ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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smalldreams
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Dan
Jadam tu hape eh?
I enjoy BF him, my BM pon OK lah, cukup hilang haus agaknye. It's just that he has a habit of latching on to sleep. I want to stop that...
Jadam tu hape eh?
I enjoy BF him, my BM pon OK lah, cukup hilang haus agaknye. It's just that he has a habit of latching on to sleep. I want to stop that...
<font color="0000ff">Mira, nshahi
i pun rasa so mean jugak.. klu i, i tak sampai hati nak buat.. sebab tu, klu ada coy sendiri ke nak sewa rumah ke.. relative i tolek tepi dulu.. i prefer org luar.. senang nak buat any agreement.
tapi kan to have this kind of agreement pun bagus jugak.. just in case in future anything happen.. there black & white.
nshahi
if u really tink, it a need.. just go ahead</font>
i pun rasa so mean jugak.. klu i, i tak sampai hati nak buat.. sebab tu, klu ada coy sendiri ke nak sewa rumah ke.. relative i tolek tepi dulu.. i prefer org luar.. senang nak buat any agreement.
tapi kan to have this kind of agreement pun bagus jugak.. just in case in future anything happen.. there black & white.
nshahi
if u really tink, it a need.. just go ahead</font>
liz,
ur seller extend stay, u kira rent tak?
last time my seller extend stay by 3mths... i charge $300/mth, kesian punyer pasal...
mira,
if tenant got brains & common sense, no need agreements. else, must put everything in black & white... more so if freeloader type... so no need point fingers..
ur seller extend stay, u kira rent tak?
last time my seller extend stay by 3mths... i charge $300/mth, kesian punyer pasal...
mira,
if tenant got brains & common sense, no need agreements. else, must put everything in black & white... more so if freeloader type... so no need point fingers..
Lynn,
I feel this will hurt the relationship between both party. Haven't even start the good relationship, you already spoil. If you put yourself in your SIL shoes...you also feel hurt right? Give her a chance first. If really really cannot then do this kind of things. On just use verbally first lah...
I feel this will hurt the relationship between both party. Haven't even start the good relationship, you already spoil. If you put yourself in your SIL shoes...you also feel hurt right? Give her a chance first. If really really cannot then do this kind of things. On just use verbally first lah...
<font color="119911">mira
not trying to b mean bt like i said i dowan anything happen in future & who to blame leh.. thus im doing this.. coz by rite its my house & my space mah even my agent fren did encouraged me to do that coz e last time wen she tumpang there she langgar alot of things, like contribution of PUB bills delayed, delayed then never pay.. then my marketing stuff or groceries all taken up by her & e kid.. altho i can gv & take bt must hv borderline..
lynn
mmg i tink i shld so sbb tu i nak minta drafting.. agak2 how eh to create. me buntu ah.. dahlah they reduce e rent like hell u all wont even wanna noe how much shes offering.. </font>
not trying to b mean bt like i said i dowan anything happen in future & who to blame leh.. thus im doing this.. coz by rite its my house & my space mah even my agent fren did encouraged me to do that coz e last time wen she tumpang there she langgar alot of things, like contribution of PUB bills delayed, delayed then never pay.. then my marketing stuff or groceries all taken up by her & e kid.. altho i can gv & take bt must hv borderline..
lynn
mmg i tink i shld so sbb tu i nak minta drafting.. agak2 how eh to create. me buntu ah.. dahlah they reduce e rent like hell u all wont even wanna noe how much shes offering.. </font>
mamaliz
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actually dah comfortable with us having 4wks n the seller 2 wks kan...so we got 2 wks for contractor do major stuff then we masuk...skali my agent say to have a smooth transaction do contra better then seller letak agreement mus let them have 4 wks in exchange...
buyer the wife not agree pasal they staying umah org ...haiz...susah..lagi dgn sarah skool sini..
buyer the wife not agree pasal they staying umah org ...haiz...susah..lagi dgn sarah skool sini..
