ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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momma_naqi
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nora,
hujan2 gini semua aku teringat...
hujan2 gini semua aku teringat...
momma_naqi
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yippieee....lafi 30mins nak balik....
besok cuti...c u all on Mon...
besok cuti...c u all on Mon...
morning morning...tersedak2 aku semalam...
now nak gi lab.....manyak kerja worrr
i was so emotionally\mentally drained...
ade orang ingat...bila orang tolong dia...setiap kali orang akan tolong dia...
when others try to make their problems urs...padahal u tak der kena mengena ngan that problem
now nak gi lab.....manyak kerja worrr
i was so emotionally\mentally drained...
ade orang ingat...bila orang tolong dia...setiap kali orang akan tolong dia...
when others try to make their problems urs...padahal u tak der kena mengena ngan that problem
morning...
asyik dengar nora makan ketupat lauk, tadi pegi beli lontong kering from sarah rose.
taruk paru, bergedil, sambal goreng and sambal tumis sotong.
came up to $4!
macam mahal kan?
lina,
come, de-stress here with us today...
hahah, i also tried that "smize" thing last night.
i looked evil seh!
asyik dengar nora makan ketupat lauk, tadi pegi beli lontong kering from sarah rose.
taruk paru, bergedil, sambal goreng and sambal tumis sotong.
came up to $4!
macam mahal kan?
lina,
come, de-stress here with us today...
hahah, i also tried that "smize" thing last night.
i looked evil seh!
smalldreams
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Alooooo!
*knock knock*
Happy Chewren's day! If Only I was at home with my 2As now...
*knock knock*
Happy Chewren's day! If Only I was at home with my 2As now...
oh athlete u allergic to Revlon...im now using revlon products...so far so good...
MLM
kalau laih2 kawan\sedare yg tak rapat sangat alih2...call\sms suruh datang rumah or nak datang ur hse...kadang2 memang ade udang disebalik mee hong kong...
i join MLM bukan of the scheme but the product memang serasi for myself n kids...kadang2 boring jugak...kalau 'upline' asyik call ajer...to 'update' products...or suruh buat gathering lah...
i think kalau i ikut cakap dia...i dah tak ade kawanlah now...hahahha
MLM
kalau laih2 kawan\sedare yg tak rapat sangat alih2...call\sms suruh datang rumah or nak datang ur hse...kadang2 memang ade udang disebalik mee hong kong...
i join MLM bukan of the scheme but the product memang serasi for myself n kids...kadang2 boring jugak...kalau 'upline' asyik call ajer...to 'update' products...or suruh buat gathering lah...
i think kalau i ikut cakap dia...i dah tak ade kawanlah now...hahahha
Nora,
Sarah Rose is the coffee shop opp Iman kindy.
At Tamp St 11 tu.
Notty,
Yup, mahal, tapi memang betul sedap.
Ad the portion is also quite big.
I makan tadi tak habis, so saving it for lunch also later.
Oh, I forgot tdy's CHidlren's Day!
No wonder, my office carpark also so empty...
Sarah Rose is the coffee shop opp Iman kindy.
At Tamp St 11 tu.
Notty,
Yup, mahal, tapi memang betul sedap.
Ad the portion is also quite big.
I makan tadi tak habis, so saving it for lunch also later.
Oh, I forgot tdy's CHidlren's Day!
No wonder, my office carpark also so empty...
wati
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Smlm pun i EMO. Cos Maya keep saying she wants to sleep with her grandma. Kita dari in-laws place nk balik, so she ask where are we going.. i told her "We are going home" she said "Mummy, you go home, Maya go nenek house"... biasalah.. aku kan EMO.. so i cried sampai terisak2 dlm taxi... Mcm sedih my Maya no longer needs me..
Wati,
Samalah, dgn my boy.
Almost everyday, when I pick him up from my mum's, dia tak nak balik.
Macam2 tactic dia buat tau.
He'll go to my mum's room, and close the door tak kasi I masuk.
And he'll even hide in the toilet.
Bila dapat tangkap, melalak macam kena pukul.
I got a bit worried, but betul apa Lina cakap.
Rumah nenek, ramai orang layan.
Now he's not so bad already.
He'll even wave bye2 to nenek.
But of course, I'll say, "come let's go home and we can watch mickey at home!
Samalah, dgn my boy.
