Hazel : never too late lah. 41 still consider young according to my gynae. When I had #3, I was already middle age too! Wanted to end ttc before 40 too, but alas, I had an mc before having #3. I hate to remember my last preg as a failure, so went ahead to ttc again. Don't know what went through my mind! Now don't want to try again, I know sure will mc again....can't stop eggs getting older...haha.
Tell u, I know a family friend who's older kids already in their twenties. Who knows menopausal period, have irregular AF, she got pregnant ! Also, very high chance can get preg after ivf. My gynae told me so many cases, it's not surprising!
LoveG : I got no helper, so 1 room can still squeeze 5 of us comfortably. Same like hazel, I take all of them on holidays too ever since they are 6 mths, troublesome lah, got to work around their timing, but didn't want to leave anyone at home. More kids means need more M. So 3 is enough for me, got the next decade or so to save up.