Lin / min81 > Most veg are considered cooling. Some even consider kailan and chyesim as cooling, but not the coolest. Neutral veg include corn, yam, sweet potato, turnip, round beijing cabbage, carrot, hairy gourd, coriander, chives, asparagus, bell pepper, sword beans, mint... the list is only based on my understanding from what I've read from some chinese websites.
Lin > I'm only doing accu, no tcm... so can still take carrot. I've that few times a week, usually in soups.
Bigbear > I'm also hitting 40 soon. How long have you been ttc? I had a natural bfp 1.5 years back but mc. Did all the test, no major problems with me or DH but no further luck, so trying ivf.