ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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i asked abt the uniform cos i see quite a few kids wearing that around my mom's place.
and yes, muka semua cramp aje nak pegi sekolah....
wah, so izzat's practically "in school" from 12.25 - 5.40 pm!
seh, macam pri school pulak eh.
btw, that time i enquired abt hanis montessori.
it seems that they have quite a lot of vacancy at their paris branch.
have you thought of transferring izzat there?
and yes, muka semua cramp aje nak pegi sekolah....
wah, so izzat's practically "in school" from 12.25 - 5.40 pm!
seh, macam pri school pulak eh.
btw, that time i enquired abt hanis montessori.
it seems that they have quite a lot of vacancy at their paris branch.
have you thought of transferring izzat there?
wati
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Nora, im free from depression but the latest news dah buat aku terpinga-pinga..nak mengamok ker, nak diamkan ker, nak buat bodoh.. tapi very sad.
It's my MIL. She is spreading rumours abt me to my HB side aunties.. No wonder, they all keep their distance from me. Aku adalah mcm budak belo.. terfikir, what i have done wrong until the aunties nvr talked to me.
Another thing is my SIL kan staying with my MIL. But kita nie jarang talk bila kat rumah sana.. but we online good frens lah. So i guess my MIL ingat that we are not on talking terms so she spread the following rumours.
1) She told my SIL "Kak Wati kau tu, masa dia beranak kan si Maya, dia tak kasi Mama dtg tgk dia. Nie nanti dia nak beranak anak number 2 nie, aku fikir aku mam nak tak nak pergi tgk anak dia!"
- The above is not true. She came for 3 days when i was at the hospital. When i came home, she nvr came for 2 weeks. Then i called her to ask, why she nvr come to see Maya. She said she was down with fever and coughing.
2) She told my SIL "Kak Wati kau tu suruh laki dia bilang Mama yg Mama nie suka membazir duit"
- I nvr said the above ! My husband advise his dad when they come back from Haj, to start saving $$.
3) She said this recently after the kenduri yg dorang balik Haj. "Kak Wati kau tu aku tgk, makin perut dia besar, makin pemalas !"
- I'm pregnant for goodness sake. My HB yg tak kasi buat kerja. HE asked me to sit in the room with Maya and his brother. We even brought the maid along, so that the maid will help out. Kira mcm the maid ganti me lah.
4) She told all the aunties "Wati nie selalu rapat dgn sebelah dia jer. Tak pernah nak rapat dgn sebelah sini"
- Semenjak dari dulu lagi, my HB and his bro jalan raya sendiri to all aunties and uncle place. The parents will go themselves. So bila kahwin, standard lah. The HB always with us. She put it in such a bad way, that people now say i am Queen Controlling my HB.
I was so upset tau. Aku tak pernah buat salah dgn dia. Dia nak duit, i helped her out. And behind my back, she said im this and that. And she lies alot too.. cos sometime her story tak consistent.
It's my MIL. She is spreading rumours abt me to my HB side aunties.. No wonder, they all keep their distance from me. Aku adalah mcm budak belo.. terfikir, what i have done wrong until the aunties nvr talked to me.
Another thing is my SIL kan staying with my MIL. But kita nie jarang talk bila kat rumah sana.. but we online good frens lah. So i guess my MIL ingat that we are not on talking terms so she spread the following rumours.
1) She told my SIL "Kak Wati kau tu, masa dia beranak kan si Maya, dia tak kasi Mama dtg tgk dia. Nie nanti dia nak beranak anak number 2 nie, aku fikir aku mam nak tak nak pergi tgk anak dia!"
- The above is not true. She came for 3 days when i was at the hospital. When i came home, she nvr came for 2 weeks. Then i called her to ask, why she nvr come to see Maya. She said she was down with fever and coughing.
2) She told my SIL "Kak Wati kau tu suruh laki dia bilang Mama yg Mama nie suka membazir duit"
- I nvr said the above ! My husband advise his dad when they come back from Haj, to start saving $$.
