Hi , want to get some of your thoughts here.
All along I’m aware my hubby has been in contact with an ex fling - lasted for a few months which happened before we got together and she is now based overseas. They have been chatting on and off (once a few months) on fb messenger on general matters however recently after I’ve delivered a bb, I realized hubby chatted with her on how those past sex encounters with her still excites him till too, thanking her jokingly on those experiences etc..
Few things on my mind:
1) I’m pretty sure this is an emotional betrayal isn’t it ? Even though it’s like reminiscing the past
2) I feel like confronting hubby but I don’t know how to raise it up? Should I just say I happen to read those text
3) in my heart I’m hoping he would just stop so I don’t have to confront him as I feel once I do that, it will leave a mark on our relationship . Also given we have a newborn now, I’m kind of exhausted to enter into a confrontation- perhaps I should wait and see how their text exchanges progresses?
Thanks in advance for any advice or thoughts.
All along I’m aware my hubby has been in contact with an ex fling - lasted for a few months which happened before we got together and she is now based overseas. They have been chatting on and off (once a few months) on fb messenger on general matters however recently after I’ve delivered a bb, I realized hubby chatted with her on how those past sex encounters with her still excites him till too, thanking her jokingly on those experiences etc..
Few things on my mind:
1) I’m pretty sure this is an emotional betrayal isn’t it ? Even though it’s like reminiscing the past
2) I feel like confronting hubby but I don’t know how to raise it up? Should I just say I happen to read those text
3) in my heart I’m hoping he would just stop so I don’t have to confront him as I feel once I do that, it will leave a mark on our relationship . Also given we have a newborn now, I’m kind of exhausted to enter into a confrontation- perhaps I should wait and see how their text exchanges progresses?
Thanks in advance for any advice or thoughts.