PrayHard,
You know, prior to my m/c last year, i kinda avoid my relatives who wil ask when we going to have kids etc etc... but after my m/c, my heart finally open up. those close ones, i will reveal that we tried, but i got m/c. And those not so close relatives ask, i will say "soon-soon".... i think i need to say "good words" to motivate ourselves that we will carry the baby in our arms one day.
And I chose this month for SO-IUI intially was because I calculated, if I strike, the baby EDD will be in December, just in time for Tiger year. My mum is also born in Tiger... this will be my gift to her.