ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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momma_naqi
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back fm lunch..
Small dreams,
bibik pack kan maggi goreng + Ayamas....
Wati,
tawakal je....pada ku 1 je if u hag any ill intentions towards me pulangkan balik pada orang tu..
Small dreams,
bibik pack kan maggi goreng + Ayamas....
Wati,
tawakal je....pada ku 1 je if u hag any ill intentions towards me pulangkan balik pada orang tu..
smalldreams
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Wati
jangan ingat2 sangat lah. Memang ada banyak horror stories abt MIL, but kita pun kalau tingkatkan amalan insya-Allah dilindungi
Lynn02
My bill electric paling rabak skali was the one I just paid. $300++!! i almost flipped. 3 orang aje in this house already $300?!! Tsk. i think it was the aircon (time raya asik on aje) and we have a dryer also.
I pernah try a few mths ago, tak on aircon, just on fan and my bill did go down a bit. I tried cutting down on dryer too. Hopefully next mth tak terkejut sangat. Kalau tak sedih seh
jangan ingat2 sangat lah. Memang ada banyak horror stories abt MIL, but kita pun kalau tingkatkan amalan insya-Allah dilindungi
Lynn02
My bill electric paling rabak skali was the one I just paid. $300++!! i almost flipped. 3 orang aje in this house already $300?!! Tsk. i think it was the aircon (time raya asik on aje) and we have a dryer also.
I pernah try a few mths ago, tak on aircon, just on fan and my bill did go down a bit. I tried cutting down on dryer too. Hopefully next mth tak terkejut sangat. Kalau tak sedih seh
nshah
another bomb just drop for me too. as if things cant get harder..
take time off just to calm urself. when stressed teruk, susah nak fikirkan solution. In the end, the only One that can really help is Allah
to gerakkan hati orang supaya tak gaduh so often,
to solve whatever problems.
to give us guidance insya allah
do turn to Him. its the best way
take care
elle
hope ur situation is better. me too - I dun thnk divorce is a bad thing if it gets too unbearable/unlivable for all. of coz kita try the best we can. mati2 cuba. seek help etc before it gets to that. esp when divorce brings up new problems too eg. sharing kids, split hse if bought
another bomb just drop for me too. as if things cant get harder..
take time off just to calm urself. when stressed teruk, susah nak fikirkan solution. In the end, the only One that can really help is Allah
to gerakkan hati orang supaya tak gaduh so often,
to solve whatever problems.
to give us guidance insya allah
do turn to Him. its the best way
take care
elle
hope ur situation is better. me too - I dun thnk divorce is a bad thing if it gets too unbearable/unlivable for all. of coz kita try the best we can. mati2 cuba. seek help etc before it gets to that. esp when divorce brings up new problems too eg. sharing kids, split hse if bought
mamaliz
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mummies i read this blog from my multiplier contact...very disturbing indeed to read...haiz..
"At first it was like wat the F*%$K sey ni pompan.........but after a while aku sedih n istighfar , mengucap panjang......
Me hubby n rico wer having dinner kat habibie Tampines....we ordered a lot of food to enjoy n pamper our stomach heheheh tapi bila aku nampak ngan mata kepala aku sendiri aku terus no appetite to eat n just look at this woman.......aku sedih betul sedih for the children and feel so damn angry with the woman.....
I can see from her gerak geri her facial expression n her eyes she was high on drugs.....i am so sad that i have to see this for real.....this woman was in her 30s i guess and was eating with her 2 children age 6yrs and an infant kat stroller......
apa yg disturbing sgt was.......she was feeding her baby which i tot was just a plain milo but i was wrong.......it was actually a jar of cili jeruk mix with ice milo.....damn it for goodness sake can u at least open up your eyes......she was really high n stone i was surprised that she even put drank that cili jeruk with ice milo and was smiling away when she turned to her 6 yrs old son she forced him to drink it but nasib baik he rejected it.
She got mad and scolded her son mcm gangster gitu ...pointing and shouting....everyone looked at her but nak buat apa kan....boleh tau sey dia tgh high.....aku da nyaris2 nak kol polis tapi kesian anak2 dia.....oh anyway the baby was crying n crying and she shouted at the baby to keep quiet....aku rasa baby tu kepedasan minum air jeruk tu.....
aku betul2 sedih n tak ada mood nakmakan......spoil betul lah ni pompan......wasted kerang rebus yg aku order tu .......sigh dunia dunia.............aku doakan anak2 dia menjadi anak2 yg baik insyallah .....
amin"
"At first it was like wat the F*%$K sey ni pompan.........but after a while aku sedih n istighfar , mengucap panjang......
