Summer - Oh, you must be so heartache at times to see your boy so alone... i was also, then i started to give him more toys, books, tv and games etc just to help him fill up the gap... but but its really a no no... he will start losing focus on his studies.. so now i am taking back whatever i had given him slowly and replacing it with more tuitions and books
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parents are always the ones that spoil market...
yes, i am worried for the age gap... since he was 5 i had wanted to try to have one more sibling for him, counting the gap till now, i lost count
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so now mummy is not giving him a playmate anymore, givin him a big headache!! hehe... hope with this much younger sibling, it will be able to cultivate him to be a good brother... u know only kid tends to be a little selfish, thats one of the nature we cant avoid...
Joyce - Actually I also didnt know I will have a problem concieving.. U know woman, as long as we had given birth before, no one know why suddenly u stop being fertile...
I was always trying, I kept thinking its stress or diet or bad habits, cos I am a smoker and drinks as well.. never did it occur to me that I will have 2 blocked tubes coupled with endo over the years... dr loh cant explained why my tubes got blocked in between the years.. but it just did
so here i am, the only way to make another baby is thru IVF
I thank GOD that there is an alternative... otherwise I can't imagine
hope this time will be successful, trying to keep myself positive
Mabel - Thanks!! Yes, my boy can really be sweet and understanding sometimes... am very thankful to have him by my side. He is like the little man in my life. Reminding me on daily stuffs and me, like a old naggy mum, reminding him to do homework EVERYDAY!! hehe... its always good to have more than one kid... cos only kid is really lonely... there's no other better word to describe either than this word... and this is the root of how their character develops thereafter if we parents cant dedicate more time for them
Perper - Yes dear, I am also prone to bartholin cysts. Just removed one 1.5 yrs ago.. there was an infection at that time... so painful 'sob sob' and lately, i can feel it swelling again
maybe dr loh might need to perform another bartholin cyst removal soon.. why didnt it come earlier? I just had my laprascopy in Nov 10 'faintx' tired of going under general anaesthesia but seasoned too...hehe
Jass - rest more and drink more water... u will feel better from 4th day onwards ^_^