IVF/ICSI Support Group

Congrats Ginger28!

Tinga, sorry to hear about the lowering HCG, but on hindsight it means ur uterus can have implantation. Think there are many sisters here who had chemical pregnancy and the next ET strike. All the best for ur FET!

I am going for next Ivf cycle in Aug.. The previous one ended in miscarriage. I am depressed... Don't know what to expect. Scared fail again....
 


pupnui said:
Hi... I will be doing my tigger shot tonight.... ER on Wed n ET on fri.. So happy n relief now.. I think the red bean soup really help me a lot as I almost drink a big pot yesterday...
My scan today - 16 Jun 2013
Lining - 8.7 triple
Right - 16.5/14/16.5/9.5/10/12/9
Left - 18.5/15.5/10/16/10.5/7.5/7
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Good luck! Continue your red dates tea if you are drinking.
 
Tinga said:
Envy you have so many embies. I left 2, will discuss with my doc how many to transfer for next. Hopefully af come soon and can embark on the next fet in July. What is ur plan?
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Tinga, dun be envy... at least u knw u haf no implantation issue. I gt more frozen embies but I feel I haf problem with implantation. The 2 embies transferred were grade 4 n my lining is good. I will go bk to tcm I guess n oso try fet in july. My son is turning 6 soon n he asked for siblings recently. Ironically, my son was fr an unplanned pregnancy.
Let's jiayou together, Tinga!
 
hi_mei said:
Congrats Ginger28!

Tinga, sorry to hear about the lowering HCG, but on hindsight it means ur uterus can have implantation. Think there are many sisters here who had chemical pregnancy and the next ET strike. All the best for ur FET!

I am going for next Ivf cycle in Aug.. The previous one ended in miscarriage. I am depressed... Don't know what to expect. Scared fail again....
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Hi mei, this is what I'm trying to tell myself, at least my embryo is trying it very best to implant. I wish my next cycle will bring me the good news :)
Dun put too much stress on ur next IVF cycle, it is not good for ur egg growing. Try to relax and eat healthy. All the best. Ur dream will definitely come true one day
 
Tinga next cycle will be a better one.

Some people do a very mini confinement even if it's a chemical mc. So I guess it's up you. I think at least drink more LRD and cook food with more ginger.
 
Eeznyl said:
Tinga, dun be envy... at least u knw u haf no implantation issue. I gt more frozen embies but I feel I haf problem with implantation. The 2 embies transferred were grade 4 n my lining is good. I will go bk to tcm I guess n oso try fet in july. My son is turning 6 soon n he asked for siblings recently. Ironically, my son was fr an unplanned pregnancy.
Let's jiayou together, Tinga!
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Since u have gave birth before, u Shd not have implant issue as well. It just the time is not for us yet, let think positively and get this over. We might be cycle buddy again :)
 
Eeznyl said:
Thanks Hope42014, Im thinking wat can I do to improve my chance actually. I feel like calling kkh tmr to getan appt to see Dr Tan, not sure if they will arrange knowing my blood test is only next wed.
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oh! Your bt is next wed.. Testing today is too early! Try hpt again 2 days later.. My Tcm says 10 days past transfer then can test.
 
Tinga said:
Since u have gave birth before, u Shd not have implant issue as well. It just the time is not for us yet, let think positively and get this over. We might be cycle buddy again :)
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Tinga, that was more than 6 yrs ago so my body cld have chg... I really hope I was just unlucky this cycle. Hope we can be cycle buddies n bfp tog!!
 
Hope42014 said:
oh! Your bt is next wed.. Testing today is too early! Try hpt again 2 days later.. My Tcm says 10 days past transfer then can test.
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I dunno y kkh schedule my bt 19 days after transfer. Infact today is 10 days after transfer. But actually im not sure my frozen embies were 2 days or 3 days during my fet but my failed fresh cycle was 2 days embies.
 
so long nvr loggin...

congrats to ginger on your bfp! hope mummies who bfp hav a sticky pregnancy alll the way!!

eeznyl and hope, good luck to your blood test!

i wont b loggin in for a while...hope to c u ladies when i log in again....
 
second said:
so long nvr loggin...

congrats to ginger on your bfp! hope mummies who bfp hav a sticky pregnancy alll the way!!

eeznyl and hope, good luck to your blood test!

i wont b loggin in for a while...hope to c u ladies when i log in again....
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Thanks second.. Hope you doing well.

Tk care
 
Eeznyl said:
Dolly_gal, I did my fet on 6th June so today is 10 days post transfer but I have no idea why kkh schedule my bt 19 days post transfer.
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I m not sure u did which day trsf, as long af not here there's still hope. Try hpt again 2-3 days later again.
Is this ur first ivf try? If u get pregnant before, it shouldn't b hard to concieve again for u. Higher chance than those nvr bfp before n keep failing ivf...
Have faith in urself.. go tcm tiao ur body if this round doesn't works.
 
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dolly_gal said:
I m not sure u did which day trsf, as long af not here there's still hope. Try hpt again 2-3 days later again.
Is this ur first ivf try? If u get pregnant before, it shouldn't b hard to concieve again for u. Higher chance than those nvr bfp before n keep failing ivf...
Have faith in urself.. go tcm tiao ur body if this round doesn't works.
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Thx dolly_gal.... I will go n see tsb at chinatown to tiao my body. Hopefully will b 3rd time lucky!
 
