Nancy,
If you can wait for Thursday, go ahead. i also dun have courage. cos i have miscarriage from my first so-iui last year.
And unlike many sistas here, I did not have so much preparation stage. after i fail my feb cyclle (natural), I met dr loh and told him i want to plan for so-iui for march, but he still keep an open date for me to do IVF in may. Of cos, at the back of my mind, I really dun wan to go IVF cos I am afraid I dun have the patience for the long protocol. And also worry that the result may disappoint us again. Anyhow, Dr loh always think my case is not that jialud cos my first so-iui i started on 50iu puregon and still strike.... but lost it eventually.
so i decided to go for 2nd so-iui in march and keep an open date for ivf in May 2010.
and this cycle i almost wanted to give up two times cos intially my eggs were not growing after 100iu for 4 days and even doctor doubled to 200iu, it only grew 0.5mm. doctor inititally asked us if we want to give up, i replied, since i have come so far, i really dun wan to. so i continued with 200iu and the next day scan suddenly shows the eggs grew by 3.5mm.... and my lining was 11mm. We converted to IVF.....