IVF/ICSI Support Group
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Hi baby,
Yes during my first few days of lucrin jap i was feeling moody and frustrated, but coming to the 2nd and 3rd week im ok. hehe.. and also i feel very lazy keep waking up late for work. hehe..
How are u feeling now? When was ur 1st jab?
Hi Bee,
Thanks ya! and yup today is babydreamzy ER.. all the best to her.. i hope she is ok..
Yes during my first few days of lucrin jap i was feeling moody and frustrated, but coming to the 2nd and 3rd week im ok. hehe.. and also i feel very lazy keep waking up late for work. hehe..
How are u feeling now? When was ur 1st jab?
Hi Bee,
Thanks ya! and yup today is babydreamzy ER.. all the best to her.. i hope she is ok..
Hi Bee ,
How about yours ? I think your embryologist makes the right choice as you have many eggs.
If i have many eggs, i might try for that too.
Yes, i would like to see the pictures..
Hi Bliss and Sunflower ,
I will add u all once i log in msn.. usually i use office phone to chat here but my company blocked msn access.
How about yours ? I think your embryologist makes the right choice as you have many eggs.
If i have many eggs, i might try for that too.
Yes, i would like to see the pictures..
Hi Bliss and Sunflower ,
I will add u all once i log in msn.. usually i use office phone to chat here but my company blocked msn access.
Hey Bee, added you to my msn.. it's the hotmail that you emailed me rite
Well, ladies you are all young...unlike me. I only have less then a year to enjoy the grant so I need to make it soon so I am not waiting for another month break for my next try. I will try at my next cycle. My menus is still not here after the first IVF cycle. Dr Loh told me it would be like a 2 weeks late from the actual 28th day.. still waiting. Once it comes, my cycle can start again on the 2nd day of my menus cycle.. praying hard.
Guess you all have not been thru as much setbacks as I have. I have 2 miscarriages, grid my teeth through comments like "She cannot lay eggs", happy for friends whom are pregnant but feeling depressed cause I tried so long and hard but so news...The govt subsidy only came so late like mi last year... if they started a few years earlier then I would have tried earlier then maybe my chances are higher.. now chances are super slim but I am not giving up
I know God will bless me and I have so many moral support from all of you. I will try my best relax ans be myself
My last option is adoption.. that is only till I am not entitled for the govt IVF susbsidy
hehe.. meanwhile, let's all jia you ok
Well, ladies you are all young...unlike me. I only have less then a year to enjoy the grant so I need to make it soon so I am not waiting for another month break for my next try. I will try at my next cycle. My menus is still not here after the first IVF cycle. Dr Loh told me it would be like a 2 weeks late from the actual 28th day.. still waiting. Once it comes, my cycle can start again on the 2nd day of my menus cycle.. praying hard.
Guess you all have not been thru as much setbacks as I have. I have 2 miscarriages, grid my teeth through comments like "She cannot lay eggs", happy for friends whom are pregnant but feeling depressed cause I tried so long and hard but so news...The govt subsidy only came so late like mi last year... if they started a few years earlier then I would have tried earlier then maybe my chances are higher.. now chances are super slim but I am not giving up
ilovemoomoo
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Hi Ladies
Wow, i did not log in for few days and the threads are moving at lightning speed !! hee...
Bee/BesswBB
Jia you
BTP BFP counting down with u guys. Bee, when u go back to work next week. Do be careful. Stay away from colleagues or anyone couging or sneezing hee......
Bloated/Nicole/Humbug/sun flower
Welcome to the forum !!!
Wow, i did not log in for few days and the threads are moving at lightning speed !! hee...
Bee/BesswBB
Jia you
Bloated/Nicole/Humbug/sun flower
Welcome to the forum !!!