<font color="119911">dan
dats y lah i hav to hv smtg in agreement to jaga my side in future hope it wont end up in quarelling or disagreement nanti.. already i tink kan.. i doubt they wanna pay me higher & will still stick to e payment of only $300 aje or worst they will leave their son ard bt they zoom sana sini laki bini.. its not fair mah for me well if shes not happy with my terms then she can jolly well find other place.. dat $300 they cant even find a place outside with her brg2.. seh.. her stuff are taking space in my store, my balcony,service balcony, living hall merata ah.. my house dah semak gila..</font>
dats y lah i hav to hv smtg in agreement to jaga my side in future hope it wont end up in quarelling or disagreement nanti.. already i tink kan.. i doubt they wanna pay me higher & will still stick to e payment of only $300 aje or worst they will leave their son ard bt they zoom sana sini laki bini.. its not fair mah for me well if shes not happy with my terms then she can jolly well find other place.. dat $300 they cant even find a place outside with her brg2.. seh.. her stuff are taking space in my store, my balcony,service balcony, living hall merata ah.. my house dah semak gila..</font>
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shahlynn
mmg sepatutnya buat gitu bt sbb pikirkan adik beradik tak nak melampau sgt.. ni i dont noe pun bila i can get e payment or entah dpt ke tidak.. n till now dorang sibuk rearranging my house & kemas till no time to sit & discuss abt the rental with us..kononnya dorang kata tg cheque dpt besok then they will discuss..
dan
bestnya rumah wkd..</font>
shahlynn
mmg sepatutnya buat gitu bt sbb pikirkan adik beradik tak nak melampau sgt.. ni i dont noe pun bila i can get e payment or entah dpt ke tidak.. n till now dorang sibuk rearranging my house & kemas till no time to sit & discuss abt the rental with us..kononnya dorang kata tg cheque dpt besok then they will discuss..
dan
bestnya rumah wkd..</font>
mamaliz
Active Member
jus my 2 cents..
i pon plan to tumpang my bestie place...feel weird but i siang siang cakap if jadi...i will pay her 500 for my cartons to put in balcony n 1 rm to sleep in for a mth...makan...i will masak n we share cost barang dapor....umah tu i jaga lah since she work...
i pon plan to tumpang my bestie place...feel weird but i siang siang cakap if jadi...i will pay her 500 for my cartons to put in balcony n 1 rm to sleep in for a mth...makan...i will masak n we share cost barang dapor....umah tu i jaga lah since she work...
mira
me too.. malas sangat... banyak things to pack and unpack
nshah
u shd have done the agreement before she masok, so she must agree before masok kan
now u ade agreement, kalau she langgar, what do u do??
anyway, did u tell her u there will be black and white?
if not, then now u keluarkan black and white sure masam muke..
so she doing an agreement too and u do another one, for what.. shd be the same agreement mah
tak payah susah susah nak pikir what to put in agreement. Just state the necessary:
Monthly rent: $XXXX
Montly rent comprised:
- Rental of room- $xxxx
- Utilities - $xxxx
- Others (be specific)
Monthly rent due on: 1st of every month???
Period of stay: XX mths
Option to extend period of stay:
Rules and Regulations
(Be specific)
Agreed by: __________ (Landlord)*
Agreed by: ________ (Tenant)*
Date: ______
*State full name and IC no.
mamaliz
u must ask for rental la... sikit pun jadi.. mane boleh free kan
me too.. malas sangat... banyak things to pack and unpack
nshah
u shd have done the agreement before she masok, so she must agree before masok kan
now u ade agreement, kalau she langgar, what do u do??
anyway, did u tell her u there will be black and white?
if not, then now u keluarkan black and white sure masam muke..
so she doing an agreement too and u do another one, for what.. shd be the same agreement mah
tak payah susah susah nak pikir what to put in agreement. Just state the necessary:
Monthly rent: $XXXX
Montly rent comprised:
- Rental of room- $xxxx
- Utilities - $xxxx
- Others (be specific)
Monthly rent due on: 1st of every month???
