Husband's affair with a foreigner

[margret]

I told him I use PI and get evidence for me since you don’t want to admit and keep denying when been caught by me.. and he lie about that bitch is going back and they have “nothing” already and ask me go ahead and complain.. I told him don’t worry.. I WILL go complain and his next message said “you want to make me don’t send money to you” does that consider as “threatening” le right?

use that against him in court if he doesnt wan to pay maintenance.
its already bad enough for him to have affair and worse threaten u like this.

u have to be strong and make sure you lived happier without him

 

[ImNotMean]

use that against him in court if he doesnt wan to pay maintenance.
its already bad enough for him to have affair and worse threaten u like this.

u have to be strong and make sure you lived happier without him

Thank you

 

[Sam771]

it does sound threatening as it is something u r rightful recipient and being threatened due action of yours which is legitimate

 

[wendy_reborn]

 

[Stansy]

Human being is so scary… as I always say: ‘ human being is more harmful than ghost’ hence am afraid of human being than ghost

 

[moodz]

i am new here...my hb having an affairs with an WP holder which is working as a masseuse. i wan her out of SGP.

 

[Stansy]

i am new here...my hb having an affairs with an WP holder which is working as a masseuse. i wan her out of SGP.

I totally empathise with you.. do you have solid evidence to report her?

 

[moodz]

i only hv evidence of hotel booking but under my hb name. he deleted all msg.

 

[margret]

i only hv evidence of hotel booking but under my hb name. he deleted all msg.

How did u knew he went to hotel with?


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[moodz]

i see his gps , booking confirmation and bank statement. he also admit tat BXXXX.

 

[margret]

i see his gps , booking confirmation and bank statement. he also admit tat BXXXX.

U will need to get the evidence that he went to hotel with her again. Then u can used it to make a complaint so that the masseuse cannot renew her pass.


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[moodz]

Tat BXXXX have left Singapore already as her facebook show. My hb said that he would not contacted her but inside of me feel angry, sad and betray. My hb and I have been married for 14 years and 10 years together. He is a straightforward, honest person and would not touch a DIRTY BXXXX. (Calling a DIRTY BXXXX coz the place they work in not decent massage but gt special service.) He would always protect me. But he lied to me for almost a year and even tot of wanting to marry her. he even admit to me tat he love her. I felt betrayed and hurt. I really duno wat to do. In my mind, I want to divorce but in my heart, i still love my hb. I want to try to forgive him but my mind kept on showing of them together and stuffs.

 

[moodz]

if any of you guys want to noe the place, can private pm me. So tat you would not let ur hb go.

 

[margret]

if any of you guys want to noe the place, can private pm me. So tat you would not let ur hb go.

Since he is back, try to salvage th le marriage. But from what I know as they returned.


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[Jola]

Hi all..

I am new to this forum. I'd like to seek advise from anyone who have faced similar situation.

I found out that my husband has been having an affair with a foreigner. I engaged the service of a PI to get all the evidences and I have reported the mistress to MOM. So far the case is still under investigation and MOM is not able to advise on the timeline or outcome. The woman has caused a lot of damage to my family and my young child. She became very bold after I found out about their affair. Would like to hear from anyone who have lodged a report with MOM/ICA and if there has been success in getting the homewrecker's work pass revoked/blacklisted in Singapore. Thank you.

Hi Dear ,

May I know how to u report to MOM or ICA?

 

[margret]

Hi Dear ,

May I know how to u report to MOM or ICA?

What is your situation ?


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[Jola]

What is your situation ?


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My husband has an affair with Thai lady. They went to hotel few times. I caught them at hotel and still cheat me. Full of lies. After that they still continue to contact each other. I have her contact only. How to find out her name and particulars? I have made police report but the police said they won't investigate due to family matter. So lost now.

 

[margret]

My husband has an affair with Thai lady. They went to hotel few times. I caught them at hotel and still cheat me. Full of lies. After that they still continue to contact each other. I have her contact only. How to find out her name and particulars? I have made police report but the police said they won't investigate due to family matter. So lost now.

Is the Thai on working permit here?

U need a PI to get u the evidence then u submit to ICA on MOM so as to blacklist her


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[Jola]

Is the Thai on working permit here?

U need a PI to get u the evidence then u submit to ICA on MOM so as to blacklist her


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Yes , she is holding working pass here. I an heading to ICA if they can get infos.

 

[Jola]

Is the Thai on working permit here?