3) She said this recently after the kenduri yg dorang balik Haj. "Kak Wati kau tu aku tgk, makin perut dia besar, makin pemalas !"
- I'm pregnant for goodness sake. My HB yg tak kasi buat kerja. HE asked me to sit in the room with Maya and his brother. We even brought the maid along, so that the maid will help out. Kira mcm the maid ganti me lah.
4) She told all the aunties "Wati nie selalu rapat dgn sebelah dia jer. Tak pernah nak rapat dgn sebelah sini"
- Semenjak dari dulu lagi, my HB and his bro jalan raya sendiri to all aunties and uncle place. The parents will go themselves. So bila kahwin, standard lah. The HB always with us. She put it in such a bad way, that people now say i am Queen Controlling my HB.
I was so upset tau. Aku tak pernah buat salah dgn dia. Dia nak duit, i helped her out. And behind my back, she said im this and that. And she lies alot too.. cos sometime her story tak consistent.
Wati,
Point 4) is said to me all the time to my face by my HB's side.
Just buat bodoh sudah.
This type of people, you can be the PERFECT woman, but they will STILL find something bad to say.
But of cos lah, sakit hati kan dengar?
Lagi you preggy, so your hormones must be in overdrive.
Point 4) is said to me all the time to my face by my HB's side.
Just buat bodoh sudah.
This type of people, you can be the PERFECT woman, but they will STILL find something bad to say.
But of cos lah, sakit hati kan dengar?
Lagi you preggy, so your hormones must be in overdrive.
smalldreams
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Salams all
Selamat Tahun baru!
Wati
Aiseh man, dugaan you besar betul. Macam mana boleh terpecah lobang that yr MIL spread rumours cam ni?
Selamat Tahun baru!
Wati
Aiseh man, dugaan you besar betul. Macam mana boleh terpecah lobang that yr MIL spread rumours cam ni?
isabella_akj
New Member
hello everyone...
Bonda, r u ok??? Feel so bad for you... Dahlah pregnant.. Kena gini pulak.. Nasib you patient and not the hot tempered and rash type macam i hee.. Dont know how you're taking it.. Really respect you.. Anyway i agree no matter how perfect we are we won't be able to please everyone so just forget it at least for the time being.. Tapi memangla easier said than done.. Hugs hugs..
To each his own and i hope they are ready to face the consequences later in life..
Bonda, r u ok??? Feel so bad for you... Dahlah pregnant.. Kena gini pulak.. Nasib you patient and not the hot tempered and rash type macam i hee.. Dont know how you're taking it.. Really respect you.. Anyway i agree no matter how perfect we are we won't be able to please everyone so just forget it at least for the time being.. Tapi memangla easier said than done.. Hugs hugs..
To each his own and i hope they are ready to face the consequences later in life..
wati
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Hi Isabella... i'm ok lah. Just sedih sikit mengenang nasib. Tapi i berserah jer lah. Nak besar2 nanti kesian plak my HB. Mesti dia stuck in between. So from now onwards, i will always watch my back. I baru tahu my MIL nie saddist. Cos my SIL ckp, kadang2 when Maya plays in her room, then my MIL masuk and then tell Maya quietly "Siap kau, nanti kalau mak kau takder...nanti aku pukul kau".. saddist right ?
smalldreams
Active Member
Wati
you mean yr SIL is fat ? Haiz, dia lagi kesian,
kena tinggal dgn MIL dia.
My mom pon selalu kata, Ni kasi chan Ibu dia ada. Kalau Ibu dia takde, memang dah kena. but then my mom memang rasa I'm very very lax towards my son. She believes in spanking. I do spank tapi somehow outside or at my mom's place, i jarang pukul my son. Haiz, takkan nak suruh I tunjukkan I pukul my son seh.
Dah lah jangan sedih2 k? Is Thursday still yr visit ILs day?
