BB,
you went to see prof at NUH or Prof Ng at gleneagles? me with Prof Wong at NUH, I assumed you talking abt your prof Ng. Okay, similar case to mine.
What happens is when I failed my IVF in May, menses came right? so that is not counted as the first menses after IVF failed, I need to wait for one cycle of menses which is assuming that my menses cycle is normal, then I will have menses in June right, then when the second cycle which is suppose to be in July right, after the 9th nine of that july cycle menses, then I can start doing the scan to see if I got eggs and when the eggs about to burst, they will keep monitoring till it burst and put the embryo in. Problem is: what if no menses? the nurse told me that if no menses or after July menses finish and the subsequent cycle, no eggs, then I cannot put in my embryos, so if really monitor and no egg for the subsequent mth, then Dr might give me pill to take and stimulate ovulation lor. Now I cannot go to them and say I dun think I will have egg, so just give me pill to ovulate, they need to monitor first.
Since you failed IVF in Aug, you got to wait for Sept cycle to come and go and then when OCt's menses come, you will start to go for scanning on the 9th day till egg burst and then FET on that day, if all the way after 9th day still no egg, means you might not have menses in Nov, and I think your prof will then give you pill to have menses to clear your womb and then start you on the clomid when artificial menses come and then monitor for eggs to burst to put in the embryos lor. That's my understanding.
That's why I am waiting for my menses to come this mth so that on the 9th day I can go for scanning and monitoring for my FET. Becos after IVF failed, my menses cycle haywired, 56 - 60 days, sigh.......:-(