starbabies, there is no secret, I honestly feel that luck plays a very important role. yes, a woman's health is impt, but it does not mean women with weaker body will find it harder to conceive though it may hv an impact. I hv seen friends with weak body but conceive 1 after n another also.
Tcm medicine takes time. Some take 3 to 6 mths but some take longer. In most instances, like myself, time is not on my side coz I marry late. I year after marriage when I dun conceive, I started taking Tcm medicines.. Another 6 mths later, I went to see a gynae while still on Tcm medicine. My gynae said there is nothing wrong with me n dh n I think my body is quite okay also.... My menses are regular. I took abt 1yr plus of chinese herbs, but Nv succeed. I stopped when I started seeing dr loh... Coz is quite costly to juggle both.
one quick way to 'bu' ur body quickly is take durians. But dun overdose as I dunno if ur body can take it... Cordycepts are very good also but costly. u can get small amount n grind them into powder. 1 tiny scoop, the size of the plastic stirrer scoop every 3 days dissolve in warm water. take when u wake up with an empty stomach.
Tea, be it chinese or english type, cut down. They r very cooling. Cold food also cut down.
After ur monthly cycle, ask ur mum to cook some nutritious soup to recuperate. The chinese medical shop can advise u on that.
actually, the best time to tiao our body is during confinement. our body can turn better or worse during that 1 mth confinement. so a good confinement is impt.
When u r pregnant, the 3rd trimester is impt coz how strong ur bb health will be depend on how u 'bu'. Coz whatever tonic u take, goes to ur bb... We as mothers can give our bb a stronger body to start with. When they r stronger, they dun fall sick as easily.
Hope the above helps. continue to pray, n think positive, N dUN give up.. Good luck!