Actually eh, there's a 5yr old relative that i really don't fancy. And entah lah, sometimes i dunno why i tak suka sangat dgn budak ni. Tapi of course I dont threaten to beat her lah.
you mean yr SIL is fat ? Haiz, dia lagi kesian,
kena tinggal dgn MIL dia.
My mom pon selalu kata, Ni kasi chan Ibu dia ada. Kalau Ibu dia takde, memang dah kena. but then my mom memang rasa I'm very very lax towards my son. She believes in spanking. I do spank tapi somehow outside or at my mom's place, i jarang pukul my son. Haiz, takkan nak suruh I tunjukkan I pukul my son seh.
Dah lah jangan sedih2 k? Is Thursday still yr visit ILs day?
Actually eh, there's a 5yr old relative that i really don't fancy. And entah lah, sometimes i dunno why i tak suka sangat dgn budak ni. Tapi of course I dont threaten to beat her lah.
wati
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SD,
Today is visit the IL day lah. And im literally dragging my feet ah.
Tapi nie lain, my MIL suka menyakat Maya..even to other relatives dia suka menyakat. Then she will make Maya cry or upset and she will laugh. Then she will tell people, "Suka aku tgk dia marah." But she will hug Maya very hard, pinch her arm and cheeks.. then Maya will always cry. So kadang2 orang geram gini pun, seram jugak kan.
Today is visit the IL day lah. And im literally dragging my feet ah.
Tapi nie lain, my MIL suka menyakat Maya..even to other relatives dia suka menyakat. Then she will make Maya cry or upset and she will laugh. Then she will tell people, "Suka aku tgk dia marah." But she will hug Maya very hard, pinch her arm and cheeks.. then Maya will always cry. So kadang2 orang geram gini pun, seram jugak kan.
smalldreams
Active Member
Athlete, Wati
If it's 28th, I rasa i can't make it.
I have an event that day. I'll probably head
straight home after that. You gals have fun.
If it's 28th, I rasa i can't make it.
I have an event that day. I'll probably head
straight home after that. You gals have fun.
SD,
That child that you don't fancy, does it have anything to do with the parents?
For me, I pun know 1 or 2 kids that I tak "berkenan" sangat, but its always because I can't get along with the parents / grandparents.
Jahat seh I, padahal budak tak bersalah...
But again, I'm not nasty to the child or anything, just tak layan sangat.
Hmmm, who knows, maybe got pple out there also who tak berkenan my boy jugak, because of me! Lol.
That child that you don't fancy, does it have anything to do with the parents?
For me, I pun know 1 or 2 kids that I tak "berkenan" sangat, but its always because I can't get along with the parents / grandparents.
Jahat seh I, padahal budak tak bersalah...
But again, I'm not nasty to the child or anything, just tak layan sangat.
Hmmm, who knows, maybe got pple out there also who tak berkenan my boy jugak, because of me! Lol.
smalldreams
Active Member
athlete
not really. I like the parents and I don't mind the grandparents too. I can totally identify with you, kids are innocent. But I just can't stand her. Which is a pity coz she was really adorable as a baby. I think coz she shouts at her helper then act so sweet in front of other people. And also suka report here, report there. and always putting all blame on my son, mcm dia baik sangat. hahaha, oh well I guess she's just being a kid I guess. I'm probably the immature one. I try to control my feelings towards her though.
I am quite confident my son is not a favourite too. He's such a terror. Yr boy is so sweet. Tido siang pulak tu. What else can one ask for from a 2 yr old. hehehe.
not really. I like the parents and I don't mind the grandparents too. I can totally identify with you, kids are innocent. But I just can't stand her. Which is a pity coz she was really adorable as a baby. I think coz she shouts at her helper then act so sweet in front of other people. And also suka report here, report there. and always putting all blame on my son, mcm dia baik sangat. hahaha, oh well I guess she's just being a kid I guess. I'm probably the immature one. I try to control my feelings towards her though.
I am quite confident my son is not a favourite too. He's such a terror. Yr boy is so sweet. Tido siang pulak tu. What else can one ask for from a 2 yr old. hehehe.
