IVF/ICSI Support Group
- Thread starter tomatoes
- Start date
i1bb, yes of course if I can offer any info I will assist.
Again, I stress that I am not recommending that this method to replace the BDing. I just want to share my experience again. Eventhough it is suppose to be very personal but since I also went thru the agony of ivf and losing my baby therefore I thought of sharing it.
Again, I stress that I am not recommending that this method to replace the BDing. I just want to share my experience again. Eventhough it is suppose to be very personal but since I also went thru the agony of ivf and losing my baby therefore I thought of sharing it.
Hi Joanne, i have a contact. The hp number is 90268280. Is a nice Malay lady but i forgotten her name. You can tell her you are trying to conceive. But i think she only do on weekdays and sat daytime. She do not do at night and sun. Her charges is $70 per hour, and she will go to your house
i1bb
Active Member
Howdy Sarah! Hope I can cheer some sisters here... Hee
Ok Qing, I went to read up Abit on your "method"... May I know Erm, where u got the plastic container and syringes? If u paisey to say it here, can kindly pm me? Actually hor, no nd paisey de lah... Bd is normal ma let alone this insemination thing
keke
Ok Qing, I went to read up Abit on your "method"... May I know Erm, where u got the plastic container and syringes? If u paisey to say it here, can kindly pm me? Actually hor, no nd paisey de lah... Bd is normal ma let alone this insemination thing
Angel,
Ya, I am also quite surprise when I heard of it then with more readings then it seems common in the western society and even those handicap man use this method n the wife got pregnant.
Of course, it is all abt luck aso. Does not suit all couples aso, think maybe I too desperate liao lol
Ya, I am also quite surprise when I heard of it then with more readings then it seems common in the western society and even those handicap man use this method n the wife got pregnant.
Of course, it is all abt luck aso. Does not suit all couples aso, think maybe I too desperate liao lol
Hi Qing, congrats to you! Rest well n hv a smooth pregnancy
I'm getting interested in the self insemination method hehe
Pharmacy sells so many type of syringes so which one should we buy ah? Then the container thing. Does KK hospital sell the whole set? I used to read abt this method from USA website. Tok to my DH b4 but he's afraid we may not handle the syringe well n unhygienic
I'm getting interested in the self insemination method hehe
Pharmacy sells so many type of syringes so which one should we buy ah? Then the container thing. Does KK hospital sell the whole set? I used to read abt this method from USA website. Tok to my DH b4 but he's afraid we may not handle the syringe well n unhygienic
Rainy,thanks for your kind wishes.
I hope I am nt sending a wrong idea of the self insemination.
For the syringe, my hb always buy the longest one available.kk do not sell the set. As for the container, think maybe you can use even a normal plastic cup. The container that i use i recycle every use. Just wash with hot water wifout any soap and left it dry.
I hope I am nt sending a wrong idea of the self insemination.
For the syringe, my hb always buy the longest one available.kk do not sell the set. As for the container, think maybe you can use even a normal plastic cup. The container that i use i recycle every use. Just wash with hot water wifout any soap and left it dry.
i1bb
Active Member
Qing, dnt worry. We all know u r just sharing with us n it's just an additional option. No guarantee it will work and of cos it's all up to us shd we decide to try it out
thanks so much for sharing.... You saved our (dh N me) bones indeed! Wahahaha
Hi Kiki gal, all the best to you. Dnt worry abt not knowing the dos n donts la... Sometimes dnt knw too much also good... Lesser stress really
Hi Kiki gal, all the best to you. Dnt worry abt not knowing the dos n donts la... Sometimes dnt knw too much also good... Lesser stress really
Qing, u r not giving us wrong idea lah. I hv read abt this mtd from the net few mths ago n Thoth of trying. Just that dunno whether it's safe n where to get those stuff. Appreciated yr sharing
saw yr previous post that dr Loh taught u this mtd? I think it is quite common overseas but not in spore yet.
