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mira..

kalau my helper mintak i baju mcm tu...boleh kenapa tidak..dia pun manusia ada kehendak n since kita tk bagi helper kita offday,so i guess bringing her out once in a while is good..

nak baju harga $75? boleh..
tapi i deduct from ur pay hujung bulan.amaciam nk jugak?
to me i will let her decide coz its her pay anyway.. ;p

Sometimes we should treat others the way we want to be treated..life will be happier tat way..
happy helper,
happy employer..
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nora,mas and lina

biasalah..
i nampak..
i pinjam DO RE MI nye teropong...
i nampak Tuhan pun nampak..
tkmo bohong2..nanti mati masuk OVEN..

wakakakakaka...
 
<font color="0077aa">Lina
wow...those were the challenges people faced at that time eh....

Nora
I agree lah, sometimes kita want to get a lot of stuff for our kids. So guess gotta curb also lah. Kalau tak, bertimbun barang kat dlm rumah ni, orang buat bisnes tu yang kaya. </font>
 
ju
def not by way of treating my helper...
skali 1 of these day dia came up to me...n say..
Ma'am I want yur hubby can??...huh..

No way...not my style....

Sedangkan kat keje ni kita ada rules n regulation......1 thing for sure....diorang gi merantau for the sake of money for their family...so senang cakap kena sedar diri...

JUz my POV
 
ju u dah nampak...then u tak 'bang' kan the silent readers?....kalau i nampak i tolong 'bang'kan...yelah wajib kite tegur sesama umat....ihihihihih
 
Lina,
That why lah...make me so angry....I told my husband that I must stay clam don't get angry when shooping for her baju.

Nora,
I also thought I'm good enough to bring her along and ask her to choice. When I go to wedding and bring her along, she also wear baju "Kurong" like me. Cos I ever give her one....

Mas,
I agree with you, sometime cannot treat them too good.
 
mas..

well all of us differs in character and way of handling things kan..
if we all sama je da macam robot plak kan..
tis how we get feedbacks and ideas fm ppl as we dont think the same way..
of coz there are negative and positive inputs..
we muz learn to take it in our stride

Kan keje tak masuk akal kalo si helper meminta suami kita..
the point here is abt the posting above abt baju kan?
so kenapa nak campur aduk kan dgn perkara yg tkde kaitan nye dgn apa my POV?

Ingatlah..
tk org tk kita..
at times we do have to think abt others also..
mmg betol dorang merantau mencari rezeki..
but y muz we deprive her of wat she needs as she is paying for her own?

Respect others n others will respect u..
tats the way i live my life everyday..
 
i pun sama tak ada potong2 sana sini...
wateva I eat dia pun makan...kalau notty kasi eclairs yg Sodap2...dia pun makan....n i guess dat is gud enuff....ada maid yg nak makan pun kena sukat2 ok....serious I;ve seen it wif my own eyes....
 
Sometimes we should treat others the way we want to be treated..life will be happier tat way..
happy helper,
happy employer..

Ju,
I Agree the sentence you said. But sometime it have to depend on situation. We as a employer must have our own rules that they have to follow. sometime they are clever to "test test water". I'm sure that i don't ill treat my maid. If I'm rich, I won't mind to buy expensive cloth for her...but too bad...I'm not...hihihi...
 
I think wat i said has been misinterpreted..

wat i meant was if ur helper requests for things to buy maybe clothing or stuffwhich u think is rather ex for a helper to wear,
suggest to her if she really wants it then she got to pay for it..

so then she will learn her lesson and stop asking from the employers yg bukan2..

use the reverse psychology..

tats wat i meant..
bukan i suruh u all potong gaji ur helper on whatever she buys..
its to be used when she wants to buy EXPENSIVE stuff only lor...
 
If I'm rich, I won't mind to buy expensive cloth for her...but too bad...I'm not...hihihi...

Mira,
If I'm rich I dun need to work....n juz sit at home laze around...

Ju,
Well dat's yur POV...
sumtimes.....it's easier to say than done...
senang cakap....u kena go thru it then u will know
 
mira..
tklah i marah pun.
u have the right to say what u want..

mas..
well no need to be self defensive..
Im only pointing out my views juz like the way to point out urs..
Peace no war.. ;p
 
so then she will learn her lesson and stop asking from the employers yg bukan2..

ju..
ishhh...nanti dia da tak jadi happy helper...then nanti da tak ada happy employer
 
ju,
there has never been any war here...
to me every1 has their own point of views....

This is an open forum....any tom dick or harry can voice out.....
 
mas
yelah semua org ble point out their views..
tapi u tgk u nye post..

i cakap pasal gloves u ckp pasal bangla nye gloves.even a kid will noe its too thick to hold dishes with..so where is humour exactly may i know?

it sounds as if u r defensive..
it sounds as if im teaching u wat to do..
i only voiced out my POV and it seems tat u t taking it hard..
is it bcoz i ni baru kat sini so i have to go wif the flow?

or down here pun ada puak2 tat i should be aware of?

Sorry if i sound offensive..
but i thought its a free man's world?
 
<font color="000000">Mas
tak masak nasi lemak..LOL! Tapi tekak nak mkn kuay teow goreng pedas2..dah mintak tlg despatch belik for my lunch..

*carik2 dari mana bau ikan*</font>
 
ju,
Perhaps u juz dun know my style of talking...
diff people ada diff kind/way of talking...
well didn;t know dat u take it too hard.....
nanti insyallh 22/09 I minta maap kat u...

Me taking it too hard....sorry not my kinda ...
u ought to know dat sum1 b4 judging dat sum1...
do not believe on wat others say about dat sum1
infact kat sini I've seen other yg kena kutuk worse....and still ok....

Puak...ye ke...ishhh I yg da quite lama kat sini pun didn;t know dat da PUAK exist in here...

Korang2 pun ada puak tak ajak aku join..
 
Ju

I have not said this to anyone here.

But i do not like your condescending tone.

You say pple are defensive.

But you are being offensive.

For one finger pinting at others

Three other fingers will be pointing at yourself

Maybe you had a rough morning and are very spirited for a challenge

But this is not the place

Peace Out (and I mean it)
 
mas n nora..

im nt pointing at anyone if u see my posts up there..

no fingers shown also..

tats the thing tis is a forum n u all can tolerate org kene kutuk?
wow tats new..
so im suppose to sit at a corner and watch u all talk?


and by the in wat way am i offensive?
did i use bad words?
did i scold anyone?
im juz pointing out the facts ..
go up and read abt the gloves thingy..
its nt even funny seh..
but i didnt say anyting till now..

puak?

i even came across a wannabe here..

believe me i noe..

so the lesson here is to keep quiet n say yes to evryting..is tat it?

wooowww...something for me to learn here..

btw ladies i found the fish u ladies looking for..
 
<font color="000000">Mas
dah lama tak..unless ada more than 3 ok lah..abis order aku sorang je, dia nak hantar kan ke?..mana punye jambuuu kan...</font>
 
alloz....

good morning sunshines~~~~~~~keep the love around, takleh bual banyak pasal ada appointment lagi at 11.30, be back later k to see u all chat...heheheh
 

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