tryingtoconceive2014
Active Member
Well, sometimes, I really pity my university classmate. She is 1 year younger than me, married to her husband for 7 years at least. However, since marriage, actually till date, they only slept together on the same bed once or twice. She often quarrelled with her husband coz of this. The reasons he gave are often: he snores, thus disrupting her sleep; she needs to get up early and he does not; and or he sleeps late and she sleeps early etc. Whenever she brings up the subject of having a baby, he will quarrel badly with her. For the lack of affection, he tried to make it up by cooking breakfast, doing household chores etc. My university classmate often cried in silence. The husband knows about that too. They are both Christians. Now my university classmate admires a boy in the job she is currently working, but not sure if the boy has any affections towards her. She tried to persuade the husband to go for marriage counselling. He just went once, and said that it was a waste of time and totally useless. They are both Christians. In my classmates's eyes, Bible says Christians not supposed to divorce their husbands or wives, so she is stuck here. She keeps on waiting years after year, hoping that the husband will change one day for the better. However, 2 to 3 years have passed, and the husband is still cold and unaffectionate towards her.
What should she do now?
Strange thing is: the husband's parents never bring up the subject of grandchildren all these years, though my university classmate insists that her husband is straight.
What should she do now?
Strange thing is: the husband's parents never bring up the subject of grandchildren all these years, though my university classmate insists that her husband is straight.