You know eh, I'm glad you brought up the tido siang part.
I'm all for it too.
But I get a lot crap from all sorts relatives abt it.
Cakap, I ngada2 lah, too strict lah, aksyen lah, tak kasi budak tu tidur lambat sikit.
Padahal dia yg memang tidur sendiri ape.
Bukan kena paksa.
I'm all for it too.
But I get a lot crap from all sorts relatives abt it.
Cakap, I ngada2 lah, too strict lah, aksyen lah, tak kasi budak tu tidur lambat sikit.
Padahal dia yg memang tidur sendiri ape.
Bukan kena paksa.
smalldreams
Active Member
Morning!
isabella_akj
New Member
morning everyone!
isabella_akj
New Member
hi athlete! today not too bad hee now doing housework.. how r u??? hows work???
thinking maybe wanna cook sambal sardin ajer nyari.. simple simple...
anyway.. i wonder where everyone is... so quiet ya???
thinking maybe wanna cook sambal sardin ajer nyari.. simple simple...
anyway.. i wonder where everyone is... so quiet ya???
isabella_akj
New Member
hi nora!
rasa rasa wati busy working hee.. hows everyone's monday going so far...?
rasa rasa wati busy working hee.. hows everyone's monday going so far...?
nora,
hehe, just so happened, his teacher is a friend you know...
you pun kenal dia, used to be kat sini jugak.
but i'm not sure if she's ok with me saying it here lah...
so far, he's only been on his own for 1 day aje.
teacher cakap he only cried towards the end.
only cos dia nak panjat the window grill.
hehe, just so happened, his teacher is a friend you know...
you pun kenal dia, used to be kat sini jugak.
but i'm not sure if she's ok with me saying it here lah...
so far, he's only been on his own for 1 day aje.
teacher cakap he only cried towards the end.
only cos dia nak panjat the window grill.
wah ur hb boleh buat the piping.. very good la
sape can guess the choc making turns to bonding .. hehheheh
dark dark skies in orchard
my boy is very into galpren since he's been in sch
last yr gadoh with another boy bec of a gerl in his class
this yr he is smitten with a "rockstar" gerl in his sch bus
i dunno which one she is but my boy calls her "rockstar gerl"
he says her hair like rockstar
(somehow the image of a gerl with mohawk comes to my mind.. HAHHAHAH)
and when i come back home
my boy will update me if he gets to walk with thr rockstar gerl form teh bus
or if the gerl smiles at him that day
once he told me - "the rockstor gerl like me bec she smile at me"
and the sch yr has just started for a week...
so much for my "nanti u nak kawen mamie carik kan eh"
sape can guess the choc making turns to bonding .. hehheheh
dark dark skies in orchard
my boy is very into galpren since he's been in sch
last yr gadoh with another boy bec of a gerl in his class
this yr he is smitten with a "rockstar" gerl in his sch bus
i dunno which one she is but my boy calls her "rockstar gerl"
he says her hair like rockstar
(somehow the image of a gerl with mohawk comes to my mind.. HAHHAHAH)
and when i come back home
my boy will update me if he gets to walk with thr rockstar gerl form teh bus
or if the gerl smiles at him that day
once he told me - "the rockstor gerl like me bec she smile at me"
and the sch yr has just started for a week...
so much for my "nanti u nak kawen mamie carik kan eh"
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
Hola Hola girlfriends!!!
Happy new year!! Looks like I've got some free time this year to be on the thread back!!!!
Happy new year!! Looks like I've got some free time this year to be on the thread back!!!!
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
Nora!!
Boleh tahan ur boy!! Kecil2 Dah pandai! Bilang dia nak girlfrd must buang toys dulu!!
Boleh tahan ur boy!! Kecil2 Dah pandai! Bilang dia nak girlfrd must buang toys dulu!!
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
Nora
Ahah single session..
Dahlah gi lunch dulu la Nanti Bleh bobual
Ahah single session..
Dahlah gi lunch dulu la Nanti Bleh bobual