Hi develyn and humbug i really admired ur strength and courage in working 2wards ur target of having a child. For me i have tired 3 years with no result and i have feeling depressed whenever i heard frds getting pregnant. In fact i started to worry when i did not get any result after a year of trying. Somtimes when menses come i juz couldnt face the fact that i m not pregnant again. But now i only hope is that everything will be smooth during my ivf journey............
Hi ladies, not so new here...been on this thread like last dec on my first IVF/ICSI attempt...and had a BFN. Then i did the FET on 19/2. So currently on mc till wed...oh how i dread to go back to work. even now, I have CA papers to mark and CA marks to key in..but i am pushing it till tmrw... First 3 days i just want to rest...and sleep...
Somehow the symptoms for fet is diff from an ET, anyone here been thru fet...can share with me.
By the way to the others..... keep on trying and may we do get a BFP soon. Like most of u said...being positive is super important!
Somehow the symptoms for fet is diff from an ET, anyone here been thru fet...can share with me.
By the way to the others..... keep on trying and may we do get a BFP soon. Like most of u said...being positive is super important!
bloated
i am also 7 days after ET. i feel bloated too, which is good cos according to the ladies here, it means we hv sufficient HCG in our body. Nurse told me the bloatedness is worst at night but should not be hurting, a little uncomfortable is unavoidable. dun take oily, spicy food and no pineapple. a little walking will help. if the hurt is unbearable, call the centre and check if it is normal
i am also 7 days after ET. i feel bloated too, which is good cos according to the ladies here, it means we hv sufficient HCG in our body. Nurse told me the bloatedness is worst at night but should not be hurting, a little uncomfortable is unavoidable. dun take oily, spicy food and no pineapple. a little walking will help. if the hurt is unbearable, call the centre and check if it is normal
twinstars77
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Hi Develyn,
I understand the loss, I cried very hard when I m/c, during the unsuccessful clomid cycles, when AF reported I cried, somemore in office, so pai seh, took it too hard.
Now this IVF session, my hubby kept telling me that if it doesnt succeed dun be sad.
Hi baby09,
today's morning jab was very painful the most painful one, cos I asked my hubby not to jab near the spot where he usually jab, cos I can feel the pain, then he chose somewhere 2 to 3 inches away, I scream when he slightly poked the needle on me. so in the end he jab at the usual spot, (it is still painful leh). Cried during the jab...
Btw when u pinch your tummy for jabs do you pinch bigger area or pinch smaller area? Pinch tight or loose?
Btw after ET KK will issue 14 days HL? I didnt know that leh, didnt tell my office that I will have HL, if it is true, i better tell my boss so that she can arrange pple to cover my job sia.
I understand the loss, I cried very hard when I m/c, during the unsuccessful clomid cycles, when AF reported I cried, somemore in office, so pai seh, took it too hard.
Now this IVF session, my hubby kept telling me that if it doesnt succeed dun be sad.
Hi baby09,
today's morning jab was very painful the most painful one, cos I asked my hubby not to jab near the spot where he usually jab, cos I can feel the pain, then he chose somewhere 2 to 3 inches away, I scream when he slightly poked the needle on me. so in the end he jab at the usual spot, (it is still painful leh). Cried during the jab...
Btw when u pinch your tummy for jabs do you pinch bigger area or pinch smaller area? Pinch tight or loose?
Btw after ET KK will issue 14 days HL? I didnt know that leh, didnt tell my office that I will have HL, if it is true, i better tell my boss so that she can arrange pple to cover my job sia.
bee,
i feeling bloated and tenderness like u too. Have been eating alot for the 1st 2ww till all my clothings are too tight for me now. Haha...
Lost my appetite and having nausea feeling now. Hope this is a good sign.
btw, i understand u don take ensure milk regularly. It is advisable to take twice daily as it consist both folic acid and selenium which is good for us. selenium will helps in the implantation. If u don like, try taking some brazil nuts. But not to take too much cos its consist the highest selenium.
