hi carol
i think if u have patience, it is good to stay there full day on the first day so u can observe the teachers as well. for me, i really find quite boring to stay there full day... so i went shopping and i will be back to check on him (without him seeing me). i ever saw a mother left and her child cried till vomit... the teacher quickly called the mother to come back again. i think hor... the teachers cannot attend all kids, so got to ask the mother back to help.
btw, when are you joining? better don't join 1st day of jan 09 cos teachers cannot handle too many new kids...especially nursery, many kids will cry... can u ask to join end dec 08? maybe few days before Jan 09?
if he enjoyed himself on the first day, then u just let him stay there till 4pm or 5pm (let him complete the programme). if he still not comfortable, then u can bring him home earlier? actually it is really ok if u just let him attend half day then full day subsequently. i guess it all depend on the kids?
my son is joining columbia next monday, this time i cannot take leave to accompany him cos i am busy with my closing. moreover my son is aleady k1, sometime i feel if i stay there to accompany him, he will cry more... i think if i leave him there, i believe he will cry but the teachers should able to handle him. maybe i will ask my hubby to pick him up earlier on first day.