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Nshah, maybe what you can do is to just put up your problems with people you can trust. Kan ada functionnya. Don't just let everyone read.
Kalau luahkan kat sini lagi anyone can read. MSN pon ada. Boleh chat ramai-ramai.
I'm just giving options here. Bukan apa, sini not private. Orang-orang yang menyampah tu pun boleh baca kalau dorang termasuk sini.
Nanti you tambah stress with their comments.

I tak agree kalau dah kawen, kita tak boleh berkawan. We need friends at times, to wind down, to just hang out and talk cock. That's why I still take the time to meet up with friends yang masih sudi hang out with me, even when we are all married. Ada yang dah kawen, terus tak jumpa kawan langsung.
 
nshahi,

sumer orang ada masalah. sumer rumahtangga ada 'rahsia' masing2.. but its up to you to see it as a big prob, or small prob.
sumtimes, prob nyer kecik, takder benda... but if u think it as mana punyer teruk, den it will be huge.
kadang a big prob, but u take it in ur stride, b positive, insya allah, it'll be 'eleh, chicken jer!'
still, masing2 la... dun despair. be positive.

here, frens can only give u a listening ear. but ultimately, its up to you. still, true frens will always be there, no matter wat happens.

takmo stress2 la..
 
Eh kalau daytrip I nak ikot!!! tapi kalau next yr, weekdays mengajar sih
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Mana boleh amik cuti. Hehe.
 
Shahlynn & betty.bad

I agree with both yr comments
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Anyway some pple are luckier and have better family support, peer support etc. Some are not... but ni cobaan masing2. Allah will not test us beyond our means.
 
Me day trip or 1 nite pun ok... weekday best jugak ambik leave so tak feel guilty kalau tinggal kan members kat rumah..

Exciting ah...
 
nshah,

u stress coz tak dapat kluar from ur shell?
takper..
susah dapat green light?
takper..

jgn tambah kan stress pada diri sendiri...

Once, i was sooo stress, i feel like i just have to hentam someone/something...
nak main tennis but takder kaki.
apa nak buat...? last2 i pi toilet, sental tu tiles sampai putih melepak!

another time, pun i stress.
i took half the day off, pi thaksin, makan mee soup, taruk cili padi banyak2... sorang2.
den gi town, window shop.. step mcm ma'am... jalan2 jer!

bottomline, i get to rest my mind!
 
always tell urself... takder family support, takder peer support, takper!
i still got myself!
if all else fail, do it for yourself!
 
I think i will learn from Shahlynn... channel all my anger with anybody to housework.. Agaknya bersih rumah aku eh...
 
<font color="119911">shahlynn
rumah hang dekat dgn aku.. lau tak da benda nak sental ah sudi ah sentalkan umah aku plak eh..

eh btwn cana seh nak buat itu function cam bettybad cakap? meaning i can choose certain ppl je ke? </font>
 
Insyaallah... pelan2 i nak change my lifestyle lah from now onwards. I rasa very happy when mamaliz recommended me this forum.. i buat ramai kawan kat sini.. I am a better person after entering this forum.. betul.. tak bedek.

I dpt kawan yg rajin mengemas, memasak, give health tips, love tips, yg suka merepek mcm i pun ader....

I do see a change in myself... thank you my frens...yg sudi nak kawan dgn i hehehe
 
hah? sental rumah korang eh?

takperla... i think next time i mengamok, i nak scrape tu rockstone ah!
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nshahi,
after u type aper yg u nak cloteh kan, kat bawah tu ada function viewable to *contact, *everyone, *individuals.
You click on individual.. den, u hilight nama2 orang yg u nak kasi baca!
takyah ramai2... just allow ppl yg u trust.
 
Nora.. tak ikhlas nak kawan dgn aku eh.. pasal aku organizer kau suka eh..

I suka kawan you pun, very the straight.. hehe
 
wati

sejak bila pulak aku recommend kau ni forum????? *scratch head*

quote nora aw "mdm wati
aku pun sukeeee berkawan dgn kau
lagi lagi bile kau nak organise kite gie batam..."

kekekeke....wati kau bole jadi orang besau kat sini...apa apa kau admin ....salute~!
 
<font color="0000ff">nak organise gi batam??

nak ikot..!! bila ehh? klu 1day trip je ok.. klu overnite 2day 1nite.. tak leh ler..</font>
 
<font color="ff0000">naqi, semesti nye

Nak meet up wif old frens ke schoolmate bercinta jugak nak organise...
luckily meet all new frens kat sini...
kekadang we still have to make new frens and cannot depends on our old2 frens...
yg lama hilang yg baru timbul pulak...
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<font color="119911">shahlynn
tak da pun dat function at my screen ni??
mine shows
username, password,
options: enable HTML code in msg or auto activate URLs in msg
action: preview/post msg or upload attachment..</font>
 
<font color="ff6000">I'm back from my 1.5 hours meeting...lemau japs! Nasib baik ada epok-epok Old Chang Kee...hehe!</font>
 
Korang ni memang kelakar lah.

Nshah, betul yang Shahlynn ckp. Lepas you type kat multiply you choose individuals then click on the nicks you want.
 
oit.. jgn nak mandai-mandai aku jadi admin pat sini plak.

Mamaliz, bukan you eh yg recommend.. alamak.. jeng jeng jeng... short term memory lak..

Okie, pada mereka yg ada ura-ura nak pergi trip Batam, sila tanyer permission to your hubby.. so bleh i tgk saper-saper yg okie.. then base on the number, i can arrange on the booking of bus.. mini bus ker, big bus ker, 2 mini bus ker...taxi ker, ojek ker... bisanya semua ya..
mengerti ngak apa yg saya ngomong ini...

Cik Zai, you are invited too tau.. semua invited.
 
nshahi, multiply la....

kan betty kata, if u post kat sini, any tom,dick or harry bleh baca.
so u post kat multiply, and give access to only, for example, the ladies here...
 


<font color="119911">O ok..
noted shahlynn..
entahlah tp apa pun ku cam malas nak bermultiplying lagi ah.. </font>
 
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