Tinga said:
Welcome sunflower44, are u doing natural or medicated? Normally they will do the scan for abt 3-4 times to ensure the lining is optimal and then proceed with the et.
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Hi Tinga, thanks! I'll be doing natural. Hmm so that means by next week will be my ET if all goes well! Any idea whether mc will be given to rest? Not sure abt how kkh works now..
 
sunflower44 said:
Hi Tinga, thanks! I'll be doing natural. Hmm so that means by next week will be my ET if all goes well! Any idea whether mc will be given to rest? Not sure abt how kkh works now..
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I did natural FET too..only had one scan and I ovulated on my scanning day..so two days later did my transfer..


Santhiya
 
Tinga hugz. Its a challenging journey. Tiao body and come back stronger in fet. Like u my only consolation is embryo implanted. Thats the only positive note n we shud hold on and trust other embryos to implant as well.
 
Dr Tan appt schedule is so packed.... earliest is 18th july.... omg. And I thot I can do endo scratch this coming cycle. =(
 
pupnui said:
Thks... @sunflower44... Previous one have extracted 8 but 6 cannot make it so left my two little beanies... Yes, cross finger and hopefully will have more this time... ^^
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Pupnui, did you follow a strict "diet", as in take Immunocal, brazil nuts, red dates tea etc? Guess we just have to stay positive abt this and cross fingers.. If i doing fresh cycle the next time round, i doubt i will have many eggs too, coz of my age..
 
santhiya86 said:
I did natural FET too..only had one scan and I ovulated on my scanning day..so two days later did my transfer..


Santhiya
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Santhiya, thanks for the update! Mixed feelings abt the scan tomorrow... somemore, it will be rushing for me, have to drop my gal at childcare centre, and make my way down to KKH. Hubby not around the whole week...
Btw, anyone's doc is Dr SF Loh? I was with him but coz my embbies are in KKH, i thought might as well do my ET there... save the transfer fees and TMC no subsidy!
 
Tinga said:
Hi mei, this is what I'm trying to tell myself, at least my embryo is trying it very best to implant. I wish my next cycle will bring me the good news :)
Dun put too much stress on ur next IVF cycle, it is not good for ur egg growing. Try to relax and eat healthy. All the best. Ur dream will definitely come true one day
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Thanks Tinga... All the best to u...
 
sunflower44 said:
Pupnui, did you follow a strict "diet", as in take Immunocal, brazil nuts, red dates tea etc? Guess we just have to stay positive abt this and cross fingers.. If i doing fresh cycle the next time round, i doubt i will have many eggs too, coz of my age..
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Errr... I try my best on "Strict diet"... I avoid drinking cold water, spicy & oily food... Taking almost lightly soupy food like fish soup or yong tau fu or fish ball noodle... Brazil nuts is too heaty for me so I consume less but been drinking red bean soup almost everyday and red dates wif wolfeberry and dry longan tea..
 
@Tinga & @Eeznyl , sorry to hear... seems like IVF journey isnt all that smooth-sailing... during e 2ww, one worries if it will be a BFP, then after that gotta worry if bb makes it to a live birth... am having my 1st IVF visit next wk... prob only 1 try regardless of e results for us... not sure if i hv e courage & heart to take whatever e outcome... sigh
 
Women are much stronger than we know ourselves...while TTC is already a tough journey...remember giving live births and rearing your child, keeping the family together may not be that smooth sailing too!!! So do what you think it is right for you and your family, and you will not live to regret what you have not done...that's my belief...
 
We will rise to the occasion...whatever undesirable events happened, I always tell myself it's not the worst! There are so much more to catch up in the years ahead.

I'm 9dpo today. Waiting for af and then endo scratch and then my ivf again. Looking forward to a new cycle.
 
Hi Sisters here... Would like to check whether can continue to consume the red bean soup, Red dates tea after ET?
 
Any sisters can advise how long does natural miscarriage last. Have been staining spotting since 1 june. No full heavy flow. This is just dragging sooo long. Havent check is poas still positive. Dr gave me appt 18 jul. Cant imagine if I continue like tat for another month. And its not fresh blood super dark brown stains n clots.
 
dolly_gal said:
Some mc sporting can lasts for few weeks. It's best u check back w gynae on ur concern. Did u See tcm?
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I didnt see tcm gal. Thought shud see after this thing clears. Will tcm aid to clear the remains in womb?? D&c not recommended so I just dont knw wat to do. Maybe just wait another week n see hw. Cramps are on and off. Dr said since I was on 3 mth lucrin jab its normal to stain than bleed.
 
If I m not wrong tcm will give their medication to help clear especially if urs is natural mc.I went thru d&c but no spotting after tat n went back See her. Although she did say me y didn't go to her for an tai yao when bfp, I just tell her wats done is done. There's nothing I can do now then she just ask me rest for at least one cycle before start ttc again
 

mesara said:
Any sisters can advise how long does natural miscarriage last. Have been staining spotting since 1 june. No full heavy flow. This is just dragging sooo long. Havent check is poas still positive. Dr gave me appt 18 jul. Cant imagine if I continue like tat for another month. And its not fresh blood super dark brown stains n clots.
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It might also be hormone unbalance.. Best to check with gynea..
 
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