Me and my husband have been married for 9 months. He doesn't want a child because he said he wants us to be financially stable first. How stable does he want us to be when we both have our own full-time jobs and our house has been renovated? I'm satisfied with our house although there are a few missing points but very minor. We have everything that we need. His idea of perfection are bigger TV, house decals, change of aircons, etc (those very non-important stuffs to me).
He knows very well how badly I want a child. Whenever I brought up this topic or try to talk to him, he will either get irritated or just brush it off or making empty promises only to be given a big fat NO when the time comes.
He also has not "touch" me for more than 2 months. I'm guessing that it's because he really doesn't want a child.
I'm honestly very depressed with his actions that I will cry at times just at the thought of it.
How do I deal with this?
He knows very well how badly I want a child. Whenever I brought up this topic or try to talk to him, he will either get irritated or just brush it off or making empty promises only to be given a big fat NO when the time comes.
He also has not "touch" me for more than 2 months. I'm guessing that it's because he really doesn't want a child.
I'm honestly very depressed with his actions that I will cry at times just at the thought of it.
How do I deal with this?