tis extreme bah..
Hi, eskimobaby,
Dr Loh oso nvr suggested IUI or SO-IUi for me.. m glad to b here, to knw tt u hv the same tots whn Dr Loh suggested IVF.. nw I don’t feel so lost..
wat hppd during the counseling session tt made ur DH asked u to reconsider?
u knw.. u gals r very reassuring.. whilst others r telling me push IVF to the last attempt.. u r sharing with me the joy tt ur hv gotten fr the IVF.. I feel so much beta nw.. thanks a lot.
Thanks for the explanation.. yes, both the Doc & TCM said tt IVF wld b a beta option for me, as compared to IUI.. but is it cos of certain limitations of IUI? or cos SA results reali cant make it for IUI or SO-IUI..
Hi, Yumyum,
Ur name very easy to rem..
The doc didn’t prescribe any clomid cos I m o-ing normali..
& yes I juz started TCM & acupuncture.. both DH & me (to prepare my body in top form for IVF)..
& yes.. I m stil hoping for tt miracle, to conceive naturrali (juz like ur fren) bef the IVF..
nonetheless, we wld stil go for IVF if the same results r presented for the 2nd SA test.
I do believe tt TCM ll help DH troopers.. we juz got to believe in it..
Hi, Vi4n, u hv juz said precisely hw I felt.. “we ll always tink IVF is our last resort”… as in, we nvr tot thgs cld b tis extreme bah..
Hi, eskimobaby,
Dr Loh oso nvr suggested IUI or SO-IUi for me.. m glad to b here, to knw tt u hv the same tots whn Dr Loh suggested IVF.. nw I don’t feel so lost..
wat hppd during the counseling session tt made ur DH asked u to reconsider?
u knw.. u gals r very reassuring.. whilst others r telling me push IVF to the last attempt.. u r sharing with me the joy tt ur hv gotten fr the IVF.. I feel so much beta nw.. thanks a lot.
queenie, i think it's a bit of both, IUI is a bit like leaving it to chance still. Given the few good swimmers your hubby has, it may be a waste of time and money. IVF is a much more controlled environment and if everything goes well, and your eggs can be retrieved at the right size, and the inserting of sperm is done for you too.
i also TTC for a year before opting for IVF.. i'd say there were very little to no side effects at all for me ..was probably the best decision i ever made..
i also TTC for a year before opting for IVF.. i'd say there were very little to no side effects at all for me ..was probably the best decision i ever made..
eskimobaby
Active Member
Queenie,
the counselling session is more to prepare us mentally of wat to expect for ivf n also prepare us for failures cos it can be quite an emotional ride. I guess for us, my hubby's morphology is a concern so even with iui the number of good enuff troopers to make it to the egg is very little so i see ivf as a chance my hubby's troopers getting to meet my eggs rather than dun have this chance at all.
if u go to the other thread on ivf where most of the gals are undergoing ivf at the moment u will have a better idea of wats involved. Discuss with ur hubby u have to be in this together esp the emotional support.
the counselling session is more to prepare us mentally of wat to expect for ivf n also prepare us for failures cos it can be quite an emotional ride. I guess for us, my hubby's morphology is a concern so even with iui the number of good enuff troopers to make it to the egg is very little so i see ivf as a chance my hubby's troopers getting to meet my eggs rather than dun have this chance at all.
if u go to the other thread on ivf where most of the gals are undergoing ivf at the moment u will have a better idea of wats involved. Discuss with ur hubby u have to be in this together esp the emotional support.
Hazel, so perhaps it's not a concern tt's y Dr Loh can't be bothered with ur email..hehehe..
Queenie, when I first met Dr Loh in Apr 09, he aso suggested IVF immediately coz of my conditions. Well, hubby and I had decided to do it which was why we decided to go to him. Thus, when he suggested it, we jus accepted it. To be honest, I was then a bit disappointed that we cldn't start the process till Jul/Aug...hehehe..
Like wat Esk said, you need to discuss with ur hubby to make sure that this is a option that both of u wan to go thru...coz spouse support is critically impt (to me lar) during the process.
Singapoh, wah, went on holiay har?
Queenie, when I first met Dr Loh in Apr 09, he aso suggested IVF immediately coz of my conditions. Well, hubby and I had decided to do it which was why we decided to go to him. Thus, when he suggested it, we jus accepted it. To be honest, I was then a bit disappointed that we cldn't start the process till Jul/Aug...hehehe..
Like wat Esk said, you need to discuss with ur hubby to make sure that this is a option that both of u wan to go thru...coz spouse support is critically impt (to me lar) during the process.
Singapoh, wah, went on holiay har?
Queenie, the other thread eskimobaby is referring to is: http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/5/154014.html?1265695987
we all started there, i think! The support is tremendous..not unlike here..
It feels a lot better to have support especially if you prefer to keep these things private from your colleagues and family.
we all started there, i think! The support is tremendous..not unlike here..
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