Almost everyday, when I pick him up from my mum's, dia tak nak balik.
Macam2 tactic dia buat tau.
He'll go to my mum's room, and close the door tak kasi I masuk.
And he'll even hide in the toilet.
Bila dapat tangkap, melalak macam kena pukul.
I got a bit worried, but betul apa Lina cakap.
Rumah nenek, ramai orang layan.
Now he's not so bad already.
He'll even wave bye2 to nenek.
But of course, I'll say, "come let's go home and we can watch mickey at home!
wati
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Lina, aku buat mcm gitu lah... Balik jer aku layan dia. Mula2 ok tau.. the moment kita nak tido and baring jer.. start lah dia muka sedih.. then aku tanyer kenapa.. she said "Kakak want nenek..Kakak want to go nenek house" then terus dia nangis.. mana aku sedih.. Haiz.. When i told her "Nenek dah sleep. Tomorrow we go nenek house" she will take my phone and said "Call nenek now"...
So kira smlm aku manage to pujuk her to sleep with me. In the morning, aku dah ready to go to work, i woke her up. She straight away bukak mata and sit on the bed and said "Kakak want to go nenek house".. dah aku melalak pagi2 dgn dia.. but this time she saw me crying, so she also cried. Aku nangis and tell her "Mummy loves you so much, you know that right?" dia apa lagi.... nangis and hug me.. haiz.. dia mcm berbelah bagi between me and her nenek seh..
So kira smlm aku manage to pujuk her to sleep with me. In the morning, aku dah ready to go to work, i woke her up. She straight away bukak mata and sit on the bed and said "Kakak want to go nenek house".. dah aku melalak pagi2 dgn dia.. but this time she saw me crying, so she also cried. Aku nangis and tell her "Mummy loves you so much, you know that right?" dia apa lagi.... nangis and hug me.. haiz.. dia mcm berbelah bagi between me and her nenek seh..
wati
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I tried so many tricks to lure Maya home. Dia will ikut, but the moment she get bored jer..she wants to go nenek house or call nenek. Then she will forgets if i ignore her cos dia distracted.. Tapi pat nak tido jer.. confirm nangis and nak pergi rumah nenek.. geram aku!!
She makes me feel so useless.. mcm aku nie bukan mak dia..
p/s: as im typing this, im crying ok.. very EMO topic to me is about my baby daughter (Maya)..
She makes me feel so useless.. mcm aku nie bukan mak dia..
p/s: as im typing this, im crying ok.. very EMO topic to me is about my baby daughter (Maya)..
*capai tisu*
cip
kau hormone emo banyak
kids lah, jgn amik hati
cam lina cakap kat sane banyak yg layan
Izzat lagi everyday nak ikut my sis and keponakans balik
till now dorang nak balik jer
dia pun amik beg sangkut pat bahu
and the battle begins
fortnitely dia sleepover kat sane
my hb still feels sad abt it
but on the up side..
boleh aku pi tengok wayang ke
mustafa ke .. heheheheh
athlete
bribery works ALL the time
cip
kau hormone emo banyak
kids lah, jgn amik hati
cam lina cakap kat sane banyak yg layan
Izzat lagi everyday nak ikut my sis and keponakans balik
till now dorang nak balik jer
dia pun amik beg sangkut pat bahu
and the battle begins
fortnitely dia sleepover kat sane
my hb still feels sad abt it
but on the up side..
boleh aku pi tengok wayang ke
mustafa ke .. heheheheh
athlete
bribery works ALL the time
smalldreams
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Athlete
So you decided to go to work after all!
nanti next yr you get a whole new set of leave also kan?
I pun tengah menyesal sikit ni coz I didn't plan my leave for Nov / Dec. how silly of me! I only plan for 1 day of leave on A's 1st birthday in end Dec
Athlete, Bonda
dah lah, jangan sedih2 k. You definitely need to insist budak2 balik rumah dgn kita. Strangely both my kids tak mo tinggal their nenek's house. Tiap2 malam, sure terkedek-kedek nak ikut kita balik. I think coz my mom is too fierce to them, ahhaha, they know they only go to their grandma when Ibu has to work. other than that, semua ikot balik. Even my lil girl will crawl towards the gate when we're all packing up to get ready.
