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pinkfreesias
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tzac, I'm with NUH and there is govt grant too. Its far from my place too as I'm staying at Punggol.
I don't think they can explain the reason. So the coming cycle is your 3rd attempt?
I don't think they can explain the reason. So the coming cycle is your 3rd attempt?
I am having my BT on 19 July. Have been having anxiety and nightmare on it. I do not dare to have high hope on it as the % of success for IVF is not high. Just hope God can grant me a baby.
My colleagues only succeed at the 4th attempts. I met a lady at KK IVF and she told me that she was in her 40s and only managed to succeed at the 3rd attempt with a miscarriage at the 2nd attempt. And now her baby looks so adorable.
We must jia you
My colleagues only succeed at the 4th attempts. I met a lady at KK IVF and she told me that she was in her 40s and only managed to succeed at the 3rd attempt with a miscarriage at the 2nd attempt. And now her baby looks so adorable.
We must jia you
strawb3rry
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<font color="aa00aa">Ineedmiracle,
I tried the immunocal this mrng... i used 30ml of cold water, add the immunocal and shake... but still hv lumps and alot of foam.
As I was in a hurry to get to work, i just add some room temp water and milo, stir and drank it. The drink taste ok to me.
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I tried the immunocal this mrng... i used 30ml of cold water, add the immunocal and shake... but still hv lumps and alot of foam.
As I was in a hurry to get to work, i just add some room temp water and milo, stir and drank it. The drink taste ok to me.
pinkfreesias
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Gan: Thanks. Ok, will call up Dr Zou. My AF came this morning when I was about to go for my BT. But it was light. Though I knew its gonna be failure, but I was still pinning hopes until I get the results.
ineedmiracle
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<font color="0077aa">pinkf
be strong and take care.
I think with help of tcm, they can help to tiao ur body faster and prepare it for the next cycle. Perhaps you can check with dr zou?
Jia you jia you.
Wow you stay punggol, still run till so far to nuh. I stay sengkang, and gg to kkh i find it far le. You take care.
I have a friend, after her failed ivf, she manage to conceive naturally in the following 1mth.
Anyway, jia you, and in 2mths time, mayb we can be cycle buddies. </font>
be strong and take care.
I think with help of tcm, they can help to tiao ur body faster and prepare it for the next cycle. Perhaps you can check with dr zou?
Jia you jia you.
Wow you stay punggol, still run till so far to nuh. I stay sengkang, and gg to kkh i find it far le. You take care.
I have a friend, after her failed ivf, she manage to conceive naturally in the following 1mth.
Anyway, jia you, and in 2mths time, mayb we can be cycle buddies. </font>
tzac i didn't really take the med from dr zou, only bot twice but i went regular accu, initially twice a week and when work caught up, i went once a week.
But my colleague who study tcm actually advise me to take both tcm and accu to have better effects. So u may want to consider.
But my colleague who study tcm actually advise me to take both tcm and accu to have better effects. So u may want to consider.
ineedmiracle
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<font color="0077aa">strawberry
this morning i in rush, never drink. Can i drink at night and sleep?
Any ladies can advise??</font>
this morning i in rush, never drink. Can i drink at night and sleep?
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sunstillshines
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Ladies, did you get to speak to PinkD? I wonder how is she now... hope did not give her too much pressure yesterday....
Miracle, how did you sent your msg in blue?
Miracle, how did you sent your msg in blue?
pinkfreesias
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ineedmiracle, ya. Will check with Dr Zou. My SIL recommended Prof to me so I think its ok even the distance is further abit. Thanks, you take care too.
pinkfreesias
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iloveshoes, your boss doesn't know you on IVF?
kitty_chan
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Hopefullymum, I'm older than u. 31 this year. Emm...I dont even feel bloated. Worried that the follicles are not growing. Somemore my Gona-F dosage is already quite high @ 375iu already
sunstillshines
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Kitty, you are so young.... I think you have more chance to get pregnant than me....
strawb3rry
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<font color="aa00aa">Ineedmiracle, not sure can drink at night. The instructions put drink on empty stomach so I drank in the morning. </font>
</font>Pink, great that you are meeting up with Prof. It is good to have a follow up with him.
When i went mine last Thursday, he also cant explain why it failed. I dont blame him. He can help me in so much but if the end result is not what we want, what can we do right.
He commented that mine actually went well, no hiccups from suppression to stimulation. In fact no problem with ET and ER too. Even my lining to me was ideal during ET which was 11mm and i was happy coz i read in this forum it should be 8-12mm. He told me the only difference he will do if i were to take my next attempt is to change my gonalf dosage so that i will have more follicles.
I have not decided with my hubby what we want to do next. Frankly speaking, I was not really ready to go to work after the failure. Its the explaining part which i feel make it difficult. Though only 3 ppl know about it and i know they are not kaypo ppl i feel one day they definitely ask me. True enough they did which I did not mind as these are the ppl that helped me alot during my absence. Surprisingly, all of them encouraged me to give another try. Their words of encouragement did change part of my mind. And they were opened to adoption. They asked me why not consider that. I was so touched by their encouragement. They make my return to work so much easier
As of now, I'm still clueless what's next for me and hubby
When i went mine last Thursday, he also cant explain why it failed. I dont blame him. He can help me in so much but if the end result is not what we want, what can we do right.
