judebabe - **Hugz** do stay positive, i do not believe that Fate and/or God will deny anyone of being a parent, a wonderous precious gift on it's own... All in good time... I had been trying to concieve for 7 years and thereafter suffered 3 miscarriages in my baby quest, until i got my twins. The journey is never easy, but every step is a lesson for us to learn. Take Heart!