Me hubby n rico wer having dinner kat habibie Tampines....we ordered a lot of food to enjoy n pamper our stomach heheheh tapi bila aku nampak ngan mata kepala aku sendiri aku terus no appetite to eat n just look at this woman.......aku sedih betul sedih for the children and feel so damn angry with the woman.....
I can see from her gerak geri her facial expression n her eyes she was high on drugs.....i am so sad that i have to see this for real.....this woman was in her 30s i guess and was eating with her 2 children age 6yrs and an infant kat stroller......
apa yg disturbing sgt was.......she was feeding her baby which i tot was just a plain milo but i was wrong.......it was actually a jar of cili jeruk mix with ice milo.....damn it for goodness sake can u at least open up your eyes......she was really high n stone i was surprised that she even put drank that cili jeruk with ice milo and was smiling away when she turned to her 6 yrs old son she forced him to drink it but nasib baik he rejected it.
She got mad and scolded her son mcm gangster gitu ...pointing and shouting....everyone looked at her but nak buat apa kan....boleh tau sey dia tgh high.....aku da nyaris2 nak kol polis tapi kesian anak2 dia.....oh anyway the baby was crying n crying and she shouted at the baby to keep quiet....aku rasa baby tu kepedasan minum air jeruk tu.....
aku betul2 sedih n tak ada mood nakmakan......spoil betul lah ni pompan......wasted kerang rebus yg aku order tu .......sigh dunia dunia.............aku doakan anak2 dia menjadi anak2 yg baik insyallah .....
amin"
momma_naqi
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smalldream,
My bill average $180-$200....We make a practice to switch off the the switch when we don't watch tv....fans semua..we will switch off the switch..u try perhaps it helps...
My bill average $180-$200....We make a practice to switch off the the switch when we don't watch tv....fans semua..we will switch off the switch..u try perhaps it helps...
momma_naqi
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istigfar sekejar.....huh kalau bleh anak tak nak kasi sakit...always nak kasi good food...ini tidak...
mamaliz
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I COMMENTED THAT I WOULD HAVE CALL POLICE, PASAL KALAU MACAM GITU KAT LUAR ANAK ANAK DISUAP AIR CILI JERUK..KAT RUMAH APA DIBUAT AGAKNYA..
THE KIDS WOULDNT KNOW IF WHAT THE MUM DO TO THEM IS OK OR NOT...THEY WOULDNT KNOW HOW TO ASK FOR HELP...
BARU JER THAT DAY KELUAR NEWS YG THAT GIRL WAS ABUSE BY THE STEPSISTERWHILE THEY WERE HIGH ON MORPHINE...ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN
THE KIDS WOULDNT KNOW IF WHAT THE MUM DO TO THEM IS OK OR NOT...THEY WOULDNT KNOW HOW TO ASK FOR HELP...
BARU JER THAT DAY KELUAR NEWS YG THAT GIRL WAS ABUSE BY THE STEPSISTERWHILE THEY WERE HIGH ON MORPHINE...ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN
momma_naqi
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mamaliz aku macam nak tengok pompan tu lah...ishhh really2 pity the infant...arghhh
momma_naqi
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kalau ku kat sana,
will grab the baby...peduli apa nak aduh ke tak nak ke...dia tak nak idup dia punya pasal...but
baby tu baru nak lihat dunia....huh...macam nak nangis seh
will grab the baby...peduli apa nak aduh ke tak nak ke...dia tak nak idup dia punya pasal...but
baby tu baru nak lihat dunia....huh...macam nak nangis seh
<font color="119911">lerr pompuan.. pompuan..
hmm i tink pat umah dia kasi anak2 dia minum air clorox kot?
anyway ladies im fine & still hidup.. dont worry too much abt me k..
i noe u all care tp takpe if korang terbaca ada wanita kena baham dek singa ah might be me lah tapi tak tau bila akan ku buat kerja tu eh..
ke kuar news pompuan rompak bank ke kedai emas ke.. or news pasal pompuan gila tglkan Sg ah mayb its me lah.. mayb only time will tell..???
apa pun thx for ur worries.. like i said takpe u all pun ada masalah gak kan.. so dont tink abt me dat much lah eh.. lainlah if i pi rompak rumah nora aw hehe..
nora R thx for ur sms..
lynn thx for the MSN to concern abt me
lina thx for e tips abt the dryness
nottygal thx for being for me if i needed one</font>
hmm i tink pat umah dia kasi anak2 dia minum air clorox kot?
anyway ladies im fine & still hidup.. dont worry too much abt me k..
i noe u all care tp takpe if korang terbaca ada wanita kena baham dek singa ah might be me lah tapi tak tau bila akan ku buat kerja tu eh..
ke kuar news pompuan rompak bank ke kedai emas ke.. or news pasal pompuan gila tglkan Sg ah mayb its me lah.. mayb only time will tell..???