Will u be buying pregnancy kit to test at home 1st before your test date? I will testing tmr cos both my previous cycle i tested BFN using the pregnancy kit so will be doing this round too.
Jia you yo!! BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP
i feeling bloated and tenderness like u too. Have been eating alot for the 1st 2ww till all my clothings are too tight for me now. Haha...
Lost my appetite and having nausea feeling now. Hope this is a good sign.
btw, i understand u don take ensure milk regularly. It is advisable to take twice daily as it consist both folic acid and selenium which is good for us. selenium will helps in the implantation. If u don like, try taking some brazil nuts. But not to take too much cos its consist the highest selenium.
Will u be buying pregnancy kit to test at home 1st before your test date? I will testing tmr cos both my previous cycle i tested BFN using the pregnancy kit so will be doing this round too.
Jia you yo!! BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP
twinstars77
Member
Hi BlessBB,
Started with right side tummy 1st, then left side, then right side, alternate side lor. 2mr will pinch bigger area, think maybe pinch too small area when pinch the protuding fats in abt 1.5 inch height.
Started with right side tummy 1st, then left side, then right side, alternate side lor. 2mr will pinch bigger area, think maybe pinch too small area when pinch the protuding fats in abt 1.5 inch height.
Hi Twinstar, maybe you can get your hubby to quickly poke the needle. When I was injecting during my first cycle, i find it less panful if the injection is quick and fast.... just poke, press the syringe and make sure ur hubby hand is stabble when pulling out the needle. Lesser movement lesser pain.
blesswbb
how is ur first day at work? dun stress urself, must relax ya? i hv not tried my office wear yet, think i cant fit into some of them too..
hmmm... nausea feeling is good. i dun hv this feeling leh! haha, because of ur words, i am drinking ENSURE milk now. Shd hv chosen the choc or vanilla flavour, strawberry one tastes funny.
I have preg kits at home too i thought of doing my own test 3 days before the actual test. But hubby felt not necessary as it creates unnecessary stress. Remembered one of the ladies also cannot tahan and she did her own test at home and got quite upset when it showed BPN.
Btw, when can we start testing it ourselves? Is it accurate?
how is ur first day at work? dun stress urself, must relax ya? i hv not tried my office wear yet, think i cant fit into some of them too..
hmmm... nausea feeling is good. i dun hv this feeling leh! haha, because of ur words, i am drinking ENSURE milk now. Shd hv chosen the choc or vanilla flavour, strawberry one tastes funny.
I have preg kits at home too
i thought of doing my own test 3 days before the actual test. But hubby felt not necessary as it creates unnecessary stress. Remembered one of the ladies also cannot tahan and she did her own test at home and got quite upset when it showed BPN. Btw, when can we start testing it ourselves? Is it accurate?
nope Dr say maybe its just abnormal..cos during Ist scan doc did mention baby sac was kinda small.but heartbeat was good.but it progress aft sec scan..but sumhow baby's heartbeat stop. I cried n cried..even wen for second opinion but still no heartbeat. I tght baby there will be a miracle..living in a state of denial. Finally on Jan 21 i did my D&C. Baby was in me for 4weeks..its like baby dosent want to come out..but i had to take it out.
I have not cried as much..but wenever i talked abt it tears will flow dwn ..even now. I cant belive tht i was actually so close to having a baby..but our happiness was shattered.
We have decided to let go of our 12 frozen embryos. We want to start on Clomid first..if it does not werk thn IUI..cos we sumhow feel now tht our gynae did not let us take things step by step she just said tht our last resort was IVF..she said this cos i did laproscopy and my tube were blocked ..but she unblocked it alrdy..so why not take me through the steps rite??..aniway..wen i got preg i change gyna n also hsp. Cos i paid for a specialist gynae n yet treatment was so so unprofessional..not even bothered wen i was taken to A&E WHEN I HAD SLIGHT BLEEDINg..she saw my hubby..n she just say..just go a&e n walked away!..
