winnie,
guys are always very non auto one, it's good u're educating yr hb now...i did all my jabs myself cos hb 50% not in sgp , when he's in i ask him to occupy my elder girl so that she doesn't bother me while i'm jabbing.
hb had to fly the day before my ER, he was actually seriously contemplating producing his sperm one day before and using frozen sperm for ER. meaning ER and ET i would have to go alone.
my dr gave him this whole speech abt we've come so far y want to compromise quality with using frozen sperm, plus she gave him this look saying huh u dun want to be here for ER and ET ah??? and she offered anything he needed to get out of the flight, she ask him wat u need? dr's letter, she can even talk to his boss if necessary to verify the situation etc etc.
and that's how my hb 'reluctantly' stayed for ER/ET