He commented that mine actually went well, no hiccups from suppression to stimulation. In fact no problem with ET and ER too. Even my lining to me was ideal during ET which was 11mm and i was happy coz i read in this forum it should be 8-12mm. He told me the only difference he will do if i were to take my next attempt is to change my gonalf dosage so that i will have more follicles.
I have not decided with my hubby what we want to do next. Frankly speaking, I was not really ready to go to work after the failure. Its the explaining part which i feel make it difficult. Though only 3 ppl know about it and i know they are not kaypo ppl i feel one day they definitely ask me. True enough they did which I did not mind as these are the ppl that helped me alot during my absence. Surprisingly, all of them encouraged me to give another try. Their words of encouragement did change part of my mind. And they were opened to adoption. They asked me why not consider that. I was so touched by their encouragement. They make my return to work so much easier
As of now, I'm still clueless what's next for me and hubby
strawb3rry
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<font color="0077aa">pink-f: hugz... sorry to hear your results. Take care... I also BFN last week and cried for half a day only coz my hubby encourages me to build up my health and try again... We will BFP+++ the next round.
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pinkfreesias
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Su, yes. I don't think the doctors will be able to know the reason especially when everything had went smoothly. This was what he said to me last week during the follow up that my process was quite smooth sailing too.
How many follicles did you had previously?
I am contemplating to do my next this year. But I'm not sure how I am going to tell my colleague where I'm going during the 2ww. And it makes myself always going on long leave which doesn't look very nice on me.
Su, I encourage u to try again but whether fresh or FET, you need to decide. Give urself sometime to settle down first. *hugs*
How many follicles did you had previously?
I am contemplating to do my next this year. But I'm not sure how I am going to tell my colleague where I'm going during the 2ww. And it makes myself always going on long leave which doesn't look very nice on me.
Su, I encourage u to try again but whether fresh or FET, you need to decide. Give urself sometime to settle down first. *hugs*
hopefulmummy
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kitty chan,
i'm on 200 units of puregon. who's your doc? i'm under Dr Tan Heng Hao. Anyone under him? so far i only read of ladies under dr Loh. This Dr Tan looks very young.
pink-f; sorry to hear about your results. but dun worry, if we keep trying, there's still hope.
i'm on 200 units of puregon. who's your doc? i'm under Dr Tan Heng Hao. Anyone under him? so far i only read of ladies under dr Loh. This Dr Tan looks very young.
pink-f; sorry to hear about your results. but dun worry, if we keep trying, there's still hope.
pinkfreesias
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Strawberry, I tried to hold my tears too until I can't hold it anymore. Yes, I hope we all will BFP next round.
iloveshoes, I agree with u too. Its like losing a baby though they are not well formed yet.
hopefulmummy, thanks.
iloveshoes, I agree with u too. Its like losing a baby though they are not well formed yet.
hopefulmummy, thanks.
pink_senorita
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Dear Pink-F: Pls do not fel sad for too long.
I understand the disappointment after failing 3IUIs...
But God will grant you your wish soon.
have a gd rest.
I understand the disappointment after failing 3IUIs...
But God will grant you your wish soon.
have a gd rest.
pinkfreesias
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Hi PinkD, how is it? BFP confirmed already?
pink_senorita
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Hi Pink-F: Clinic HPT is BFP but im waiting for BT results... shd be available after 330pm...
I hope you dun dwell in it too long.
We will give you lotsa baby dust!!
I hope you dun dwell in it too long.
We will give you lotsa baby dust!!
ineedmiracle
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<font color="0077aa">pinkD
you confirm BFP?
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you confirm BFP?
sunstillshines
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Hi PinkD, how? is everything fine?
Dear Su, pink, strawberry n ladies who BFN,
As mentioned by iloveshoes, having a BFN is a form of grief. According to psychology, there are 5 manin stages of grief-- denial (I am fine; this is not happening too me), anger (why this is happening to me), bargaining (I will do anything if...), depression (I am so sad.. what's the point), acceptance (it's ok; I am going to move on).
We may not go through all the stages but many will go through some of the stages.
We just need to be strong. It is ok to feel angry and sad for a while after the BFN but if these negative feelings prolong, you need to seek help.
Hope this information is useful
As mentioned by iloveshoes, having a BFN is a form of grief. According to psychology, there are 5 manin stages of grief-- denial (I am fine; this is not happening too me), anger (why this is happening to me), bargaining (I will do anything if...), depression (I am so sad.. what's the point), acceptance (it's ok; I am going to move on).
We may not go through all the stages but many will go through some of the stages.
We just need to be strong. It is ok to feel angry and sad for a while after the BFN but if these negative feelings prolong, you need to seek help.
Hope this information is useful
hopeforamiracle
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hi pinkd: lets us know wen u receive that IMPT call
then shall wan all ur baby dusts as well
pink_senorita
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hi miracle and sun: im waiting for Hcg numbers.
But dun feel great...this morning I was giddy and bloated...now better but tired.
U gals jia you ok?
Many girls here understand the painful feeling of disappointment because some of us failed simpler procedures before BFP... but it will come...it def will!
But dun feel great...this morning I was giddy and bloated...now better but tired.
U gals jia you ok?
Many girls here understand the painful feeling of disappointment because some of us failed simpler procedures before BFP... but it will come...it def will!