Shainie I was so saddened when I read your news. I am so sorry that this has to happen but I admire your strength and positivity in facing the challenges; though I can imagine how hard it is. What you say is true, no matter how much we try our best to take care sometimes it is beyond our control when sad things happen. Hang in there ok, I believe that you Will eventually hold your bundle/s of joy.
IVF/ICSI Support Group
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Ladies. Here e sis here experience wat u all had experience.. Married so long no bb n others juz gt married n got le or those shot gun n still dun wan e bb.. I understand e pressure n pain.. I been thru alot too n almost divorce coz of it too.. We pray n seek medical help everywhere but we didnt give up n decided to go IVF.. Its one time success for mi but we wont know till we gt bb on our arms.. Sis lets jia you n nv give up.. I believe god isnt cruel to us.. Its a down side now but we duno wat will happen in future. It will go up someday.. Jia you..
Thank you all for your blessing... Shainie, yes, you are right 
.. so now I know if you felt very thirsty is a symptom for twins.. However, the utrogrestrone is meant to take orally.. I felt so yucky..think I will swop to insert it instead.
Blur_xuan.. I dun felt any cramp. Where is your cramp from?
i1BB, depressedgal and Sarah.. dun depressed..hope you will join the queue soon.
Luv.. gd luck for your scan tml. Are you still spotting?
Usaqi..7 interviews are gd numbers..sure hv one that will suit you.. jiayou..
.. so now I know if you felt very thirsty is a symptom for twins.. However, the utrogrestrone is meant to take orally.. I felt so yucky..think I will swop to insert it instead. Blur_xuan.. I dun felt any cramp. Where is your cramp from?
i1BB, depressedgal and Sarah.. dun depressed..hope you will join the queue soon.
Luv.. gd luck for your scan tml. Are you still spotting?
Usaqi..7 interviews are gd numbers..sure hv one that will suit you.. jiayou..
Sarah Jiayou. Once the thyroid problems is fixed everything will be smooth for you. So sorry to hear that u hv to postpone ur FET Me resting until Sept and continue cycling again. I think I will take COq this time. Hoping for good egg to harvest in my 2nd fresh.
Lynn life have to goes on. Depressed Gal I understand the feeling.
Lynn life have to goes on. Depressed Gal I understand the feeling.
MC007 No. What I mean the utro insert is much more better than to consume duphastone orally. I think the progrestrone in the utro is higher than duphastone. U are taking both rite? The duphaston only contains 10mg of progrestrone while utro is higher.
MC Yup sign of multiple pregnancy is extremely thirsty. When I carry singleton dont feel so thirsty compare to the recent one.
MC Yup sign of multiple pregnancy is extremely thirsty. When I carry singleton dont feel so thirsty compare to the recent one.
blur xuan..jus to share with you what Dr Zou told me today. She said that we should try to eat as much as possible especially during 2nd tri when the morning sickness is over. If we can get our babies weight to 2kg soon, it would be better even if our delivery is much earlier.
She advise to take 1 egg a day including yolk, eat meat and fish, drink milk. Calcium and protein are impt at this early stage.
She advise to take 1 egg a day including yolk, eat meat and fish, drink milk. Calcium and protein are impt at this early stage.
Chevy, thanks. Will look out for the tag then.
Shainie, hugs...hugs...I am not good in words. I will pray for you and your dh.
Redvelvet, Dr. TAnHH haven't get back to me about Elonva. Will update you once I have a definite answer from him.
Sarah, hugs...hugs...sorry to hear that your FET need to be delayed. Hope everything will be fine and smooth soon for you.
Prosepina, how I hope I can join you for clubbing..unfortunately, I still need to be confined at home!
Blur Xuan, what you had gone thru also same as what i experienced before. hopefully everything will be okay in future...cross my fingers@@
Shainie, hugs...hugs...I am not good in words. I will pray for you and your dh.
Redvelvet, Dr. TAnHH haven't get back to me about Elonva. Will update you once I have a definite answer from him.
Sarah, hugs...hugs...sorry to hear that your FET need to be delayed. Hope everything will be fine and smooth soon for you.
Prosepina, how I hope I can join you for clubbing..unfortunately, I still need to be confined at home!
Blur Xuan, what you had gone thru also same as what i experienced before. hopefully everything will be okay in future...cross my fingers@@
Shainie yap always tk naps.. Thirsty n tired.. Isit coz walk too much or sometink happen to my bb?? She didnt say anytink said everytink normal.. Avoid papaya n pineapple n preservative.. Thirsty but cant seems to swollow e water..
Mc my second trimester still far lei.. Now v scare of e cramps its suddenly come n go..
