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Hi jon, thanks for sharing the guy pov. So, what kind of guys shld single women look for in order to marry a good husband. Any traits? Family background. Job?<!-/quote-!><hr size=0></blockquote>
Guys from difficult backgrounds. That is the biggest test of character. In tough environments, 1 out of 100 guys will fight hard and develop a heart that is strong and pure. The other 99 will attempt to cheat, or simply give up. It's a common excuse: "I come from tough background, so that's why I'm so bad lah". Only the strongest guys can come out purer.
If your guy is always busy working on his career, then there's good chance he is strong. Look at the guys doing national service. Some will cheong (party) during weekend, and then get MC during weekdays. Some will just sleep whole weekend, let girlfriend scold or even get dumped, and then go back to camp stronger and fitter for their jobs.
Sad fact is that all girls get the guys they deserve. Girls usually dump the guy who is "boring" in the sense that they work, sleep, exercise, and nothing else. In short, girls who got no discipline in life will dump guys who have discipline in life. It's a simple equation. Two people too different will drift apart.
You want a hardworking guy who is smart and loving? Be such a girl yourself.
And queenie is right. When things break down, a wife's biggest "weapon" is being gentle. However, that "strategy" is "after the fact" (not preventive). The better strategy is being gentle as a habit to start with; prevention is better than cure. Also, you'll get a gentle loving guy if you're gentle yourself.
Improve yourself non-stop, then fate will give you a guy similar to your level when you're ready.
Hi jon, thanks for sharing the guy pov. So, what kind of guys shld single women look for in order to marry a good husband. Any traits? Family background. Job?<!-/quote-!><hr size=0></blockquote>
Guys from difficult backgrounds. That is the biggest test of character. In tough environments, 1 out of 100 guys will fight hard and develop a heart that is strong and pure. The other 99 will attempt to cheat, or simply give up. It's a common excuse: "I come from tough background, so that's why I'm so bad lah". Only the strongest guys can come out purer.
If your guy is always busy working on his career, then there's good chance he is strong. Look at the guys doing national service. Some will cheong (party) during weekend, and then get MC during weekdays. Some will just sleep whole weekend, let girlfriend scold or even get dumped, and then go back to camp stronger and fitter for their jobs.
Sad fact is that all girls get the guys they deserve. Girls usually dump the guy who is "boring" in the sense that they work, sleep, exercise, and nothing else. In short, girls who got no discipline in life will dump guys who have discipline in life. It's a simple equation. Two people too different will drift apart.
You want a hardworking guy who is smart and loving? Be such a girl yourself.
And queenie is right. When things break down, a wife's biggest "weapon" is being gentle. However, that "strategy" is "after the fact" (not preventive). The better strategy is being gentle as a habit to start with; prevention is better than cure. Also, you'll get a gentle loving guy if you're gentle yourself.
Improve yourself non-stop, then fate will give you a guy similar to your level when you're ready.