Babysmurf, I try to go for healing once every wk. Hope to c tve results soon. How abt u?
Babysmurf, I try to go for healing once every wk. Hope to c tve results soon. How abt u?
i1bb; yes I understand the feeling and totally agreed. Imagine doing it every alternate days, even the temper will get to me. Hubby bought st syringe at kk n nuh pharmacy. Think even guardian will have.For this tiime, I recommend to start on day 8 to get the hang of it as there will be some leaking. Try to get the best angle of which ur hb shld insert in. Its all trial and error of course think for that impt day u shld do bd since it is your 1st time doing it.
Rainy, yes Dr loh is the one that taught us this method as he wanted us to conceive naturally therefore ask us anyhw aso do. We tried for quite a few mths then after reading more into the correct steps we manage to get the hang of it. Of course maybe its becos i aso put my hb on mult v n royal jelly to improve the swimmers
Rainy, yes Dr loh is the one that taught us this method as he wanted us to conceive naturally therefore ask us anyhw aso do. We tried for quite a few mths then after reading more into the correct steps we manage to get the hang of it. Of course maybe its becos i aso put my hb on mult v n royal jelly to improve the swimmers
Wendy, my husband speem count all these nt so gd but this time duno issit becos after the first fresh cycle i told him to eat muti v n royal jelly then improve. We also do not do wvery day..Do it every alternate days, read somewhere tat your sperm vol replenish every alt days.
i1bb, yes must change the syringe lah. Syringe very cheap only $0.10 each i tink. When i said change the syringe means that after 1 day use that means maybe that day your hb sperm is ard 2 syringe then u still use it after the 1st syringe.
Haha some personal experience is that must slowly push the sperm out after put in the vagina. Pushing in all at a go will cause more leakage. Make sure there is no bubbles when sucking in the sperms. As if there is air, u can actually feel tat the sperm inject is with air bubbles and the 2nd time the sperm will be difficult to go in.
Again, I must stress that tis option is tat to replace any treatment or bding. It is just a option if couples r not able to bding every 2 alternate days and yet can still increase the chances.I am not a doctor n I m not saying it sure works for everyone. N if hb is nt comfortable wif the idea, do not force as i worried that they might tink that we no longer want bding. Just that my hb r quite stress wif work therefore we decide to use tis method to make life easier. You can said that we r plain lazy. Lol
i1bb, yes must change the syringe lah. Syringe very cheap only $0.10 each i tink. When i said change the syringe means that after 1 day use that means maybe that day your hb sperm is ard 2 syringe then u still use it after the 1st syringe.
Haha some personal experience is that must slowly push the sperm out after put in the vagina. Pushing in all at a go will cause more leakage. Make sure there is no bubbles when sucking in the sperms. As if there is air, u can actually feel tat the sperm inject is with air bubbles and the 2nd time the sperm will be difficult to go in.
Again, I must stress that tis option is tat to replace any treatment or bding. It is just a option if couples r not able to bding every 2 alternate days and yet can still increase the chances.I am not a doctor n I m not saying it sure works for everyone. N if hb is nt comfortable wif the idea, do not force as i worried that they might tink that we no longer want bding. Just that my hb r quite stress wif work therefore we decide to use tis method to make life easier. You can said that we r plain lazy. Lol
dear Qing22,
Thanks for sharing your experience and info with us. I am equally tired of BD, IVF,etc. It is a very long and tedous journey leh. To do it on an alternate day, super tired but have to do it in order to capture all the possible window opportunity for conception. Still hanging there. Almost time up liao.
Thanks for sharing your experience and info with us. I am equally tired of BD, IVF,etc. It is a very long and tedous journey leh. To do it on an alternate day, super tired but have to do it in order to capture all the possible window opportunity for conception. Still hanging there. Almost time up liao.
saggiegirl
New Member
let's jia you together...
actually as time goes, we do not have the spontaneous of BD-ing
everything is with purpose... which I feel is quite sad
hubby sperm is very little and mobility is very low...u can say that his tadpoles are like slow coach...