I then switched to Dr Lawrence frm Thomson..
But now we are thinking of going to DR SUresh nair..frm Mt E.
I have not cried as much..but wenever i talked abt it tears will flow dwn ..even now. I cant belive tht i was actually so close to having a baby..but our happiness was shattered.
We have decided to let go of our 12 frozen embryos. We want to start on Clomid first..if it does not werk thn IUI..cos we sumhow feel now tht our gynae did not let us take things step by step she just said tht our last resort was IVF..she said this cos i did laproscopy and my tube were blocked ..but she unblocked it alrdy..so why not take me through the steps rite??..aniway..wen i got preg i change gyna n also hsp. Cos i paid for a specialist gynae n yet treatment was so so unprofessional..not even bothered wen i was taken to A&E WHEN I HAD SLIGHT BLEEDINg..she saw my hubby..n she just say..just go a&e n walked away!..
I then switched to Dr Lawrence frm Thomson..
But now we are thinking of going to DR SUresh nair..frm Mt E.
ladymiz,
r u on any insert/medicine? I was given insert for hormone support. 1st week i don anything except on the 2nd week i started to have pregnancy symptoms like which i think is due to the medicine. Other than that i don feel different. In fact, i prefer FET as it given lesser stress on all the jabs.
Don worry too much. In fact don think anything is the best. Just pray it will stick to u. All the best.
r u on any insert/medicine? I was given insert for hormone support. 1st week i don anything except on the 2nd week i started to have pregnancy symptoms like which i think is due to the medicine. Other than that i don feel different. In fact, i prefer FET as it given lesser stress on all the jabs.
Don worry too much. In fact don think anything is the best. Just pray it will stick to u. All the best.
bee,
1st day of work quite stress for me cos most of my colleagues know abt me going thru IVF. And was worried they may ask me how the result. Lucky my immediate superior has warned them not to ask me as result is very sensitive for me. So understanding of her.
Don dare to give myself too much hope cos my previous FET also giving me lots of pregnancy symptoms like but end up with BFN. Now trying to be relax till tmr when we have our home test
According to Dr Zou i can test at home since my last jab was last Mon so should be quite accurate.
Once u stop with all the medicine after 3 days u can have yr pregnancy test.
1st day of work quite stress for me cos most of my colleagues know abt me going thru IVF. And was worried they may ask me how the result. Lucky my immediate superior has warned them not to ask me as result is very sensitive for me. So understanding of her.
Don dare to give myself too much hope cos my previous FET also giving me lots of pregnancy symptoms like but end up with BFN. Now trying to be relax till tmr when we have our home test
According to Dr Zou i can test at home since my last jab was last Mon so should be quite accurate.
Once u stop with all the medicine after 3 days u can have yr pregnancy test.
Hope&faith,
Hugz...hugz...don be sad ok....sometimes when it is not the right time it will not be yours.
I was watching a programme last nite, and this lady was telling her true story. She got pregnant at age 38 and was very happy. But when the baby was 39weeks and 3 days she found the baby was not moving at all. Thru the scan she also found no heartbeat and need to go thru caeseran to have it taken out. They found the umbilical cord was around the neck. Her case is much painful. But she never give up, and finally the following year she got 1 healthy baby girl.
This tell us not to give up easily and u will be blessed with a healthy baby. Look forward and u be blessed.
Hugz...hugz...don be sad ok....sometimes when it is not the right time it will not be yours.
I was watching a programme last nite, and this lady was telling her true story. She got pregnant at age 38 and was very happy. But when the baby was 39weeks and 3 days she found the baby was not moving at all. Thru the scan she also found no heartbeat and need to go thru caeseran to have it taken out. They found the umbilical cord was around the neck. Her case is much painful. But she never give up, and finally the following year she got 1 healthy baby girl.
This tell us not to give up easily and u will be blessed with a healthy baby. Look forward and u be blessed.