Mc my second trimester still far lei.. Now v scare of e cramps its suddenly come n go..
verone_baby
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Niko, I can't go either on injections. When I told my boss abt IVF, first come first she told me stop drinking :0 I'm quite a good drinker..don't know that caused my infertility or not..
Luv,ya nurul gone MIA. really wonder how is she..
on injections. When I told my boss abt IVF, first come first she told me stop drinking :0 I'm quite a good drinker..don't know that caused my infertility or not.. Luv,ya nurul gone MIA. really wonder how is she..
luv..it's the same med...the box say for oral or vaginal insert..
think i will insert instead..only at night so can lie down after that..
blurxuan..eating can start now..calcium, protein..i think if yr cramp is persistent better check with yr dr. And you can't even swallow water?
think i will insert instead..only at night so can lie down after that..
blurxuan..eating can start now..calcium, protein..i think if yr cramp is persistent better check with yr dr. And you can't even swallow water?
usagi_2011
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Depressed gal. I know how you feel. Hubby also said he wants to die ahead of me. Hahaha. But that same night when I felt lonely, I told him I had a change of mind, I said I would let him die earlier if possible. So that he will have me by his bedside. I think he become very touched after hearing this. Wahahaha. I loved hubby, if someone have to bear the sadness, then I hoped to be that one. So we all try harder. Dun give up yet.
sarah, !1BB, usagi, depressed gal: im not good at words, but i share ur feelings. we will have to suppor each other, and stay strong. hugs to u.
shainie: reading ur msg made my tears rolling. u are so right that "our friends have a happy family, good career and their children mostly in primary school and me still hoping for miracle to hold a child in my arm.". Life is just not fair, and some ppl just need to work much harder for certain things.
Blur_xuan: well said, Its a down side for us now but our time will come someday. 风水轮流转
shainie: reading ur msg made my tears rolling. u are so right that "our friends have a happy family, good career and their children mostly in primary school and me still hoping for miracle to hold a child in my arm.". Life is just not fair, and some ppl just need to work much harder for certain things.
Blur_xuan: well said, Its a down side for us now but our time will come someday. 风水轮流转
verone_baby
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M dh is 9 yrs my senior and man's life tends to b shorter than women. So I told him, If he died ahead of me n we got no child, obviously that time no parents also. I told him I'll commit suicide n go with him silly ho!
silly ho!egg_factory
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Bigbear: yup my DH and I have many questions to ask him. All the best to you too!
depressed_gal
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Usagi, u too nice le, think I'm more selfish coz I rather die first so tat I won't b lonely but I told my dh to find another wife if I die so he won't b lonely.
Btw ladies, I'm trying to start eating ew but how should I get started? Itiz taking hard boiled egg w only d ew n w/I d yolk? How many shall I take per day?
Btw ladies, I'm trying to start eating ew but how should I get started? Itiz taking hard boiled egg w only d ew n w/I d yolk? How many shall I take per day?
kittykatty
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Sarah: Sorry to hear that you have to postpone our FET. Hang on & Jia You. Once you stabilize your T4 & TSH, very soon you can proceed to FET. Have faith, Ya!
Shainie: You are a strong gal. Your dreams will comes true soon. We will be rooting for you here. Jia you!
Shainie: You are a strong gal. Your dreams will comes true soon. We will be rooting for you here. Jia you!
I am now on the way to airport. Going Bangkok for a break!
1BB, I am also feeling down at times....so many things to observe, med to eat and the money spent. Many other things to consider and worry abt. Worst is the outcome is uncertain. Many a time I feel like giving up....but I keep to myself. Sorry I should give u positive vibes then saying all the negative. Let's stay on strong!
1BB, I am also feeling down at times....so many things to observe, med to eat and the money spent. Many other things to consider and worry abt. Worst is the outcome is uncertain. Many a time I feel like giving up....but I keep to myself. Sorry I should give u positive vibes then saying all the negative. Let's stay on strong!
happypinky
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Usagi, u r so nice n sweet. So touch abt your thought. I am sure your dh will love you even more.
Depressed gal, I share the same feeling as you. Always wobdeer what wrong have I done to go through all these, injection, tcm, n taking tons of vits. Can't take this n that. N tahan all the gossip n unpleasant looking from people for not giving birth soon. Hai... Damn sad. Who can understand us...
Depressed gal, I share the same feeling as you. Always wobdeer what wrong have I done to go through all these, injection, tcm, n taking tons of vits. Can't take this n that. N tahan all the gossip n unpleasant looking from people for not giving birth soon. Hai... Damn sad. Who can understand us...
red_velvet
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Hi ladies, it got me emotional after reading all the heart pouring stories. Aren't we all caught in the middle of chasing these baby dreams? Why some ladies get pregnant by just winking their eyes and some just cant no matter how hard they try?