I plucked up the courage to speak to my MIL privately of us going for IVF potentially. She looks quite sad... but never offer to help me during any possible future long MC or what... then now she dare not 'force' me to have baby ...
actually as time goes, we do not have the spontaneous of BD-ing
hubby sperm is very little and mobility is very low...u can say that his tadpoles are like slow coach...
I plucked up the courage to speak to my MIL privately of us going for IVF potentially. She looks quite sad... but never offer to help me during any possible future long MC or what... then now she dare not 'force' me to have baby ...
Saggiegirl, can relate with your problem...hubby sperm is very little and mobility also very low....
MIL stays in India...all the time she wants to come down and stay with us and now not offering any help or any desire to come to Singapore....asked my mom and sister to come while undergoing the process...
Keep the faith and we will achieve the target
MIL stays in India...all the time she wants to come down and stay with us and now not offering any help or any desire to come to Singapore....asked my mom and sister to come while undergoing the process...
Keep the faith and we will achieve the target
saggiegirl
New Member
siddhi> yes we are in the same 'boat'...
my mom is very helpful...actually she is approaching 70 but health wise OK lar...she offer to help me during my long MC or what...she say if i ok, next time she help me to do confinement...
my MIL working so "cannot" bother her...
my mom is very helpful...actually she is approaching 70 but health wise OK lar...she offer to help me during my long MC or what...she say if i ok, next time she help me to do confinement...
my MIL working so "cannot" bother her...
joanne> yes the moment i started on my lucrin jabs i started on my ivf booster w Raffles,dr.jin.she will plan ur schedule all the way till ET n see if any more required after ET.(i'll keep her informed of follicles measuremnts/lining reports,ER reports previous history so she's more informed of my condition n treat me accordingly).
Qing> u had so much info for this alternative method...i'm sure all sistas here appreciate tat there's a different avenue we can all explore.as we all knw after awhl BD can be very routine and may put a strain on the marriage.DH oso feels the pressure n may not be up to it...THANK YOU!
congratz to u again...and wish u a smooth 9months
ladies>>i'm goin on a long break(till month end) where there's no internet connection so will b missing all postings and wont b able to answer any queries if there's any...time for a break..wohooo!
take care evryone,be good *wink *wink...jia you and Gong Xi Fa Chai!!
congratz to u again...and wish u a smooth 9months
ladies>>i'm goin on a long break(till month end) where there's no internet connection so will b missing all postings and wont b able to answer any queries if there's any...time for a break..wohooo!
take care evryone,be good *wink *wink...jia you and Gong Xi Fa Chai!!
Pink, I am happy tat I m able to contributr something here. I sincerely hope that you will be getting a BFP in a few days time. I reali salute your preservance in nt testing wif hpt. For me, U always get impatient on d11 n secretly tested wifout letting my hb know bt my later mood will in a way tell him the result.
Have a gd rest n happy cny.
Have a gd rest n happy cny.
qing>i knw wat u mean...but wil wait patiently.last few days had some brown discharge tat lasted 2daz...so super kan cheong for the outcome for next few daz..either mense full bloom or missing for next 9months...wahahaaaa...
kiki>so ur BT on 20jan
/under kk so tat means urs Day2 transfer..only 1 embbie out of 6 transfered?any reason why chose 1?
mine 2embbies(Day4-morula stage)sgh-Care,dr.yu.none avail for frozen despite 10 fertilised,as days go by they slowed down in growth and finally 'arrested'.
wishing u All The Best
kiki>so ur BT on 20jan
mine 2embbies(Day4-morula stage)sgh-Care,dr.yu.none avail for frozen despite 10 fertilised,as days go by they slowed down in growth and finally 'arrested'.
wishing u All The Best