Alot of updates and I am confused how to post my msg to your topics. Anyway here is my contributions. Hope mummies take the time to read mine and reply accordingly. Thank you!!
Hahahaaa..*eniale* (eniale), I think I also know how to color my text le. I am so proud of myself.
Hi lynzi (lynzi1606), me feeling so much better. Rested yesterday and today plus tmr is weekend already. I should be ok to go back to work le.
bee (didibee), about your 2nd bb go for it if you can lor. How old is your 1st child? Is it updated in the excel list already...Gotta find the link which secretary *eniale* (eniale) uploaded.
BTW *eniale* (eniale), is your name elaine cos your nick is eniale (spell backward), hehehehee.
Wendy Sim (wesim), why no way and no go for you leh? After your gal is 15-16mths don't you think she may want a companionship? I am also pondering whether I should go for it or like you no way and no go. You are rite to say this <font color="0077aa">If you intend to give more to your kids (e.g. like enrichment classes, holidays etc), then you will have to consider real hard. Everthing is so expensive nowadays.</font> No wonder you invest so much on your ONO darling.
Wendy Sim (wesim), which park are you going to? I did post my msg few days ago that there sure be alot of ppl gg to the park with the lanterns at night. Wondering whether any mummies here will be taking your children to Vista Park, heheheee...
Really huh daisy (daisyt), about your gal happy to be the only child? I thought usually kid would love to play with children hence would prefer siblings..Then when they are older they can look after one another when we as parents passed away.. which is what Linda (linda_thea) said. That's what my mum inculcate this value to me too. Linda (linda_thea), what is IMO huh?
bee (didibee), I have the same concern as you too:
<font color="0077aa">For me is like: now having 1 kid, not sure if he can cope alone next time when 2 of us are not around,or having 1 more sibling to be around with him will benefit him.
Moreover, now my current life is comfortable, and only have to worry abt my 1kid.
If i going to have a 2nd bb, then life will change drastically and i really very scared to face new challenges.</font>
Nowadays parents want to enjoy their retirement and not want to give themselves more trouble by offering to look after children. Both my parents and pils oso dowan to take care but in the end by dear dear mum relent. After all I am her flesh and blood she can't possibly throw me in the shark-infested sea. That is what is good abt kinship and hence am thinking whether to have 2 or more children...so they can look out for one another.
About your disaster with your family, don't you think all the more it should not happen to you and your offspring? Don't you want to inculcate these +ve values to your children so that they will be close when they grow up?
daisy (daisyt), This is very admirable of you so independent. I also understand your situation.. Hmm...too bad there is nothing you can do to improve the current situation but you can choose to do better for your offspring yar..
Hahahaa Ling (slquek), are you just gg to think only to have more children or think with action as in ttc now too?
Actually I personally think maid/helper should help in domestic work. They are not nanny may not be experienced to handle kids so better not let them take care of kids.
Good luck Mimosa (linda347) and bee (didibee) on your ttc. Must let us know if positive. BTW, I think Diana Goh (ayoon) is also ttc right and she is not a mummy yet. Well good luck to you but having twins I say is really not as easy as you think now. Wait till you become a mummy then you will know le. =)
Linda (linda_thea), be careful of the flu and cough cos I am the victim too. Think now its the period where there an increase of flu patients. Anyway I have been coughing for 3 weeks already and now having 2 days MC. Been sleeping eating(surf abit of internet while eating) and sleeping again. Now I am feeling better, typing hard to chat in this thread now heheheeee...
db (dryperbaby), do you like being the only child? Is it very harsh and stressful for you huh? Really would love to know whether it is good to have one child or more.. Me as a parent wud want the best environment for my child...
Hi batman = SnowQueen (nglhoon), I understand you abt your boy being sick. My gal also mah...I am already very sick, my gal is also sick and so is my husband..I couldn't really sleep at nite cos my gal cannot sleep well, is very cranky with the stuffy nose and cough. Thank god I have the 2day MC to have a good rest during the day while my gal is being taken care. My gal has sensitive nose follow her dad. Doc said zytec is good for her age for sensitive nose and cough I highly recommend cos 100% herbal - ivy extract name is Prospan. Any mummies tried this?? Children wud love to take the med cos its very very sweet like honey. Doesn't taste like a med at all. I like it myself cos I am breastfeeding, the med I take are those mild med and one of them is prospan.
Diana Goh (ayoon), what is black friday sale?
Welcome IvyC (ivyc) and Juzyounme (juzyounme)!
Juzyounme (juzyounme), pray hard that you child(boy or gal huh?) born on Dec 25 lor..which is Christmas! So fun to have birthday on Christmas every year. Public holiday for birthday...Unlike most ppl still working during birthdays.
Thanks mummies, now I know. I shall try to be more active in this thread.
I live near Vista Point 5XX. Anybody staying near me? I posted where I stay the first time when I joined this thread which is not too long ago - about the same timing slightly after *eniale* (eniale) joined this thread:
Posted on Monday, July 21, 2008 - 1:20 pm:
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Hi, nice to see this thread and hope to join in. I live in Woodlands near Vista Point.. =)
Initially I was looking for cc i.e. St. Anthony and Little Wonder Montessori around my working place but like I said before I had stopped looking for cc for my gal le cos my hubby wants to wait till my gal knows how to talk. Just in case she get bullied in the cc she can complain to us which I think its a good plan..