Period of stay: XX mths
Option to extend period of stay:
Rules and Regulations
(Be specific)
Agreed by: __________ (Landlord)*
Agreed by: ________ (Tenant)*
Date: ______
*State full name and IC no.
mamaliz
u must ask for rental la... sikit pun jadi.. mane boleh free kan
<font color="119911">an
mmg mula2 agree from $750 to $700 then turun $600 punku ok.. bt wen she told me she can afford only $300 i told her tak bleh mg tak bleh bt entah act tak tau sapa yg kasi dorang green lite utk move in pun act.. coz they supp to talk to us abt e rents.. bt haiz.. anyway san u hv any copies of such agreements?</font>
mmg mula2 agree from $750 to $700 then turun $600 punku ok.. bt wen she told me she can afford only $300 i told her tak bleh mg tak bleh bt entah act tak tau sapa yg kasi dorang green lite utk move in pun act.. coz they supp to talk to us abt e rents.. bt haiz.. anyway san u hv any copies of such agreements?</font>
<font color="119911">liz
tu u yg ada otak utk pikir.. bt dorang ni tak.. laki bini duk dlm bilik dari pagi sampai mlm, kuar bila makanan dah tersedia atas meja.. cam aku ni maid, balik umah berserak lagi.. pressure tau.. sbb tu sejak dua menjak aku mereps & bbual mepek.. as for brg dapur she has her own, i hv mine also.. everyday i very e dragging to go back </font>
tu u yg ada otak utk pikir.. bt dorang ni tak.. laki bini duk dlm bilik dari pagi sampai mlm, kuar bila makanan dah tersedia atas meja.. cam aku ni maid, balik umah berserak lagi.. pressure tau.. sbb tu sejak dua menjak aku mereps & bbual mepek.. as for brg dapur she has her own, i hv mine also.. everyday i very e dragging to go back </font>
mamaliz
Active Member
nora...
pasal actually their side do contra then they let us do for our side since we nd it more...but mintak sampai 6wks...at first i tot 4 wks tau...pasal 2wks mula mula den wen agent say total 4wks i say ok...skali bila nak sign i saw 6!
i ask agent then she say total 2 + 4 jus to get contra to our side.....nak buat apa...dah plan n we delayed liao...
pasal actually their side do contra then they let us do for our side since we nd it more...but mintak sampai 6wks...at first i tot 4 wks tau...pasal 2wks mula mula den wen agent say total 4wks i say ok...skali bila nak sign i saw 6!
i ask agent then she say total 2 + 4 jus to get contra to our side.....nak buat apa...dah plan n we delayed liao...
mamaliz
just be watchful in future.. pasal dorang menyusahkan u
ni i dah boleh bace, mesti mintak extend pasal reno belom habis blah blah..
pat tu u must push ur agent to talk to their agent for some COMPENSATION..
let ur agent work for his money..
Duit agent jgn bayar sekaligus tau nanti.. dah selesai pindah. baru bayar balance..
just be watchful in future.. pasal dorang menyusahkan u
ni i dah boleh bace, mesti mintak extend pasal reno belom habis blah blah..
pat tu u must push ur agent to talk to their agent for some COMPENSATION..
let ur agent work for his money..
Duit agent jgn bayar sekaligus tau nanti.. dah selesai pindah. baru bayar balance..
smalldreams
Active Member
nshah
aiseh, macam ada problem baru je. i hope things get better. Takpe, u ikhlaskan, tabahkan hati, insya-Allah you boleh handle this situation.
aiseh, macam ada problem baru je. i hope things get better. Takpe, u ikhlaskan, tabahkan hati, insya-Allah you boleh handle this situation.
<font color="119911">smalldreams
tulah.. kkdg i tul tak tau kenapa i diuji byk gini from my kakak & abg ipar seh..
macam2 ada je problem yg babit kan me..
insyallah
dan
ah tau takpe.. byk kan.. n i even told her dat price for storage of ur brg2 pun tak cukup kak.. then she said nanti nak discuss dgn laki dia lagi.. n biasa ah nak me kesian, add abt her car instalments, abt her house downpayment soon, abt this that.. to me all that i dont care & tak nak tau ur suar dlm pe.. wat i noe is rental dah i happy.. </font>
tulah.. kkdg i tul tak tau kenapa i diuji byk gini from my kakak & abg ipar seh..
macam2 ada je problem yg babit kan me..
insyallah
dan
ah tau takpe.. byk kan.. n i even told her dat price for storage of ur brg2 pun tak cukup kak.. then she said nanti nak discuss dgn laki dia lagi.. n biasa ah nak me kesian, add abt her car instalments, abt her house downpayment soon, abt this that.. to me all that i dont care & tak nak tau ur suar dlm pe.. wat i noe is rental dah i happy.. </font>