apa pun thx for ur worries.. like i said takpe u all pun ada masalah gak kan.. so dont tink abt me dat much lah eh.. lainlah if i pi rompak rumah nora aw hehe..
nora R thx for ur sms..
lynn thx for the MSN to concern abt me
lina thx for e tips abt the dryness
nottygal thx for being for me if i needed one</font>
mamaliz
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one thing i notice about our own community is that makin banyak yg tak amik kisah sangat pasal anak diorang...abt their well-being..
i slalu nampak kat kedai kopi, malay families sitting down together with the strollers and kids having a drink!
then kasi anak makan chinese food...meja berbotol botol arak...
lagi lagi bila bulan puasa...that time sarah even asked me why they're eating waktu siang...at the coffee shop no malay stall..all chinese..
i slalu nampak kat kedai kopi, malay families sitting down together with the strollers and kids having a drink!
then kasi anak makan chinese food...meja berbotol botol arak...
lagi lagi bila bulan puasa...that time sarah even asked me why they're eating waktu siang...at the coffee shop no malay stall..all chinese..
<font color="119911">mamaliz
lau duit gue ada beribu lemon akan ku ajak korang yg tak work ni pi hol dgn aku noh..
ku bedekkan aje ada co event ke apa ke.. tul.. tak bedek.. coz i really need a break & frens for me to b happy coz sejak noe him my friends smua kena sekat tau.. i dont mix with my old frens anymore.. coz he dont like.. so i byk luahkan & jadi tak malu advertise problem in the net..
i used to luahkan thru my blog & ada org cam menyampah, i go multiply pun sama so dats y aku diam je skg in multiply coz byk sgt org kenal & his frens r there too.. so me tak suka ah..</font>
lau duit gue ada beribu lemon akan ku ajak korang yg tak work ni pi hol dgn aku noh..
ku bedekkan aje ada co event ke apa ke.. tul.. tak bedek.. coz i really need a break & frens for me to b happy coz sejak noe him my friends smua kena sekat tau.. i dont mix with my old frens anymore.. coz he dont like.. so i byk luahkan & jadi tak malu advertise problem in the net..
i used to luahkan thru my blog & ada org cam menyampah, i go multiply pun sama so dats y aku diam je skg in multiply coz byk sgt org kenal & his frens r there too.. so me tak suka ah..</font>
momma_naqi
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kalau nampak kat kedai kopi da malu ishh...
I pernah nampak dengan mata I sendiri kat dalam rumah coz nenek,datok, menantu, anak makan depan cucu ...huh n the sad part is they are my relatives..but wat can I say..cakap banyak2 nanti orang tak suka...*wink @ Cik Nab
ini bukan nak mengumpat but jadikan sebagai pelajaran
I pernah nampak dengan mata I sendiri kat dalam rumah coz nenek,datok, menantu, anak makan depan cucu ...huh n the sad part is they are my relatives..but wat can I say..cakap banyak2 nanti orang tak suka...*wink @ Cik Nab
ini bukan nak mengumpat but jadikan sebagai pelajaran
momma_naqi
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agree kalau 1 nite leceh..kalau day trip ok gak.
<font color="119911">act utk overnite act leceh ah..
coz ku confirm susah nak dpt approval nya.. tgk je ah.. silap hari bulan gaduh lagi kang terus tak pi..
lau day trip best gak eh.. tp bila seh.. hmm cuti cam dah sikit.. mmg pi weekdays senang skit tp haiz.. tgk ah i seems cant get out of my SHELL!!!
cana im not STRESS???</font>
coz ku confirm susah nak dpt approval nya.. tgk je ah.. silap hari bulan gaduh lagi kang terus tak pi..
lau day trip best gak eh.. tp bila seh.. hmm cuti cam dah sikit.. mmg pi weekdays senang skit tp haiz.. tgk ah i seems cant get out of my SHELL!!!
cana im not STRESS???</font>
momma_naqi
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actually kalau day trip best..ku tak yah bawa hubby n Anaqi..bukan nya apa...skali skali nak pamper myself...
<font color="119911">a'ah leh claim tp nama gue ah.. hehe
so if nak duit balik kena kai nama gue utk book.. hehe unless if we nak chill at hotel ah??
wow sound gr8 seh cam best gitu.. looking forward for it ah..
ah then kena bilang gak in advance eh berapa? hehe maklum ku selalu ad $$$ crisis so if bilang sesiang leh start savings duit dlm tabung
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so if nak duit balik kena kai nama gue utk book.. hehe unless if we nak chill at hotel ah??
wow sound gr8 seh cam best gitu.. looking forward for it ah..
ah then kena bilang gak in advance eh berapa? hehe maklum ku selalu ad $$$ crisis so if bilang sesiang leh start savings duit dlm tabung