Hi sistas, i'm back. Apologies but something happened which caused my MIA. Miss you all, sistas! Just read some mid Sep to most recent posts and my fingers couldnt wait any longer, must start to type and post, later will try to read all the older posts.
Congrats to Su on your newborn baby gal!
Congrats to my cycle buddy, Blue, really sorry for my disappearance.
I'm now on hosp leave after D & C last Thurs - Yes, I was pregnant, but for just 6 weeks...sac did not develop. Prof says I have to wait for 3 months to try again, really sad.
I'm shattered into pieces...I told you sistas before that i have a story behind my ivf journey. Yes, I faced a death last year, which tore us apart, I wouldnt be around if not for my dear hubby, who, in the midst of sorrow, picked me up....my precious 8 year old boy was called home to be with the Lord unexpectedly, 20 days short of his 8th bdae, also in Oct.
Many pple encouraged us to try for a 2nd child, it's definitely not for replacement. Deep down our heart, we know that he could not be replaced, no matter what, he is forever our dearest first born. We know that our precious son would love to have a didi or a meimei too when he was still with us, hence, we decided to give it a try, in the midst of our sorrow.
We were a contented 1-child family, didnt consider having a 2nd one due to common S'porean contraints - time & $. We tried giving him the best we could, but never had enough time for him.
To Su & all sistas out there, you should try to have more than 1 child, this is from the bottom of my heart. i really regretted not giving my precious son a sibling and spent so much time fighting the rat race.
But here I am, faced with another trauma, in Oct again, D & C day was our wedding anniversary, my world had to fall apart again, but this of course could not compare with the pain we experienced last Oct. I have no more tears...