DIY - Investigatioon
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I did my own investigation and found out that my wife is having an affair.
With a help of a PI (Private Investigator) to gather more concrete evidence for court.
Take note these techniques and devices said are not to replace actual investigation by the professional PI.It is useful for them to reduce the time spent and increase the probability rate of them hitting on the target.I will share my experience hiring a PI and what are the usual questions they will ask you. For this article will name the wife/husband having an affair as "target"
Consider the following
· Doing these yourself will hurt you soul and character as a person.
· If you are not a calm person I STRONGLY ADVICE not to do it.
· The main reason why I did it is because I do not have enough money to hire the PI to follow them for a long period of time and I just want to have a higher probability on getting the evidence.
Writing in a few parts
1) Signs of Affair
· Started working late hour -My Ex started working long hours and gave excuses that due to the increase job scope she will have to work late at night.
· Changed password for mobile phone - We used to share a common password but she gave reasons due to privacy issues I should not be able to see her mobile phone while she can see mine ( MAN are more prone to adultery she said)
· Using Multiple different chat application - In Singapore mostly people use Whatsapp, but she started using different apps to message her lover, example Line, wechat, Telegram , Facebook messaging feature just to message him, by login in the browser. KAKAO (please take note that this is one of the most powerful hidden chat application because both users need to enter a password that only both of them know to see the messages that are being sent to each other, without this password even if you can enter the Mobile phones you are unable to see the chat message)
· Multiple Mobile phones - I know that her lover had multiple mobile phones he actually gave his wife an excuse one is for work one is for personal.
· Dressing differently - You will notice that a person "in love" will dress differently to look better usually not their normal self when they are going on a date.
2) Confrontation of Affair
By telling her that something is not right with this colleague of hers.I notice the more I say the more she hide, the more different variation of password she change.
My conclusion is never confront the target without any strong evidence because it is between your words and targets and the more the target will hide , which will make it more difficult for you to find evidence in the future.
With a help of a PI (Private Investigator) to gather more concrete evidence for court.
Take note these techniques and devices said are not to replace actual investigation by the professional PI.It is useful for them to reduce the time spent and increase the probability rate of them hitting on the target.I will share my experience hiring a PI and what are the usual questions they will ask you. For this article will name the wife/husband having an affair as "target"
Consider the following
· Doing these yourself will hurt you soul and character as a person.
· If you are not a calm person I STRONGLY ADVICE not to do it.
· The main reason why I did it is because I do not have enough money to hire the PI to follow them for a long period of time and I just want to have a higher probability on getting the evidence.
Writing in a few parts
1) Signs of Affair
· Started working late hour -My Ex started working long hours and gave excuses that due to the increase job scope she will have to work late at night.
· Changed password for mobile phone - We used to share a common password but she gave reasons due to privacy issues I should not be able to see her mobile phone while she can see mine ( MAN are more prone to adultery she said)
· Using Multiple different chat application - In Singapore mostly people use Whatsapp, but she started using different apps to message her lover, example Line, wechat, Telegram , Facebook messaging feature just to message him, by login in the browser. KAKAO (please take note that this is one of the most powerful hidden chat application because both users need to enter a password that only both of them know to see the messages that are being sent to each other, without this password even if you can enter the Mobile phones you are unable to see the chat message)
· Multiple Mobile phones - I know that her lover had multiple mobile phones he actually gave his wife an excuse one is for work one is for personal.
· Dressing differently - You will notice that a person "in love" will dress differently to look better usually not their normal self when they are going on a date.
2) Confrontation of Affair
By telling her that something is not right with this colleague of hers.I notice the more I say the more she hide, the more different variation of password she change.
My conclusion is never confront the target without any strong evidence because it is between your words and targets and the more the target will hide , which will make it more difficult for you to find evidence in the future.
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