Yeah i agree with Lina - they'll get used to the routine. Adam has only slept at my mom's house once when i gave birth to Aifah & had to stay in hospital for 2 nights. Bila Adam visited I kat hospital, I pulak yang nangis - post natal blues agaknye. hahaha.
So you decided to go to work after all!
nanti next yr you get a whole new set of leave also kan?
I pun tengah menyesal sikit ni coz I didn't plan my leave for Nov / Dec. how silly of me! I only plan for 1 day of leave on A's 1st birthday in end Dec
Athlete, Bonda
dah lah, jangan sedih2 k. You definitely need to insist budak2 balik rumah dgn kita. Strangely both my kids tak mo tinggal their nenek's house. Tiap2 malam, sure terkedek-kedek nak ikut kita balik. I think coz my mom is too fierce to them, ahhaha, they know they only go to their grandma when Ibu has to work. other than that, semua ikot balik. Even my lil girl will crawl towards the gate when we're all packing up to get ready.
Yeah i agree with Lina - they'll get used to the routine. Adam has only slept at my mom's house once when i gave birth to Aifah & had to stay in hospital for 2 nights. Bila Adam visited I kat hospital, I pulak yang nangis - post natal blues agaknye. hahaha.
wati
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But i guess it's a phase maybe ? My dad keep telling me to bring her out and make her happy all the time.. Like bring her to playgrounds or swimming pool.. so Maya will remember that going out with me will be a fun thing. Aku dah try.. like i said.. lepas aku make her happy the whole day...nak tido jer carik nenek ! Of course i wont give up. She is my 1st born.. i will try my best. Dun care dia nangis ker tak.. aku kena tetap cuba.. sob sob...
*Mintak2 Allah swt give me the strength to overcome this. This is really stressful for me*
*Mintak2 Allah swt give me the strength to overcome this. This is really stressful for me*
wati ...tepuk2 wati...peluk wati...eh apsal masam kau lupe pakai ordonodono eh...
lagipon kau preggy...lagik terasa emo tak...
donch worrylah wati..kasih ibu tak der orang lain boleh replace walaupon nenek sendirik...
lagipon budak2 kan can sense...dgn maya kau jgn sedih2\terlampau marah...u will let go of negative energy which will make budak2 kurenggg selesa...likewise for adults too...
aku sendirik dulu antar anak2 once a week to babysitter hse...lepas antar laki bini nangis...
but i believe...hv faith walaupon my time is VERY limited but inshaAllah my love for them is unconditional....
bila kau makan\minum...bekas kau tu...selawatlah n niatlah untuk mengeratkan siratulrahim....then kasi maya..... (kan use this for suami isteri also)
lagipon wati take it as ujianlah...setiap ape ade hikmah di sebaliknya...
when maya did this...kau terasa kan betapa sayangnya kau pade dia...
lagipon kau preggy...lagik terasa emo tak...
donch worrylah wati..kasih ibu tak der orang lain boleh replace walaupon nenek sendirik...
lagipon budak2 kan can sense...dgn maya kau jgn sedih2\terlampau marah...u will let go of negative energy which will make budak2 kurenggg selesa...likewise for adults too...
aku sendirik dulu antar anak2 once a week to babysitter hse...lepas antar laki bini nangis...
but i believe...hv faith walaupon my time is VERY limited but inshaAllah my love for them is unconditional....
bila kau makan\minum...bekas kau tu...selawatlah n niatlah untuk mengeratkan siratulrahim....then kasi maya..... (kan use this for suami isteri also)
lagipon wati take it as ujianlah...setiap ape ade hikmah di sebaliknya...
when maya did this...kau terasa kan betapa sayangnya kau pade dia...
wati
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Lina !! ok ok stop pujuk aku.. aku orang tak bleh kena pujuk... now im crying badly..
Im going to the ladies to cry puas2.. mampos aku kalau orang nampak nanti.. ingat aku gile..nangis depan PC..
Chat with you all later.. thanks for the advise.. insyallah aft i cry i will feel better.
Im going to the ladies to cry puas2.. mampos aku kalau orang nampak nanti.. ingat aku gile..nangis depan PC..
Chat with you all later.. thanks for the advise.. insyallah aft i cry i will feel better.
SD,
I'm on 1 year contract, so my new set of leave will only take effect after Feb 2011.
That is if my contract is renewed
Really vv precious these 4 days left.
Wati,
It's definitely a phase they go through.