Younger ladies you gals still have the time to keep trying. Old cock cock like us have lesser chances according to the statistics shown so far. Are we going to grow old lonely in the growing popular shoebox apartments? We put our hopes high on the fertility treatments but tell me really, can we all get there? Are we really assured that our kids will love us and keep us close by their sides when we are old and vulnerable? Are we really nothing with no self identity and self worth if we don't have kids at all? These are the questions I ask myself again and again... I dont have answers and I am still struggling with these issues. But...
Younger ladies you gals still have the time to keep trying. Old cock cock like us have lesser chances according to the statistics shown so far. Are we going to grow old lonely in the growing popular shoebox apartments? We put our hopes high on the fertility treatments but tell me really, can we all get there? Are we really assured that our kids will love us and keep us close by their sides when we are old and vulnerable? Are we really nothing with no self identity and self worth if we don't have kids at all? These are the questions I ask myself again and again... I dont have answers and I am still struggling with these issues. But...
red_velvet
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I think I want kids for many other reasons.
depressed_gal
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Happypinky, think only d ladies here can understand us coz only them know d pain we went thru. Our own / relatives will only keep asking when is ur turn or aiyo so long still nothing? sick of all these questions.
Red_velvet, Sometimes I feel d world is really unfair. We r trying so hard here n yet nothing. I juz got to know my ex colleague is having affair n yet she can get pregnant. Wonder y god give d baby to those not worth it. haiz
Anw no matter how tough think we have to keep trying. My Dh say never try u will never know so hopefully god can hear our prayer n let us have our little one soon. Sorry if I'm making u all emo coz I juz need to say out my feeling so I can start to move on. Haiz now really hate to c red
Red_velvet, Sometimes I feel d world is really unfair. We r trying so hard here n yet nothing. I juz got to know my ex colleague is having affair n yet she can get pregnant. Wonder y god give d baby to those not worth it. haiz
Anw no matter how tough think we have to keep trying. My Dh say never try u will never know so hopefully god can hear our prayer n let us have our little one soon. Sorry if I'm making u all emo coz I juz need to say out my feeling so I can start to move on. Haiz now really hate to c red
red_velvet
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So here comes the reasons why I would love to have my own kids...
red_velvet
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To have communion with a new life. A continuity of the love my husband and I share. The enormous love i know I could have for this little new creature Something that God breathe in and bring alive and form so fearfully and wonderfully in the womb. To bring this one in this world to know that I will be the best mother I can be for him or her. Not for yours and anyone elses. But for mine. To know that I can and want to nurture this little one. To laugh with, to cry with and to grow old with. And...
Something that God breathe in and bring alive and form so fearfully and wonderfully in the womb. To bring this one in this world to know that I will be the best mother I can be for him or her. Not for yours and anyone elses. But for mine. To know that I can and want to nurture this little one. To laugh with, to cry with and to grow old with. And...red_velvet
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Here is why I am here. Taking on this journey of hope and faith.
red_velvet
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And i hope and pray that you ladies are here with me. Sharing this journey together, no matter how difficult it can be. Continue to encourage and lift one another up. To achieve what we are here for. At the end, if I could not succeed. At least I know that I have tried. Really, really tried!!!
depressed_gal
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Well said, red_velvet. Let all continue to jy on dis journey.
Actually I'm a bit scared n worry coz i will b gg for my first ivf so not sure of how d progress n pain will b. me damn scared of needles de. Any things I need to look out n prepare myself for?
Actually I'm a bit scared n worry coz i will b gg for my first ivf so not sure of how d progress n pain will b. me damn scared of needles de. Any things I need to look out n prepare myself for?
Big hugs to all d sistas here. It always comforts me to read d postings. Always good to have people who understand your situation.
Depressed gal... When i did my first ivf n had to inject myself for the first time At home, my dh said he wud do it for me coz I have an absolute fear of needles..It took us half an hour of running around d house ( coz I was so afraid I kept running away) to finally get me that jab.
2 IUIs n 2 IVFs later,(n tons of needle pricking later) I m still as determined as ever to go thru the emotional roller coaster ride in d hope of being able to hold my own little one in my arms someday..
So whenever i need a little support, I come here n leave encouraged again.
Depressed gal... When i did my first ivf n had to inject myself for the first time At home, my dh said he wud do it for me coz I have an absolute fear of needles..It took us half an hour of running around d house ( coz I was so afraid I kept running away) to finally get me that jab.
2 IUIs n 2 IVFs later,(n tons of needle pricking later) I m still as determined as ever to go thru the emotional roller coaster ride in d hope of being able to hold my own little one in my arms someday..
So whenever i need a little support, I come here n leave encouraged again.