<font color="0000ff">Amelia</font>,
I was also married for 4 years and didn't TTC. In fact, we tried hard with "natural" forms of contraception cos I was afraid of childbirth. Then one day, it dawned on me that I eventually want to have kids and since I am not young anymore, hubby and I decided that I should quit my job and we TTC actively. We also took awhile before succeeding the first round, although it didn't work out. Then I took a break of close to 5 mths to recover with TCM to "tiao" my body so I can be stronger for my next pregnancy. Hubby and I also took multi-vits faithfully everyday. My current gynae is super kiasu, which suits me and hubby. The food restriction is to prevent wind so I will not be too uncomfortable, cos even the slightest cramps/pains scares me after the bad experience last time. He's also more pro natural birth & will do C-section only if necessary, which I am happy about. If you are interested in seeing him even for a simple pap smear/checkup to check for immunity like rubella etc (which I did before TTC), send me an email from the Yahoo Group and I'll give you the contact!
For wet food, I feed my cats "Snappy Tom" cos it's so convenient, 1 pack divided by 2 for both cats. Then there is another brand which is a Jap brand, very economical at $3.60 from the pet shop at Far East Shopping Centre. One can can feed about 8 to 10 meals, but maybe cos I feed my cats lesser than yours. But it's super yummy, with real tuna and ikan bilis inside. Does not smell like pet food at all... smells just like tuna. If you are interested, I can take a pic of the can tomorrow and post it up to show you. The small can called Merrick is also very yummy, with names like Thanksgiving Dinner & Grammy Pot Pie, but a bit more expensive at $2.35. And I think this small can will only feed your cat one meal... if you split it up into 2 portions like what I do, your cat will probably think you're trying to starve her!
<font color="0000ff">hi lyn</font>,
I am well... trying to stay positive
My mum also "bu she de" shave my hair when young, and it turned out to be ok, as in, I didn't have very thin hair. In fact, I heard of a friend's story about her friend shaving her daughter's hair at 1 month, then it didn't grow back much, only in patches! Maybe it's the trauma of the shaving that scared the poor baby. So am glad to hear you didn't shave your baby's pretty dark hair!
Thanks for the advice on salt. Actually, if I eat homecooked food, I do not even use salt at all, but I guess during this first trimester, because of the homerest, I have no choice but to eat outside food which sure contains some MSG and salt. Just hope that I will be strong enough to cook in my 2nd trimester so I can avoid those unhealthy stuff.
<font color="0000ff">Van</font>,
Hehe, you are sharp! That Sunday I bought the thermal pot, it was actually the 2nd day after I found out the good news. But then I had some spotting the following week, that's why was confined to bedrest and then MIA-ed.
Eh, kids nowadays are very smart. They know who is good at what and will go to that person for those things. I taught my niece a wrong pronunciation before... told her the word was read as "xia" as in xia tian (autumn), and it turned out to be "kang" as in kang fu (recover). After that, she only asked me English/Maths/Science questions... never Chinese anymore!
Enjoy your outing at Globetrotters tomorrow! I hope to join you guys on such outings soon!