gan, a ex colleague's wife tried very hard for 7 years to conceive. go TCM, see Doc n spent lots of money. after 7 yrs of trying, they were exhausted & money was drained... n they gave up... but not long after, the wife got pregnant naturally.. n she proceeded to hv no 2 naturally also..
my classmate married for 6 years. no precaution but the wife nv conceive, they also nv see any doc or did any check. they just continue praying (they are christians)... after 6 long years, with faith in GOD, the wife finally got pregnant & his daughter was born this year.
another classmate has PCOS.. she always have problems with her menses since puberty.she saw dr Sheila Loh, the head b4 Dr SF loh. she did not even have to do SO-IUI or IVF... she conceived naturally for no. 1 then she wanted for a 2nd child when no. 1 was 5 yrs old.. so she went back to see Dr Sheila Loh at kkhivf again.. n she got pregnant again for no 2... n she switched gynae mid way through when Dr Sheila left for raffles medical... she has 2 sons now..
how do we explain all these??? is all luck n if God has mercy for us & grant us a child...