And from what I hear from other mothers, its v common with kids.
Try to focus on the positive, like the time you spend with Maya etc.
I'm on 1 year contract, so my new set of leave will only take effect after Feb 2011.
That is if my contract is renewed
Really vv precious these 4 days left.
Wati,
It's definitely a phase they go through.
And from what I hear from other mothers, its v common with kids.
Try to focus on the positive, like the time you spend with Maya etc.
smalldreams
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Athlete
At least you dpt pro-rated leave. Boleh tahan jugak. some places lagi treat workers macam kuli batak. no leave, no MC.
Lina
Tu lah, kalau pakai tisu jamban, nanti keluar drp cubicle ada tisu melekat kat tepi mata. Tak hensem.
Wati
Yeah, let's be happy. Kata children's day. Banyak energy seh, pergi kids amaze after work.
I hope this will not make you feel sad, but I'd like to share anyway. When I was preg with #2, I felt macam guilty gitu, tak puas spend dedicated time with Adam. Previously I lah yang naik2 kids mazes, go up & down the slides & all whenever we went to such kids indoor playground. Bila I pregnant, takkan I nak turun naik slides seh. Hahaha. Anyway, lepas i dah ada #2 & both of them can really play together, it's really fun & a heartwarming sight. So cheer up!
At least you dpt pro-rated leave. Boleh tahan jugak. some places lagi treat workers macam kuli batak. no leave, no MC.
Lina
Tu lah, kalau pakai tisu jamban, nanti keluar drp cubicle ada tisu melekat kat tepi mata. Tak hensem.
Wati
Yeah, let's be happy. Kata children's day. Banyak energy seh, pergi kids amaze after work.
I hope this will not make you feel sad, but I'd like to share anyway. When I was preg with #2, I felt macam guilty gitu, tak puas spend dedicated time with Adam. Previously I lah yang naik2 kids mazes, go up & down the slides & all whenever we went to such kids indoor playground. Bila I pregnant, takkan I nak turun naik slides seh. Hahaha. Anyway, lepas i dah ada #2 & both of them can really play together, it's really fun & a heartwarming sight. So cheer up!
wati
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Alamak.. niari Children's Day eh.. Hmm.. mesti Kidz Amaze ramai orang.. But dun worry.. bukan aku naik slide tu.. dulu boleh lah.. Now i can't even squeeze thru some passage. Either get my sis or Hb lah. Dorang nie 'FIT' sikit...
Dun worry my jungle friends.. im no longer crying.. hingus jer meleleh...
SD, thanks for that. Now im looking forward for Maya to play with her adik.. semalam Maya dia ask me "Where is baby? I want to carry" i ckp, "baby belum keluar...must wait".. then dia mcm "ok" tapi sedih tone.. then she ckp "Mummy sick got baby"
Dun worry my jungle friends.. im no longer crying.. hingus jer meleleh...
SD, thanks for that. Now im looking forward for Maya to play with her adik.. semalam Maya dia ask me "Where is baby? I want to carry" i ckp, "baby belum keluar...must wait".. then dia mcm "ok" tapi sedih tone.. then she ckp "Mummy sick got baby"
cip
ko jgn emo sgt bole tak..it will effect ur baby..u want ur baby to be a sensitif person and a cry-baby...anak aku yg no. 2 dulu tym preggie, aku sensitif giler, betul tak leh kena sikit, ckp sikit nangis..nak meradang aje...now i see e consequences..heehee
anak2 aku pon suka pi umah mak aku, kat sana nak ape suma dpt, nak mkn ape suma masak..tapi anak2 takot dgn aku so aku ckp NO dorang tak brani bantah and nvr ask more questions. Tak kasi psl aft sch nak ngaji and buat homewk, we will go only over the weekends.
ko jgn emo sgt bole tak..it will effect ur baby..u want ur baby to be a sensitif person and a cry-baby...anak aku yg no. 2 dulu tym preggie, aku sensitif giler, betul tak leh kena sikit, ckp sikit nangis..nak meradang aje...now i see e consequences..heehee
anak2 aku pon suka pi umah mak aku, kat sana nak ape suma dpt, nak mkn ape suma masak..tapi anak2 takot dgn aku so aku ckp NO dorang tak brani bantah and nvr ask more questions. Tak kasi psl aft sch nak ngaji and buat homewk, we will go only over the weekends.