U need a PI to get u the evidence then u submit to ICA on MOM so as to blacklist her


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Hi,
I went to ICA today and get replied that ICA don't Involve. I called MOM, at first ask me report police. I explained that I have reported but police said they wont investigate due to family matter. Then I back to MOM again the officer said get her particulars first then report to us. Now i am looking for PI.

 

[Jola]

Hi I just contact few PI , They can't get FIN number of the lady. Anyone here knows how to get it? Needs help

 

[Mongkok]

Tak a step bk la.
So many thai nation in sg. U can stop the rest?
the prblm lies w your husband. By focusing on 1, u may end up helping ur husband to relieve the sticky one and move on to another. Along the way aso make him smarter.
Waste ur money on such man, might as well go for plastic surgery at least u will look better thereafter.

 

[Mikiyoki]

Hi I just contact few PI , They can't get FIN number of the lady. Anyone here knows how to get it? Needs help

If u have her workpermit number thats all they need, dont need fin number, your PI should be able to get her wp number. There are ways.

 

[Stansy]

Hi all,

I am here to commiserate with your misery.

I am a Singaporean lady whose bf chose a PRC girl over me.

Many men told me they would rate me a 8-9 out of 10. As a professional, I am doing well in my career and I bought my own property and car but living with my parents as typical of Singaporean girls. I am also sweet to my boyfriend and I don't criticize him or am not rude to him either.

I first found out that my bf was seeing a single PRC kindergarten teacher. She's about 10 years younger than I am and rents a room in an old apartment. The other rooms in the apartment are rented out to male tenants. She met my bf on a dating app and he has been going to her house for her sugar walls. They don't meet outside because he didn't want to bump into his friends and perhaps me. Why would a single person allow herself to be used by a man like that?


I found out because I hired a PI to follow him due to my gut feeling that he is two timing me. My PI reported to me that my bf went to her house in the evening on a weekday and never left the house until 6am the next morning to go to work probably.

He left the girl for me, when I confronted him. However a few months later, I found out that he started to be in touch with her again. This time when I found out, I couldn't help it but I broke up with him because this is the second time.

I have gotten over this guy but I am very disappointed in him. And in my head, I can't help but wonder if she is much better in bed or is she so hot?

Why go for an easy PRC who gives you easy access when you can have a beautiful, rich Singaporean? Why? Why?

 

[Stansy]

Answer is very simple.. dick itchy.. girl, u hv made a wise choice, he will regret BIG time!! Most PRC are slut.. it’s his lost but your GAIN. It’s pointless to ask why… just move on and be happy

 

[ZenZen2]

Hi all,

I am here to commiserate with your misery.

I am a Singaporean lady whose bf chose a PRC girl over me.

Many men told me they would rate me a 8-9 out of 10. As a professional, I am doing well in my career and I bought my own property and car but living with my parents as typical of Singaporean girls. I am also sweet to my boyfriend and I don't criticize him or am not rude to him either.

I first found out that my bf was seeing a single PRC kindergarten teacher. She's about 10 years younger than I am and rents a room in an old apartment. The other rooms in the apartment are rented out to male tenants. She met my bf on a dating app and he has been going to her house for her sugar walls. They don't meet outside because he didn't want to bump into his friends and perhaps me. Why would a single person allow herself to be used by a man like that?


I found out because I hired a PI to follow him due to my gut feeling that he is two timing me. My PI reported to me that my bf went to her house in the evening on a weekday and never left the house until 6am the next morning to go to work probably.

He left the girl for me, when I confronted him. However a few months later, I found out that he started to be in touch with her again. This time when I found out, I couldn't help it but I broke up with him because this is the second time.

I have gotten over this guy but I am very disappointed in him. And in my head, I can't help but wonder if she is much better in bed or is she so hot?

Why go for an easy PRC who gives you easy access when you can have a beautiful, rich Singaporean? Why? Why?

hi

its his loss for losing you. why?
i'm not sure but perhaps u are too outstanding until he feel inferior with u.
usually outstanding women have higher expectations and more difficult to find a partner

 

[Stansy]

hi

its his loss for losing you. why?
i'm not sure but perhaps u are too outstanding until he feel inferior with u.
usually outstanding women have higher expectations and more difficult to find a partner

What’s wrong being a successful woman? Does it mean that it permits the man to stray??!!! Ridiculous!!!!’

 

[margret]

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What’s wrong being a successful woman? Does it mean that it permits the man to stray??!!! Ridiculous!!!!’

Yup. It’s just a excuse that man fall for lust


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