Just to share my schedule : leave office at 6 pm. Reach mum place at 7, pick my girls , have my dinner . Reach my place ard 8 pm. Elder girl will do her work while i settle baby to sleep.
I will change baby , feed , pat her to sleep upon stepping in the house. After baby sleeps, attend to elder girl till elder girl bedtime at 10pm.
Hang laundry etc , sleep at 11-11.30.
I room with baby and she woke up for a feed ard 2-3am, then another feed at 6 am. I will start my day after her 6 am feed.
Tiring for sure but it will pass.
I conserve my energy by lunching in and sleep as early as possible