Hi absolut, JasTan
Ha...gd news.........maternity leave of 3mths n lower maid levy for family wz children less than 12yrs old. Timely to get pregnant again!
My elder boy is 20mth n my girl is 7wks old. Personally, I found the age gap is a little less than ideal as my 20mth boy is into his toddlerhood now. He is at a phase of striving for independence, so to speak, want things his ways; Verbal frustration, alot of frustration when he is unable to convey what he wants, leading to alot of screaming. Rather nerve-wrecking for hubby n I, esp with the NB to jaga simultaneously. Also believe at 20mth, he needs alot of parental attention n coaching. This is the stage where he starts to develop negative emotions, must guide him closely to exercise control etc.
If I were to turn back the clock, I would conceive as when he is 18mths. When my bb arrives, my boy will be abt 2yrs+, passes the 'terrible 2' stage. He maybe able to understand things lots better, able to cope better wz a new arrival, able to even help out with the bb etc.
I am a SAHM who intend to look after my children myself. Unfortunately, things got a little out of hand at times. Eg...once when i was feeding my girl, my boy who was playing nearby, came to sayang his sis. Gd boy?! The next sec, he started to rest his whole body on his sis. There was also an instance he carried the whole packet of diapers and threw at his sis!!! Everything just happened too fast!
Finally decided to separate the 2 temporariy. Just sent my girl over to MIL today. How my heart aches n breaks! See how things go, perhaps will reunite the 2 6mths later.........
Just expressed a pathetic 20ml over 30min....me v demoralized liao...........
Ok, will do a search on the cooler bag later.
Gdnite